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Fancyinheels · 03-22-2016, 10:41 AM

Single, separated, married and bored, divorced, or widowed, arrangements can be very rewarding, cost-effective, and convenient for both sides. Most of the ones I entered into were quite enjoyable. Time becomes much less of an issue, of course, and you can reach levels of intimacy and adventure hard to attain when just seeing a lady an hour or two at a time.

My favorite such liaison was long and lovely, several years, no clock, we became quite close, and had he not unexpectedly passed away, the Irish Chihuahua Refuge may very well have relocated to the sunny surf of Florida upon his retirement. We were shopping for condos.

I miss him, and not just his money.

TheCat'sMeow · 03-22-2016, 11:15 AM

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Who gives a shit what they're called?!? THAT SOUNDS FUCKING AWESOME!!!

If you are single AND have the means, the hell with going the hourly hooker route. I guaran-freakin-tee you if I was in the situation to be able to pull it off, it would be no contest at all.

I rather spend my time grooming a regular 9-5 girl who happens to be a hottie than waste my time with attractive women that don't have any substance and are looking for a meal ticket,,,Looks aren't everything if the person is boring and shallow. The hobby exists to take care of the physical, the rest is up to you and the quality found in the civilian population.

essence · 03-22-2016, 01:27 PM

It can be too simple to put people into categories and little boxes. I have found an enormous range of girls on sites like SA, in their attitude to money. My current friend I haven't given anything to, seeing her for a second time on Thursday, I will probably give her something end of the month, but she isn't asking. Another girl would only allow me to massage her feet unless i paid her more - after paying for her holiday in Florida. Shame, as she was very pretty - video-babe quality.

Any potential FWB who starts to be a princess or have GPS or 'I'm worth it' attitude, I run from.

Of course, it helps to have some game, learnt through many nights in a sc, but also to be a gentleman, these girls are sick of all the guys sending willy pics before they have ever met.

TheCat'sMeow · 03-22-2016, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by essence

It can be too simple to put people into categories and little boxes. I have found an enormous range of girls on sites like SA, in their attitude to money. My current friend I haven't given anything to, seeing her for a second time on Thursday, I will probably give her something end of the month, but she isn't asking. Another girl would only allow me to massage her feet unless i paid her more - after paying for her holiday in Florida. Shame, as she was very pretty - video-babe quality.

Any potential FWB who starts to be a princess or have GPS or 'I'm worth it' attitude, I run from.

Of course, it helps to have some game, learnt through many nights in a sc, but also to be a gentleman, these girls are sick of all the guys sending willy pics before they have ever met.

She isn't asking because she knows that you will end up paying her something,,,You are a gullible just as you are blind,,,You have never had a read FWB experience, a hot girl calling you up just to have sex with you,,,Playing at a strip club does not mean you have game,,,You are playing with hustler whores that you will eventually purchase if you are horny enough,,,Try your "game" at a much more sophisticated, classy environment that has hot women that don't need your money and aren't selling their pussy. Men that send in the naked pics are wankers and perverts or are too young and dumb to know the difference.

essence · 03-22-2016, 04:37 PM

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She isn't asking because she knows that you will end up paying her something,,,You are a gullible just as you are blind,,,You have never had a read FWB experience, a hot girl calling you up just to have sex with you,,,Playing at a strip club does not mean you have game,,,You are playing with hustler whores that you will eventually purchase if you are horny enough,,,Try your "game" at a much more sophisticated, classy environment that has hot women that don't need your money and aren't selling their pussy. Men that send in the naked pics are wankers and perverts or are too young and dumb to know the difference.

Don't forget to take your tablets and save enough for your therapist

TheCat'sMeow · 03-22-2016, 04:44 PM

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Don't forget to take your tablets and save enough for your therapist

^^^^^^^^^^^

essence · 03-22-2016, 04:47 PM

BTW, cats, you joined less than a month ago, have already posted over 180 messages, and come across as a bit of a loud mouth know-it-all.

Try chilling out a bit and listening. You might have better luck with dates, and have less time on your hands.

TheCat'sMeow · 03-22-2016, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by essence

BTW, cats, you joined less than a month ago, have already posted over 180 messages, and come across as a bit of a loud mouth know-it-all.

Try chilling out a bit and listening. You might have better luck with dates, and have less time on your hands.

^^^^^^^

albundy · 03-22-2016, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by essence

BTW, cats, you joined less than a month ago, have already posted over 180 messages, and come across as a bit of a loud mouth know-it-all.

Try chilling out a bit and listening. You might have better luck with dates, and have less time on your hands.

Kind of have to agree. Do you actually bang hookers or are you just hanging out here?

GlobeSpotter · 03-22-2016, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by essence

BTW, cats, you joined less than a month ago, have already posted over 180 messages, and come across as a bit of a loud mouth know-it-all.

Try chilling out a bit and listening. You might have better luck with dates, and have less time on your hands.

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Kind of have to agree. Do you actually bang hookers or are you just hanging out here?

He is a she....dipshits.

albundy · 03-22-2016, 09:30 PM

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He is a she....dipshits.

I deserve that. Looking back at "her" posts, yeah, probably is a chick.

SA Angel · 03-23-2016, 09:45 AM

From my personal experiences.....a real sugar baby DOESN'T know she's a sugar baby until it's pointed out by an outside source or the "you can't see other people but I can because at this point I pay for everything" conversation happens. They can also be transitioned into becoming a real GF or even wife. It is not a quick process getting the arrangement up and going.

Just from observation, many men that say they want a sugar baby just want a provider on retainer at a deep discount.

essence · 03-23-2016, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by SA Angel

From my personal experiences.....a real sugar baby DOESN'T know she's a sugar baby until it's pointed out by an outside source or the "you can't see other people but I can because at this point I pay for everything" conversation happens. They can also be transitioned into becoming a real GF or even wife. It is not a quick process getting the arrangement up and going.

Just from observation, many men that say they want a sugar baby just want a provider on retainer at a deep discount.

Good comments. The general rule is that there is no rule, and most women, from wives to street hookers, expect their man, whether for life or for 5 mins., to look after them in some way. Whether there is an agreed prior arrangement or a more informal understanding can vary. Nothing more expensive than a girl who says she doesn't need anything.

Girls I talk to on SA distance themselves clearly from other pay-per-meet girls on SA. Gosh, escorts on SA, who would believe it?

What you get out depends on what you put in. I put in a lot. Frequently.

Jemma Martin · 03-23-2016, 12:23 PM

A sugar baby is someone who wants to be taken care of rather than meet often for appointments in my opinion. Long term arrangements mean seeing each other on a regular basis like having a regular who you what a set schedule to meet up with. That's my definition of the terms. I could be wrong. I don't know.

essence · 03-23-2016, 03:11 PM

Two things to remember about a sugar baby

a) it isn't sugar
b) she's not a baby

Other than that, anything is possible. For example, some girls advertise on sites like SA but explicitly say they do not want sex. Others say they don;t want sex when you meet them. But they still expect money. They are the worst types.

I've had a couple wanted me to take their virginity, but I declined.

Sometimes they play you for months then decide they are 'religious' and don't want to meet, just want to be friends. But they don't return any gifts you gave them.

I had one wanted to wait 3 months before sex. I obliged. After 3 months I discovered she thought sex meant 10 mins daty and 5 mins fucking.

I had a recent one in Houston, she met me for a meal, and then it turned out she was homeless, all her belongings were in the truck next to the restaurant. I got her a hotel for the night, and then I must have lost my sense of reason.......long story, but I had a puppy crapping all over my apartment a few days later.

Then there are the bad experiences.......

But it seems I am on full time erection duty the next two days, so there are compensations.