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Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti
i see... i didnt realize she was speaking for all
i thought she was ranting about gents w poor hygeine complaining bc of the service
thanks luv..ill check out that link
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Yes, MsPrittiKitti, that is what I was most purturbed by- the fact that she was spewing this all out in the name of all providers AND making a complete generalization about my Texas men.
I agree that poor hygiene sucks all the way around and I also agree that sometimes certain providers perform badly or not at all and the service sucks. Both these issues are true and they do happen and I am sure they happen often. BUT- I think many times these things can be limited and become EXTREMELY rare to have to deal with. Screening helps in many ways because depending on a providers methods- screening CAN AND DOES (by my own experience as proof) weed out SOME undesirables. Second, being polite and confronting the issue in a nice, respectful and understanding way can eliminate the problem altogether.
I have had some visitors who know they need to shower upon arrival and some that just like to no matter if they just came from home having just showered a few minutes earlier. They are just courteous that way and it is also because of the TYPE of people I choose to see. For those who don't shower upon arrival and may smell when we get closer- I will suggest jumping in the shower together or some other methods but in a KIND and respectful way. Hell, they may not know they smell a little --especially down there in the manly area (unless they can reach their noses that far! lol)- YOU never know and so what really is the point about being cruel and mean here. I mean come on- we are adults. Now, if that doesn't work- I'll take the initiative and get creative to try other methods- those don't work? Then it WILL be YMMV or I'll have to kindly ask them to leave and offer a refund of time compensation already paid.
Simple as that. I understand and totally AGREE that sometimes it is just unbearable and gross and also that all circumstances are different-
BUT coming on here in a thread and just bashing
EVERY man in TEXAS
AND claiming to speak the words representing
EVERY provider is libel and slanderous at best and I take offense to it as a provider AND in the name of my most clean, presentable and sweet smelling gentlemen callers.
It is rude and not a very nice thing to do.
This girls' approach was offensive and thus the very reason she acts defensive- that is most obvious. Her statements are intolerable and just a senseless rant to cover up something or get back at someone. It is childish. Even the presentation was lacking.
So that is why, initially, I never replied to the actual message addressed in her post to begin with- after all that crap- it didnt deserve anything more. Period. Really, how do you talk to a person like that? With such an attitude? With such disrespect?
Just Sayin'.
KKA
Happy Holidays Friends!