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CaptainKaos · 10-17-2010, 07:55 PM

I think my question to you, SPJ, is can you disconnect the sex as easily as your SO does?

spjjkh · 10-17-2010, 09:40 PM

Do you mean am I able to dismiss the fact that she is with other men? If that is your question, yes I am. She takes pride in her skills, she appreciates the adoration, her "job" actually reinforces her self esteem and I find it to be kind of a strange turnon realizing that other men find her so desirable.

Sens55 · 10-18-2010, 02:13 AM

I made an ass of myself? OK. You called the girls lazy and said that as guys age they can't fuck and will take any piece of ass they can get. OK.

My "Internet weight", my "internet image"? WTF dude? I'm pretty sure I"ve got a good idea of who I, and who I'm not. And unlike many on here, I don't pretend to be anything other than what I am. I'm not asking a girl to defend me, but I think many would point out if asked that I'm pretty much the same guy here that I am in person...and my "image" of myself is as accurate as anyone's can be.

Hey, you can have whatever opinion you want, even if it doesn't agree with mine. Honest. But don't come on here slamming girls, calling them lazy money grabbers and say that guys "lower standards of attainability as they age" and not expect someone to call BULLSHIT!

Yeah. Now that I read all of this, I realize I did make an assumption you were young. Now that I read it, maybe that talk of guys lowering standards and inabilities was a reflective statement. If so, you have my humblest apology.

thorough9 · 10-18-2010, 04:56 AM

okay. try re-reading the post. "Some" is a word that is entirely diferent from "all". "Some" people take offense to comments that supposedly have nothing to do with them. And here's what image correction means: I used to see a provider, with whom I shared a more intimate relationship in which she started to be more candid with me about the other men that she saw, several of which were reviewing hobbyists. Let's just suffice it to say that most of the reported "poundings" and "unparalled skills" were more like "a few weak pumps" and "I couldn't wait for it to be over". SO, the point is that I can say that i'm Don Juan de Marco, online, and that's just what it is.

And "Some" girls is different from "all" girls. As i'm fully aware that this is the CO-ed discussion area, I'm not stupid enough to walk into this discussion slamming "all" girls, and your weak call to arms "You called the girls lazy and said that as guys age they can't fuck and will take any piece of ass they can get. OK." is just that: Weak. If that's your interpretation, then read your last post and apply the line about reflective statements.

You're starting to remind me of the bully on the playground. You like to throw your opinion around, as if it is irrefutable, and as if you're used to people giving your opinion considerable weight, no pun intended. AND, when that doesn't happen, you revert to mudslinging and BS. Civilized discussion was occurring, and if i'm not wrong, i'm sure that you have the option of placing my posts on your personal "ignore" list. i will not be drawn into a catfight, so......

CaptainKaos · 10-18-2010, 06:38 AM

We don't need to be getting upset about this. So, let's bring this back to the topic at hand, which seems to be the definition of the term GFE and the mindset of the provider who claims to offer it.

alalvin · 10-21-2010, 12:19 AM

The GFE can be different to everybody. To some it is bareback, to others it is kissing (if this is true, the girls in NV won't do), for others it is "can I cum on your face." Each person is gonna have there own idea on what it is. Hell, it might just be talking about the issues of the day.

Sex without a condom is not a GFE. Sex without a condom is serious relationship.

For me a GFE would include kissing, free touching, being able to talk about the days issues, or whatever. And yes, a condom would be there as well.

vitokc · 10-21-2010, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by alalvin

The GFE can be different to everybody. To some it is bareback, to others it is kissing (if this is true, the girls in NV won't do), for others it is "can I cum on your face." Each person is gonna have there own idea on what it is. Hell, it might just be talking about the issues of the day.

Sex without a condom is not a GFE. Sex without a condom is serious relationship.

For me a GFE would include kissing, free touching, being able to talk about the days issues, or whatever. And yes, a condom would be there as well.

Agreed, especially about the condom part. Sex without a condom and not in a serious relationship is plain stupid. Conversation is important I think. When a provider looks at the clock, answers the phone, says very little during the appointment..we've all been there. Not looking to fall in love, just some connection in the short time together.

growler · 10-21-2010, 10:43 AM

Thorough 9....LOL, Were to begin. Have you thought of joining P411. While it's true we all age if we're lucky. We all don't become fat & ugly or settle. As a man in my 5th decade, I do have a wealth of experences to draw from ( some even interesting LOL) I've yet to meet a woman that at her core didn't want to be treated as a lady!....to your post , ah the GFE not sure there is such a thing. It certainly isn't a bunch of acronyms or an upgarde LOL. Nor are you going to attain it in a first encounter. You can feel that spark & if you want to invest the time and effort wonderful things can happen. I can only speck for myself. Weather it's the first or the......time you're with someone. The best experences are unrushed, playful with a sense you're both there by choice only.

sweetlust · 10-21-2010, 11:14 AM

hi sweets here im gfe all the way. (Deleted phone number - please ask your local Mod about VP status if you want to advertise - LaCrew) and im very sweet and lots of fun

kccountryboy · 10-21-2010, 12:20 PM

sweetlust, you may be gfe all the way, but unfortunately, you're not up here in kc for us.

CuteOldGuy · 10-21-2010, 04:08 PM

GFE not exist? They sweet talk you, get you off, take your money, and leave. Sounds GFE to me.

Jordan-Carter · 10-21-2010, 04:42 PM

I seek an affectionate encounter, and if we're compatible, an ongoing relationship. Luckily I've done okay with attracting the right type. It is frustrating when men who clearly like a PSE reach out. No, I don't do just anything for the money, plus reviews make it clear that I'm not PSE material. I guess I can't blame them when the term is used so loosely and there are so many girls willing to be something they are not for the envelope.

Its best for both parties to confirm what is and isn't allowed before the meeting. I don't know about other ladies, but I personally feel bad if I have to say no and can't make my date happy. I'd rather that we be on the same page before we meet.

Good topic!

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Originally Posted by thorough9

GFE has simply become a false advertisement - a catch phrase - to fraudulently draw in those who genuinely want an affectionate encounter.

catnipdipper · 10-22-2010, 06:41 AM

It seems to me that GFE is a term that is used to describe an encounter that has a bit more intimacy and connection.

There has to be a basis of trust that allows the parties to relax and enjoy each other's company.

Sens55 · 10-22-2010, 06:51 AM

Hehe. It's like the difference between "art" and "porn". I can't tell you the difference, but I know it when I see it.

KCQuestor · 10-23-2010, 12:36 AM

There's a difference between art and porn?