It took me 10 minutes to figure out what IOP stood for, lol. I'm glad I have an inquisitive mind, because I ran across
THIS link. The first post on it should be required reading by EVERY escort right before EVERY appointment until the get it. If they don't get it, they really can't be called escorts, they are just a dead fish with a hole to stick it in.
Here is the post:
I enjoy my time when there is:
IOP = Illusion of Passion - when it's done well, I don't wonder whether she enjoyed it or not.
IOH = Illusion of Humor - she laughs at my jokes which makes it seem like we are more connected.
IOE = Illusion of Engagement - she listens attentively, maintains eye contact and doesn't multitask before or after the BCD which makes it seem like her mind is with me as well as her body...
IOA = Illusion of Acceptance - she refrains from judgement regarding looks, performance, real-life circumstances, etc.
IOLV = Illusion of Low Volume - i don't want to have things remind me of how many other guys are seeing her too.
IOI = Illusion of Independence - its very likely that someone other than the provider is going to benefit from the donation. this illusion requires discretion on the providers part: no visible driver, no brand tats and no variety of size 12 nike's lined up along the wall...
Those are the illusions that keep things fun for me and lead me to become a "regular."
-shlub