BNG pros and cons

[ridemcowboy]

A simple hjtc would suffice. Turkey and swiss for me please....

[KinkyFreedMan]

let's see - meatball sub? hummus on toasted wheat. Will stay away from tunafish :-)

[JennsLolli]

I think I have my new business plan for my full time return this summer...

[knotty man]

Slut"skyz"
only 1 thing "goes down" better than a great sandwich and a coke!!

[JennsLolli]

It'd be funny if I were outed by the health department before LE. Not that I'm gross, just that I'm not SafeServe whatever.

[KinkyFreedMan]

Little extra flavorings would probably help (laugh) but the health dept people might not like it!

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by harkontume

I do not like the term bng.
It brings to imagination a line outside the door.
Or a lot of hand work to get to the blow part.

It is not always clear as to the time parameters.

Is it time limited?
15? ( I mean , who can do that ?)
20 ?
30?
60?
Does it turn into an overnight if he doesn't blow?

Also isn't it assumed in every "date" that going will occur?

Going is a good thing.. that way I don't pay rent.


I prefer the term "French Lesson" with a time frame specified.
That way one doesn't get confused and end up in "Alert" section for not doing a proper bng.

Normally a BnG lasts 15 minutes or less (although I'm not a clock watcher), where the French lesson could end up being more like a half hour session depending on the guy.
Personally, I enjoy BBBJ and like pleasing the guy whether with just a simple BnG or more. Even though I do offer BnG appts doesn't mean that I've got a revolving door, nor will I do that. I set aside a minimum of 2 hours no matter what kind of appt, plus only take 2 appts per day on average.

[harkontume]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

Normally a BnG lasts 15 minutes or less (although I'm not a clock watcher), where the French lesson could end up being more like a half hour session depending on the guy.
Personally, I enjoy BBBJ and like pleasing the guy whether with just a simple BnG or more. Even though I do offer BnG appts doesn't mean that I've got a revolving door, nor will I do that. I set aside a minimum of 2 hours no matter what kind of appt, plus only take 2 appts per day on average.

Maybe but it is ill defined and without clarity there is confusion and conflict.

I now know what it means for you but not everyone.

Some mean French only for bng.

I personally cant say Hello and take my shoes off in 15 min.

Maybe an 18 year old with a perceptual hard on can do 15 min .

Sadly or gladly .. I am not 18

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by harkontume

Maybe but it is ill defined and without clarity there is confusion and conflict.

I now know what it means for you but not everyone.

Some mean French only for bng.

I personally cant say Hello and take my shoes off in 15 min.

Maybe an 18 year old with a perceptual hard on can do 15 min .

Sadly or gladly .. I am not 18

Talking and greetings are not included in that time. I have some guys that just get a BnG but are actually here longer because we talk either before or after. But as I said, I'm not a clock watcher either. But normally those that just want a BnG are limited on free time or just need a quick release.