How do you all feel about.....

[shayla84]

Most times if I get no response I will let them know they are not responding and for them to text or get a hold of them and then maybe they will answer.
Would you know it sometimes it works cause of course the girl answers cause she thinks it a session for her so what is she gonna do after answering. And then sometimes it doesn't work, but at least then they know I tried and did all I could do to see them.

[TemptationTammie]

I will give honest references based on my experiences with guys when asked.
For example if I've seen a guy once or twice with no problems and then he's a NCNS, that is what I am gonna say. But if I don't have any problems or even enjoy a client, I will definitely give that information as well.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by shayla84

Ok so I used to get the occasional no text back when I would get a hold of a lady for a reference, but now that I am just a visitor its happening more.

Not only is it not fair to the man (hes not your fucking boyfriend, husband) when he has a ref and they wont help him after they have seen them numerous times and spent there money on them, But its fucking rude and pisses the girl off when your fucking with there business and then all the sudden later they ask you for a ref and expect you to answer.

How do you (provider and hobbiest) feel when this happens, maybe if they started getting called out the guys would know who to start with to be able to get there foot in the door.

I am sorry to rant but its stupid, this is about fun and variety and socializing, and not about which corner is yours. Grow the fuck up and learn to think more highly of your self, these men don't belong to any of us!!!

One more time and I will just start naming names of providers not to contact for a ref or to get your foot in the door.

Again sorry to rant but I have turned down a few people just today because there provider wont answer back at all.

Has this situation improved, or is it time to name some name. Or show some taint?

[Mike Vronsky]

It helps to have reviews. That is what I use for references. Also, seeing providers that you've seen before like Mia Christine or Shayla.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by shayla84

Ok so I used to get the occasional no text back when I would get a hold of a lady for a reference, but now that I am just a visitor its happening more.

Not only is it not fair to the man (hes not your fucking boyfriend, husband) when he has a ref and they wont help him after they have seen them numerous times and spent there money on them, But its fucking rude and pisses the girl off when your fucking with there business and then all the sudden later they ask you for a ref and expect you to answer.

How do you (provider and hobbiest) feel when this happens, maybe if they started getting called out the guys would know who to start with to be able to get there foot in the door.

I am sorry to rant but its stupid, this is about fun and variety and socializing, and not about which corner is yours. Grow the fuck up and learn to think more highly of your self, these men don't belong to any of us!!!

One more time and I will just start naming names of providers not to contact for a ref or to get your foot in the door.

Again sorry to rant but I have turned down a few people just today because there provider wont answer back at all.

Your case is a little different. You used to walk the streets before Toyz took you in and turned you into a ECCIE whore set you loose here. There is no shortage of ladies that have extreme negative opinions of street walkers and their clients. Guys here that saw SWs have had issues getting seen in the past.


BUT... that being said... Why not just name the names rather than making a useless threat here in CoEd? Part of what men expect in this community when they pay is a future reference.

[inspector farquar]

Who died and left him spokesman?

[shayla84]

Lol I have no idea, talk about stalkers he does this every timei come to town. He has it in his head that I walked the streets when I ask actuality most of the guys know that I was brought in to this by a former provider (who I don't think is on here any more) and then I moved out her house and started on my own... Shit she wasn't much better then walking the streets, I would have probably done better doing that Lol but to the provider who must not be named even though she was a twat, I'm appreciative to have been welcomed in this hobby.
Whispers dear get a life, quit stalking me, jeez I run through your mind allot baby.