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ForumPoster · 05-20-2012, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

I agree if you offer dinner packages and someone takes you up on it then you are "on" as you put it, but to mention are you relaxed when we are on a businees lunch I imagine we are as relaxed as you are on a provider date since your putting on your "A" game as you put it. When the dinner is off the clock as I have experienced there is not game at all just real appetites with two people talking about whatever. When I was on off the clock dinners with a couple of providers the profession never came up. Just real bullshit. There is a difference.

Oh I agree, OFF the clock you get the real girl with her real bullshit

Lina

seductivesarah · 05-20-2012, 10:42 PM

Remember fellas we are a hired companion, we get paid for our time. So if all you want is desert then eat just desert!!!!

Say What · 05-20-2012, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

When I am out of town, I try to book a 2 hour date at the proivders' usual 2 hour rate. I request a one hour bcd appetizer, followed by a relaxing off the clock dinner at a nice restaurant (not Burger King!). Then we cap the evening with one hour bcd dessert. The timing matches my libido, so to speak.

I offer this arrangement to the provider in detail so there will be no misunderstanding. The only provider that wanted $$ for dinner was in Dallas, and I thanked her but went elsewhere... no hard feelings.

JME.

Huck

Huck,

I like the idea...especially on out of town business trips. I'm often there by myself, so the dinner company would be nice. Do you have much success with this approach?

Ladies,

Does something like Huck's arrangement interest you? Appetizer in the room, dinner somewhere nice, and dessert back at the room? Would you consider that a deal at your two hour rate? Or, do you have a non-BCD rate that would be applied?

waverunner234 · 05-21-2012, 01:44 AM

Diner? always possible.
But off the clock

Iron Clad · 05-21-2012, 02:13 AM

WTH. I would be open to having dinner. Why not, nice dinner with a nice hot woman, hell yeah. Is she paying? LOL J/K

urhuckleberry · 05-21-2012, 05:08 AM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

I agree if you offer dinner packages and someone takes you up on it then you are "on" as you put it, but to mention are you relaxed when we are on a businees lunch I imagine we are as relaxed as you are on a provider date since your putting on your "A" game as you put it. When the dinner is off the clock as I have experienced there is not game at all just real appetites with two people talking about whatever. When I was on off the clock dinners with a couple of providers the profession never came up. Just real bullshit. There is a difference.

+1

Exactly.

The first time I did this, it was suggested by the provider (in south Texas). Since then, I have requested the arrangement when I am seeking a multi-hour date. The lady has the absolute right to decline if it doesn't fit her business plan... certainly no hard feelings on my part...

Maybe I'm so charming, the ladies can't resist... (or maybe the provider just enjoys a nice dinner with an older gentleman).

Huck

Ed Highlight · 05-21-2012, 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

+1

Exactly. ..... The lady has the absolute right to decline if it doesn't fit her business plan... certainly no hard feelings on my part...

Maybe I'm so charming, the ladies can't resist... (or maybe the provider just enjoys a nice dinner with an older gentleman).

Huck

I've had dinner with Huck (see below)...He is pretty friggin' charming......you had me at "Rib-eye".....
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178972

pickupkid · 05-21-2012, 05:29 AM

But why is there an "A" game if we pay for company for dinner then if don't pay you there is a "B" game?

ForumPoster · 05-22-2012, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Say What

Huck,

I like the idea...especially on out of town business trips. I'm often there by myself, so the dinner company would be nice. Do you have much success with this approach?

Ladies,

Does something like Huck's arrangement interest you? Appetizer in the room, dinner somewhere nice, and dessert back at the room? Would you consider that a deal at your two hour rate? Or, do you have a non-BCD rate that would be applied?

Yes, if he books two one hour sessions with me at my one hour rate each, I will do OTC dinner in between

Lina

Kurrin Beverly · 05-23-2012, 10:27 AM

Dinner dates are my favorite. I love to enjoy some flirting and teasing before retiring back to our privacy.

Gotyour6 · 05-23-2012, 11:27 AM

Took one out for drinks and it was great. It was more like a night off for her.

Would love to ask her again but not sure if it would be out of bounds or not

No sex was wanted and no expectations. Just a nice bullshit session.

I did pay for her child care though

JDNorthface · 05-23-2012, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Kurrin Beverly

Dinner dates are my favorite. I love to enjoy some flirting and teasing before retiring back to our privacy.

Agreed. My favorite as well. They become even more enjoyable when I've seen the lady before. Just the familiarity factor, I suppose. And always at the hotel restaurant for me, or one in the immediate area.

My counsel? Gentlemen, be sure the lady understands that YOU understand that dinner is also paid companionship. When the expectations are understood upfront, both relax a bit more and the friendship formed over dinner almost always makes for a better dessert.

The easiest way is simply to book a four hour session and suggest that it begin with dinner. I will then mention that "I regret that I must wind up our date around 10:00pm." Never had a problem.

Say What · 05-24-2012, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

Yes, if he books two one hour sessions with me at my one hour rate each, I will do OTC dinner in between

Lina

I think that's great! I have had meals with a couple of providers OTC and, I agree, it makes the BCD activities far more enjoyable. Obviously, I expect to pay for dinner (somewhere nice) and I believe a tip is probably in order, as she could easily offer this time to another client at her full rate. It's this type of relationship that will keep me rescheduling with the same provider...even when there are many others to choose from.

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Originally Posted by Kurrin Beverly

Dinner dates are my favorite. I love to enjoy some flirting and teasing before retiring back to our privacy.

Yes, the flirty back and forth makes for a great evening. It's relaxing and sexy. I know a few guys that only see ladies that they have chatted with because of the familiarity that carries over BCD. I'm not necessarily that type of client, but I definitely enjoyed the 'get to know you' portion of my OTC time. By the way, I'll be in Houston next month for a conference...just sayin'!

Kurrin Beverly · 05-25-2012, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Say What

Yes, the flirty back and forth makes for a great evening. It's relaxing and sexy. I know a few guys that only see ladies that they have chatted with because of the familiarity that carries over BCD. I'm not necessarily that type of client, but I definitely enjoyed the 'get to know you' portion of my OTC time. By the way, I'll be in Houston next month for a conference...just sayin'!

Have fun while you're here in Houston!!!