I like NBA Policies

[Claire She Blows]

OMG, WITH!! Lol!!

[mrhamm]

Someone find a blind provider and tell me what their preference is.

If a provider has a prejudice, they need post it in their ads, showcase and signature as well as screening their clients up front.

If you are going to be racist, at least be upfront about it.

[GneissGuy]

Originally Posted by BadBoris

I have since tried to add more clues to my profile that clearly identifies me as AA, but really... should I have to introduce myself each time as AA? Just seems a bit tiring to me. Seems to me that if you are going to place limits, you should clearly identify them.

You could replace "Premium Access" in your posts with "African American" or just put "I'm AA" in text over your avatar.

You shouldn't have to do that, but you could. Of course some of the dim bulb providers might miss that, too.

You could use the "magnificent specimen of pure Alabama blacksnake" line on her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyGOJ1_kcI8

[JennsLolli]

Originally Posted by mrhamm

Someone find a blind provider and tell me what their preference is.

If a provider has a prejudice, they need post it in their ads, showcase and signature as well as screening their clients up front.

If you are going to be racist, at least be upfront about it.

Exactly. And if you're going to be racist, don't call it a "preference." I don't know how one would tactfully say "Oh, umm, I didn't know you were black. Yeah, about that. See, the thing is..." By this original post alone Boris has shown that he's respectful as a hobbyist, so I don't really get it. It's his job to be respectful and to provide screening info and show up on time. It's her job to screen race or clearly signal her rule if it's a deal-breaker for her.

[playingnthedark]

The provider should put her Racist (NBA) policy in her ad or showcase PERIOD. She is the one offering a service with restrictions. Then its very easy for a AA hobbyist to just move on, base on her ad/showcase.

[BadBoris]

Originally Posted by GneissGuy

You could replace "Premium Access" in your posts with "African American" or just put "I'm AA" in text over your avatar. ...

I like this idea, although I think I'll be a bit more creative.

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by BadBoris

I like this idea, although I think I'll be a bit more creative.

Chocolate covered - I love it!! Lol!

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by mrhamm

Someone find a blind provider and tell me what their preference is.

If a provider has a prejudice, they need post it in their ads, showcase and signature as well as screening their clients up front.

If you are going to be racist, at least be upfront about it.

+1

[Annef]

Originally Posted by BadBoris

I like this idea, although I think I'll be a bit more creative.

Track suit and Fedora, please. Recent thread on the same topic, or thereabouts

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=878422

Have the same feelings about the word "preference".

[RALPHEY BOY]

does anyone ever stop and think that its not her but her SO or Husband or whomever she is with??

[Guest021716-4]

I don't care if a man is purple as long as you are nice, respectful and cleanly! The ONLY issue might be size. I know that, in itself, probably sounds racist or something, but I don't mean it to be. In my experience, most AA men I have seen are VERY well endowed. My equipment is only about 6 or 7 inches deep! It's just how I am built. Anything over 7 to 8 and it starts to hurt.

I would hate for someone to be dissapointed if I couldn't give my best bbbj either. So, for me, I think the rule should be...if you have exceptionally large long equipment you should mention that! Black, white or purple!

And if someone showed up at my incall in a pimp suit, whatever color they were.... I'd probably do em' for free! That would just be the shit!!

[Taurus99]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

does anyone ever stop and think that its not her but her SO or Husband or whomever she is with??

+1

Bingo...

there are even providers out there that have an nba policy yet still have an aa boyfriend/manager...ijs

[BadBoris]

Sorry folks. I really did not intend to make this thread about race or racism, it was more about communication and how to prevent frustrating situations. I don't want anyone to infer from my thread that is think the provider is racist, I truly think it is helpful to have your preferences listed so that as a hobbyist, I can avoid those Providers that I may not be "compatible" with. There are many wonderful providers and I have found myself compatible with many. I just don't like my time being wasted.

Thanks for all the great tips and the witty banter - there are some sharp tacks in this play pen.

As I also don't like animal cruelty, let me say the horse is dead.

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by BadBoris

As I also don't like animal cruelty, let me say the horse is dead.

I wish more folks around here felt the same way - this place would be that much more hospitable. *sigh*

[GneissGuy]

Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

I don't care if a man is purple as long as you are nice, respectful and cleanly!

Let me recommend that you turn the guy down if he's purple.

He's either really sick or you're about to be abducted by a UFO.