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Originally Posted by GigiGabore
So a lot of girls advertise for PSE but offer no cim, no swallowing, and no backdoor play...
I'm wondering if guys expect these activities when requesting pse?
Is this a dumb question?
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I've haven't noticed this in my area.
I think those are all activities that would be expected from a PSE provider.
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Originally Posted by GigiGabore
I don't up charge for who I am and what comes naturally to me. I realize most will. I don't even add for greek. Why add for something I LOVE to do.
I'm just wondering what you guys expect when you read "pse" in the ad
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I realize you are only speaking for yourself.. but just for perspective for clients in the forum, I want to flesh out why myself and many others do "upcharge" for PSE and why it can sometimes seem like a lot.
I also love to do these things, and I greatly prefer PSE sessions to GFE ones... because I have an intense appetite and natural inclination for those things. But usually they require extra preparation on my part. I'm not sure how you view your work, but I look at it like a client is paying for my time with the expectation that I will take care of his needs. If I am expecting a PSE session I usually eat a lot lighter, do an enema, bring my full toy kit, wear racier lingerie, etc. Besides BBFS and a few hard limits, most everything is on the table for me and I have to conduct myself accordingly. If a gentleman unloads on my hair, ruins my dress, or bruises me (intentionally or unintentionally) etc. etc. those are losses that I have to keep in mind. If there is another woman or another man involved, that's another person I have to make comfortable and offer amenities/services to- making a wife comfortable for FMF and doing DP in MFM are not easy feats. Even for something simple like Greek, my booty being the most attention grabbing thing from clients, some men get carried away with it. I had an appointment that once left me with a giant bruise on my butt from a spanking... I couldn't see anyone for at least a week until I could massage it out! But also, a lot of *my* PSE appointments are BDSM, fetish/kink, roleplay and fantasy focused. So I have to get the costumes, the equipment, etc.