Provider Racism

[Randall Creed]

And there you have it.

That last line of his REALLY drives home the bulk of my previous post, I would say.

But opinions are like...

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by friendly fred

I put her at age 34 or 35 and while I do not think her attire was inappropriate it does enable me to see that at that young an age she must be making poor nutritional choices to have her body shape which as I understand is pleasing to some but her BMI must be approaching 30 - which elevates the chance for lifestyle diseases and is considered overweight.

Oh, but we see fat doctors all the time. Hell, I've seen doctors that are fat, doctors that smoke, etc. Just because they KNOW what's best for the human body, doesn't mean they always follow it themselves. They are human, after all, and are subject to the pitfalls of temptation and self degradation like the rest of us.

That said, I've never seen a dentist with bad teeth.

Sorry for drifting off topic...well, responding to someone who drifted off topic.




Speaking of being human, we're ALL the same species in the hobby. It's not like I'm a lion, and want to bang a zebra. I could totally understand a female zebra going to a male lion, "Dude, this can't happen. We're totally different species. Yes, I know I'm a hot zebra, but...come on."

Skin color is just a dynamic of biology and genetics, regional geology, and cultural influences. We all eat, sleep, breathe, and die just about the same ways. Take away our skin and you couldn't tell us apart.

We're even MORE alike based on locality, common interests, and networking...which is what boards like this is. It'd be one thing if black guys weren't members of this board (vs say, some guy off the street). I, like others, have been here forever, is a born and raised American, understand and speak the same language, and have other measurable commonality. It's not like we're flying in from Chile or the Philippines, or Congo, or China, and want an appointment with an NBA chick.

Then again, guys from these places CAN fly in from these countries, and be in greater favor with NBA girls, and get an appointment. Hell, a joker from the Middle East, or India, Greece, or Russia, any of whom can possibly hate Americans, speak broken English, can fly in and get an appointment with an NBA provider, bang her, cum in her, go back home and scream death to America, can see an NBA chick...and I, born and raised American, can't.

Let that sink in.

[Sigh] I've said enough for today. Thanks for reading.

[VeryClean]

Randall, you're aggressively using the race card and victim card but the reality is, you're pretty racist yourself. You don't care if ECCIE providers are racist and don't see certain types of guys..as long as they see black guys. Let's be real here.

For example, there are some providers who will see black men but won't see other types of nonwhite men like east asian men, south asian (indian) men, latino men, middle eastern men etc. You have no problem with that and in fact encourage it. It makes you happy that those ladies will see black men but not those other types of men. I know because I've read your past posts. Now granted, providers who don't see black men are much more common than providers who don't see these other types of nonwhite men but they're still out there.

Plus, remember that very hateful racist post you made about ALL white people just a few months ago in the Coed forum? Again I repeat, your past posts make it crystal clear that you have no problem being racist towards white people or other types of nonwhite people who are not black. So don't expect us to feel sorry for you now because you're upset about NBA providers.

Also, I don't know if you purposely choose not to read other people's posts in this thread but if you had, you would know that plenty of NBA providers don't see black guys for reasons other than racism. The NBA provider could have a black manager/black boyfriend who forbids her from having black clients. The NBA provider may have heard from lots of other providers about black men being pimps and aggressive and therefore decided not to meet black men for her own safety. Or she's heard that black men have big packages so she doesn't want to get worn out. In fact, I would guess that more than half of NBA providers are not racist towards black men. Heck, you have lots of black providers who don't see black men either.

As for your point about foreigners and other types of nonwhite men getting to meet NBA providers...well they have to pass screening first just like anyone else. They need to have recent reputable references or they don't pass the screening. So it's not easy for them to meet NBA providers like you make it out to be.

Randall, I have no negative feelings towards you but I had to call you out on your hypocrisy about this racism issue.

[goodolboy]

I see more black providers with a NBA policy than white providers. Again, are they now racist? A black provider told me her NBA policy existed because of multiple problems with black clients. Most with a NBA policy, including black providers, only apply it on younger black men, typically under 30. I can only assume they have their reasons and are not just "racist" with younger men.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by goodolboy

I see more black providers with a NBA policy than white providers. Again, are they now racist? A black provider told me her NBA policy existed because of multiple problems with black clients. Most with a NBA policy, including black providers, only apply it on younger black men, typically under 30. I can only assume they have their reasons and are not just "racist" with younger men.

Let's do a list, side by side, and see how truthful you are.

[friendly fred]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Oh, but we see fat doctors all the time. Hell, I've seen doctors that are fat, doctors that smoke, etc. Just because they KNOW what's best for the human body, doesn't mean they always follow it themselves. They are human, after all, and are subject to the pitfalls of temptation and self degradation like the rest of us.

That said, I've never seen a dentist with bad teeth.

Speaking of being human, we're ALL the same species in the hobby.

Yes you make a fair point.

[dgribble]

I kind of thought it was more about the fact that certain ethnic groups were more hung than others, and could therefore result in more pain. I was probably very wrong on that assumption.

[grean]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

fred, just because she has junk in the trunk, doesn't mean she has junk in her diet.

she's a black woman.. a thick, shit brickhouse black woman. God makes some of them naturally, and they can be a source of great pleasure if you allow it.

+1

I prefer a little junk in the trunk.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by dgribble

I kind of thought it was more about the fact that certain ethnic groups were more hung than others, and could therefore result in more pain. I was probably very wrong on that assumption.

Well, I must've been in the wrong line when they were handing out huge wangs.

Or, I was in the right line, and they just ran out by the time I got to the front...which would be a microcosm of about how things go for me in life, unfortunately.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by goodolboy

Most with a NBA policy, including black providers, only apply it on younger black men, typically under 30. I can only assume they have their reasons and are not just "racist" with younger men.

good point.. one can reasonably infer that behavior is the metric behind the policy, not to mention it has been told to me by a number of black providers, directly.

another point. best believe that the providers who openly post an NBA policy of any kind, will get hateful texts sent as a result. the providers must have strong NBA feelings to openly reject certain guys, knowing a backlash is headed their direction. of course, that backlash in turn ratifies the initial policy.

[friendly fred]

Originally Posted by grean

+1

I prefer a little junk in the trunk.

Not me - I like them lean and light.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by friendly fred

Not me - I like them lean and light.

who knew?

you finally ditched California? are you here for good?

sorry for the little social post, LOL.. but y'all have to admit, the Racism banter is a bit long in the tooth

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

good point.. one can reasonably infer that behavior is the metric behind the policy, not to mention it has been told to me by a number of black providers, directly.

another point. best believe that the providers who openly post an NBA policy of any kind, will get hateful texts sent as a result. the providers must have strong NBA feelings to openly reject certain guys, knowing a backlash is headed their direction. of course, that backlash in turn ratifies the initial policy.

They get hateful texts, PM's, etc...FROM WHITE GUYS. Ladies that aren't NBA get called *****R lovers, and worse (whatever worse is), not to mention threats to their well being or outed.

Oh, but we never hear about that. Many of these fist pumpers are the culprits doing it. Too bad they're too pussyfoot to open about it. This, of course, means they're ashamed of who they really are inside.

That's why they wear hoods, too.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

They get hateful texts, PM's, etc...FROM WHITE GUYS. Ladies that aren't NBA get called *****R lovers, and worse (whatever worse is), not to mention threats to their well being or outed.

Oh, but we never hear about that. Many of these fist pumpers are the culprits doing it. Too bad they're too pussyfoot to open about it. This, of course, means they're ashamed of who they really are inside.

That's why they wear hoods, too.

to say this with conviction, the lady that does receive this kind of text must really advertise that she sees black guys.. I would think. surely a non-race specific ad wouldn't attract KKK wanna-be's who would send racists texts because they don't see NBA specifically mentioned.. right? it would be a stretch to say that, IMO.

you easily changed the subject, though.. NBA ads from black providers are not uncommon, and they do receive hate texts, from presumably black guys.. nobody can be certain the guys are black, but credulity lends itself to that conclusion.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Well, I must've been in the wrong line when they were handing out huge wangs.

Or, I was in the right line, and they just ran out by the time I got to the front...which would be a microcosm of about how things go for me in life, unfortunately.

From my extensive experience; hands on and eyes on; in both of my careers, as an RN and and as a provider; I have seen a lot of peens. Average size is 6 inches give or take an inch. There's no statistical difference between white and black mem. The white men tend to "shrink" when they are not excited. Black men tend to remain the same size, whether flaccid or engorged. Of course every single man is a different, unique individual.

But in a locker room, it would appear to the men, (with no hard ons I hope), that the black gentlemen are bigger than the white gentlemen. But when they are fully engorged, I've never noticed much of a difference. And science also agrees, I don't have the sources to cite now, but Google it. And I have kissed the rainbow. So obviously I'm not racist.

I have been discriminated in the RW for being a woman and therefore "less than" a man. Also as an escort whenever I see a member post about "stupid whores, hooker logic, hooker math, they just want your money, the hos don't care about you, (not true),". None of that is true. I also was dumped by my friends, good friends I thought, when I finally thought I could open up and be truthful with him about what I was doing. So no friends except my clients who were mostly wonderful men. And ladies on here that I can talk to. The two men (former clients), I chose to spend my life with treated me like a lady and were grateful I said yes to their proposals. The first one didn't work out after 15 mths, but not related to my life before him. I'm hoping the second one does.

In my private life before becoming a provider, I had only had experience with mainly white men, a few black men and one eastern Indian man. In my experience as a provider, I've had experience with many, many different ethnic groups. And some white clients didn't like that. Early in my Eccie career I got an email or PM from some handle, I think it was Lickerlicense. He merely asked if I saw black men. I wrote back that I saw anyone who passed my screening and was polite and respectful and clean. He wrote back
something like you're dirty then! No decent white man will see you now, so good to know you're contaminated. I won't ever see you, I don't go where they go. Just paraphrasing the hateful things he said to me. Later on I learned he does that to every new provider. It's his hobby. Being hateful to new providers.

And I had one good regular white client, who explained to me that it would probably be a good idea to have a No AA policy, as more upscale white professional men would see me. I never saw him again and of course I never did that. I relied on screening, and letting it be known I preferred mature gentlemen over 35-40. But MILFS get hit on by every single age group. From 18-95. If I man talked "thuggish" or couldn't put two sentences together I skipped him. It's easy to get the clientele you want from screening, than just outright advertising that you don't see a certain group.

In my extensive experience, the biggest phalluses I've seen have belonged to a few white men I've met. But I've also met a few black guys who are very large. But I've had to turn away more white guys for their size than any other race. I even used to advertise that I can't accommodate any oversize men as my pelvic area is unusually small and tight. But it didn't stop them from trying. I LOVE Asian men, some of my best clients. And just not because they tend to be medium to small.

Racism is wrong, and many ladies just don't know any better. It's very easy to tell when a pimp contacts you, so don't see him. Don't see thugs. No problem.