Guys, How do you feel about pregnant providers?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

What's so different than a married woman continuing to f*ck her husband (or a single woman the father) that a lady continuing in the hobby after getting pregnant? None.

Most of the time you make good arguments but this is really silly.

Really?

A married woman continuing to fuck her hubby while preggerz and a provider doing it? Um .. A married woman is fucking her husband and a pregnant PROVIDER is fucking random men on a daily basis ---- WITH another human being inside of her. Do you not get that part? Why can't she continue to fuck the man that got her preggerz and have HIM support the both of them? Since when did the hobby become an alternative to WIC? Enough said.

You have your opinion and I have mine.

[Sweet N Little]

Gotta agree with Naomi, HUGE difference.

[shorty]

It has crossed my mind how many preggo ladies do get asked to BB clients. The guys are thinking she's already BB someone and she's pregnant, so I can't get her pregnant.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Gotta agree with Naomi, HUGE difference.

Ditto. +1 Naomi.

[Ansley]

I'm pretty amazed at all the high and mighty attitudes that people have towards this subject. Besides providing, I imagine lots of women don't have other choices. We never know what obstacles other women in this business face day to day. Not only does she have to take care of herself, she now has the stress of providing care for an unborn. It's sad that compassion is so hard to find around here.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by shorty

It has crossed my mind how many preggo ladies do get asked to BB clients. The guys are thinking she's already BB someone and she's pregnant, so I can't get her pregnant.

Eh I'm sure they're all practicing safe sex (We love our lives right?). I really just want to know why they do it and what others find so appealing about it.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I'm pretty amazed at all the high and mighty attitudes that people have towards this subject. Besides providing, I imagine lots of women don't have other choices. We never know what obstacles other women in this business face day to day. Not only does she have to take care of herself, she now has the stress of providing care for an unborn. It's sad that compassion is so hard to find around here.

High and mighty? It's called having a strong conviction. Women don't have other choices? BULL SHIT! They're doing this because they want to (the majority). If they wanted to go out and get real jobs, they could.
Besides there is enough birth control out there that there is no excuse to get pregnant when you're not planning for it. How about some compassion to the potential new born?

[pickupkid]

And so If she is pregnant from her So ....she is not allowed to make a living doing her job...if men still want her?

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I'm pretty amazed at all the high and mighty attitudes that people have towards this subject. Besides providing, I imagine lots of women don't have other choices. We never know what obstacles other women in this business face day to day. Not only does she have to take care of herself, she now has the stress of providing care for an unborn. It's sad that compassion is so hard to find around here.

Ever hear of birth control? Obviously she didn't or she wouldn't be pregnant, now would she?

[hobbyist1]

Originally Posted by Shayla

High and mighty? It's called having a strong conviction. Women don't have other choices? BULL SHIT! They're doing this because they want to (the majority). If they wanted to go out and get real jobs, they could.
Besides there is enough birth control out there that there is no excuse to get pregnant when you're not planning for it. How about some compassion to the potential new born?

Ditto, Shayla. I agree with you 100%. There's always other choices. And if she has to do this to make a living then obviously it's not a very wise time to get pregnant, now is it? Talk about poor planning and timing. She definitely has her priorities all screwed up! Let alone the fact how does she know for sure it's her bf's baby? Condoms do break. I know if I was in her bf's shoes I would always wonder who the father of the child is.

[Naomi4u]

Everyone has the right to their own opinion. Yes.

However, "NO choice"?

We all have a choice but this is what we CHOOSE to do.

The woman in the remote village in a 3rd world country may have no choice, those that live in countries where such things as "credit" and "government assistance" do not exist may have no choice. When you're in America and you have No choice? It's no one's fault but your own. Take it from a girl that isn't from here and and learned how to make it on her own.

I have said it 5 times this week already and I will say it again - There is no such thing as compassion when it comes to pussy. To see the word "Compassion" on an escort board makes me want to barf.

I don't see the appeal so without personal attacks I would like to know why one finds fucking a woman that is carrying the baby of another man - Appealing?

A lot of us have BEEN in that situation AND did NOT provide during that time out of respect for the unborn child.

I have an image stuck in my head - One being pregnant sitting beside their hubby/boyfriend and him saying "Did you post that ad on backpage yet".

Is that how it goes?

[Laz]

I do not find pregnant women more or less attractive. However, I agree that it would be best for them not to provide while pregnant not because of the physical act of sex but because of the risk of disease. The baby did not make the choice and the mother needs to protect the baby. Being old and a guy my opinion has less meaning but that is my two cents.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Laz

However, I agree that it would be best for them not to provide while pregnant not because of the physical act of sex but because of the risk of disease. The baby did not make the choice and the mother needs to protect the baby. Being old and a guy my opinion has less meaning but that is my two cents.

Exactly what I'm saying.

Of course a woman is even more beautiful when she's pregnant but why put the baby at risk/
why drag the baby into such situation?/Why?

Any care to answer? I'd like to hear from some pregnant providers.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Exactly what I'm saying.

Of course a woman is even more beautiful when she's pregnant but why put the baby at risk/
why drag the baby into such situation?/Why?

Any care to answer? I'd like to hear from some pregnant providers.

Good luck on getting some pregnant providers to respond to this thread without the fear of being flamed for their decision to still provide or not!

[acp5762]

Holy mackeral, another long haired thread. Well heres my reply to this and some of you might want to take cover. First of all I have never seen a pregnant provider and don't intend to. This cliche being stated " To Each His Own" is really a stupid statement to make on a subject like this. It's bad enough that this activity is already a bit risky in so many ways as it is, but to seek or to condone having sex with a pregnant women ya don't even know or who she's been with really doesn't put you at the top of the food chain. Another point that bothers me and should be considered. In her condition is she still willing to continue escorting or is there possibly a second party forcing her to continue seeing clients. If that is the case anyone who would see her is contributing whether they realize it or not to her situation. Then of course on the flip side if she is totally fine with seeing clients she could be endangering the health of her unborn child. Lets face it no one is really gonna be thinking about any consequences that could occur. Above all else it is a moral issue. The only pregnant women anyone should or want to be intimate with is the one you got pregnant.