Kitty Lamour

[Kayleehotchick]

I like your way of thinking, TX Noob.
;-)

[BigButtLover1]

[QUOTE=Kayleehotchick;105409792 7]Follow ORDERS?????!!!!!!!!!! FOLLOW ORDERS? Who the hell do you think you are?

Some dude starts ordering me around, he would earn him a "f*ck you and get kick out of my incall. Not only wouldn't be touching my head, you wouldn't be touching jack shit!

Follow ORDERS my ass....

I haven't even read this thread yet but some dude getting on here bitching because a provider wont "follow orders" is the most messed up thing I've ever seen.

[/QUOTE

Well if you're giving some fast, dry ass, passionless head and a client ask you to slow down and make it wet, you need to do it. No one is talking about making someone a slave, but damn, if I want it slow and wet, do it. If not, I'll leave. What's so wrong about that?

[KittyLamour]

I have other obligations besides just rent. Don't we all? Nobody wants to stress and not be able to make enough to maintain your lifestyle. I have things I had hoped to start saving for, and I don't think it's necessary to present an expense account here. My rent is paid. That does not mean that I am now able to relax.

Yeah, I spent too much on things for the apartment and 60" tv's etc. I moved in with everything I owned in one gym bag. I have built my home from scratch and it felt pretty damn good to have a home of my own to fix up.

When I spent the money I was not planning on getting hit with another tsunami right after BLT's crap finally ended. That's life. Bad timing. I have decided that the truth is that "Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."

Ciao,
KL

[KittyLamour]

Feel free to pm me.

[SD2011]

And don't forget...

[Lindsay Lee]

Kitty...... Please! Let it go. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Work on you. Please find peace in your heart and realize all you need to do is work on you. Everyone deserves chances...... Second.... Third... Some maybe more. All its going to do is hurt your spirit to comment on these threads. Work on Kitty.. Come back a d show everyone what a fighter you are... Actions speak louder than words. I've never met you, but I'm a woman and could never imagine going through this ridicule...... Deserved or not.

[Lindsay Lee]

Oh, and ONE MORE thing.... We have a huge epidemic if bullies, and it's not just in our schools!! Do you want to EVER be the cause of someone ending their life because they can't take it any more??????


Think about it. It can happen and it happens all the time because of bullies.

[Tx Noob]

That's Better.....

[threepeckeredbillygoat]

I agree Lindsay, in schools, where a child is forced by law to go and can not get away from it. But I wouldn't put this in that same category. Otherwise it would be a free for all because nobody would be held accountable for any of their actions as a grown person for fear of hurting their feelings.

[Lindsay Lee]

What a heart TX Noob

[Lindsay Lee]

It's the out right meanness that I don't understand.

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

It's the out right meanness that I don't understand.

Very True. And yes it is really really sad.

[Kayleehotchick]

[/QUOTE

Well if you're giving some fast, dry ass, passionless head and a client ask you to slow down and make it wet, you need to do it. No one is talking about making someone a slave, but damn, if I want it slow and wet, do it. If not, I'll leave. What's so wrong about that?[/QUOTE] Buttlover1


Nothing....

But you didn't say it that way, you said "orders" so the word "orders" is all I had to go by...

"Orders" fly about as well as "dry ass passionless head". "Asking" and "Orders" are two different things. Now you are saying you asked were as before you said "orders". So your story changed a little bit here.

By all means, if a client "asks" for something then yes, he should be respected and taken care of in the correct way in order to make sure he has a great session.

I'm all about a good time and respect.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

It's the outright meanness that I don't understand.

That's probably because you are nice.

I'll take a stab at it for you though. Say you are unhappy with your lot in life, a little down on.yourself, or just a bit socially awkward and seek the approval of some group. You join the group, pile on, and kick KL around.

So while it is outright meanness it is understandable. KL, has for better or worse, made herself a fairly easy target for this behavior. People who are down on themselves feel better by attacking KL. It's a sick side of human nature, and there is a lot of it here. While I feel pretty awful for KL, I gotta keep out of it all. It's too messy.

The behavior seen though, I get. The internet is actually the ideal domain for this behavior. You can really attack someone visciously on.the internet without fear of getting your windpipe busted. In reality, this type of behavior has a huge risk, the internet removes all risk.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Very True. And yes it is really really sad.

I don't think sad is sufficient to dedcribe this behavior. I prefer to call it insensitive, inhuman, despicable and downright cowardly.

But, what do I know?