Engaged Hobbyist - His fiance found out!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by LynnT

Not saying you "shouldn't " see a hooker, hello Im a Hooker! or a "hooktard" Just assume the responsibility of putting yourself at risk.

And so be it for you. Too bad, Id do my best to rock your world too! Shall we visit for Christmas and I wear my fun Santa suit? I just bought one.. Wait suit? I mean my tiny Santa outfit.

The bottom line is the reality of the business, not just me. Its risky and you chose to take the risk or not. All of us do for one reason or another.

Lets go to the hole and work this out.

Heres part of your comment
You play its a chance you take, its your own fault if you get outed, you shouldn't be seeing hookers, "

If you want to recant that then we can talk>
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[Still Looking]

A provider goes in to have new tires put on her car. The tire place is crowned. Suddenly, a voice. "Hey aren't you that hooker I saw last summer? Yah, I know its you! How've you been?" And I guess that would be OK also, since thats the price you pay for being an escort!?

[burkalini]

Still you just have a way with words.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

A provider goes in to have new tires put on her car. The tire place is crowned. Suddenly, a voice. "Hey aren't you that hooker I saw last summer? Yah, I know its you! How've you been?" And I guess that would be OK also, since thats the price you pay for being an escort!?

+1.

[simpleton]

Lynn, I want to see those fun hot red shoes!You should go south(Cypress,Texas) for the winter and get out of the snow and cold. It comes down to three little letters cya

Cover your ass.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by LynnT

Not saying you "shouldn't " see a hooker, hello Im a Hooker! or a "hooktard" Just assume the responsibility of putting yourself at risk.

And so be it for you. Too bad, Id do my best to rock your world too! Shall we visit for Christmas and I wear my fun Santa suit? I just bought one.. Wait suit? I mean my tiny Santa outfit.

The bottom line is the reality of the business, not just me. Its risky and you chose to take the risk or not. All of us do for one reason or another.

Lets go to the hole and work this out.

SUIT, is a gynecological acronym for: Wait for it........

Something Up In There

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

My 2 cents..
1) you fell in love with a guy who cheats, you know this because you are the "other woman"
2) he lies, he told you he is single,

As for "outing" him... how would you feel if he outed you and gave out details about you aka maybe your real name, where you live, what you do.. and do you have a day job? he could return a favor.

[LynnT]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

A provider goes in to have new tires put on her car. The tire place is crowned. Suddenly, a voice. "Hey aren't you that hooker I saw last summer? Yah, I know its you! How've you been?" And I guess that would be OK also, since thats the price you pay for being an escort!?

My suit is like warm apple pie. haha

Its not ok but its a risk in this business, you can possibly be outed any time and anywhere. Any of us can and thats the reality of it. You play with fire well you just might get burned. I choose to play with fire and accept the consequences of getting burned.




Bukalini Im not taking it back, you men put yourself in a risky spot, so if shit happens.. you really going to blame it all on a hooker when you shouldnt be there in the first place? men in this thread want to play a blame game when you have know one to blame but yourself for being there. For choosing to trust her not to blab..

Either you didnt do your homework on a lady, got too close, gave too much info, were careless, etc. Your riding the risk train, period. Not saying you dont to your homework and take proper precautions to lower risks.. as you can and still come across a lady that will run her mouth or something when you've done the homework, it happens. But you dont have anyone to blame but yourself for seeing her in the first place.

I really dont understand how men will take no fault when you chose to do something wrong..? Dont get me wrong I love you play in the fire with me as this is how this rolls but come on it is the mans fault if he gets caught up, You chose to walk in the fire, the lady didnt force you.

Its sad how many PM's I get and they wont post here..

I still love you.

[Naomi4u]

There are soo many things wrong with this thread. Nice to be on the outside looking in. Very nice I must say......

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by LynnT

My suit is like warm apple pie. haha

It’s really unfair to use the "Warn Apple Pie" analogy. There is no way I can concentrate now! You win! (Now that doesn't happen very often!) LOL

[Eccie Addict]

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously.

Does this apply to this situation at all?

Lynn... I realize that mistakes happen and I realize that everyone has to take responsibility for their actions. He may very well be taking responsibility for his actions. The OP is taking the heat in this thread because she is the OP and openly admitted to sharing a client's RL info with another that is not in the hobby. Ya she may be catching a lot but she should accept that since she decided to play with fire by starting the thread in the first place

I wonder how this thread would have went if a guy started a thread about him putting a provider's RL info to another.

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by LynnT

. . . .
Its not ok but its a risk in this business, you can possibly be outed any time and anywhere. Any of us can and thats the reality of it. You play with fire well you just might get burned. I choose to play with fire and accept the consequences of getting burned.

Bukalini Im not taking it back, you men put yourself in a risky spot, so if shit happens.. you really going to blame it all on a hooker when you shouldnt be there in the first place? men in this thread want to play a blame game when you have know one to blame but yourself for being there. For choosing to trust her not to blab..

Either you didnt do your homework on a lady, got too close, gave too much info, were careless, etc. Your riding the risk train, period. Not saying you dont to your homework and take proper precautions to lower risks.. as you can and still come across a lady that will run her mouth or something when you've done the homework, it happens. But you dont have anyone to blame but yourself for seeing her in the first place.

I really dont understand how men will take no fault when you chose to do something wrong..? Dont get me wrong I love you play in the fire with me as this is how this rolls but come on it is the mans fault if he gets caught up, You chose to walk in the fire, the lady didnt force you. . . .

After your first three words.... it sounds to me, as if you're giving her a pass . . . for breaking the First Cardinal Sin of The Hobby - Discretion!

Yes... there is a risk for all of us, within the hobby... but she did what she did... on purpose... not by accident!* She had time, between realizing the connection, and ruining their relationship! * She chose to out him! * It is not a sex provider's place to be deciding the morality of an engaged or married man! * Because of that... she becomes worthless to her profession.... and deserves to be shamed, shunned, and damned!

[Guest110516]

Not giving her a "pass" on the outing, but the guy took on some extra risk by giving her the impression that they had a bf/gf thang going. Of course, it's possible she was fooling herself about that. Bottom line: the outing could have and should have been prevented. Just an opinion in a sea of opinions.

[LynnT]

Again, I dont think what she did is right! oy I give up.. we can agree to disagree.

And again think what you want of me I dont play that game. I dont lash out in anger in public.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by LynnT

My suit is like warm apple pie. haha

Its not ok but its a risk in this business, you can possibly be outed any time and anywhere. Any of us can and thats the reality of it. You play with fire well you just might get burned. I choose to play with fire and accept the consequences of getting burned.




Bukalini Im not taking it back, you men put yourself in a risky spot, so if shit happens.. you really going to blame it all on a hooker when you shouldnt be there in the first place? men in this thread want to play a blame game when you have know one to blame but yourself for being there. For choosing to trust her not to blab..

Either you didnt do your homework on a lady, got too close, gave too much info, were careless, etc. Your riding the risk train, period. Not saying you dont to your homework and take proper precautions to lower risks.. as you can and still come across a lady that will run her mouth or something when you've done the homework, it happens. But you dont have anyone to blame but yourself for seeing her in the first place.

I really dont understand how men will take no fault when you chose to do something wrong..? Dont get me wrong I love you play in the fire with me as this is how this rolls but come on it is the mans fault if he gets caught up, You chose to walk in the fire, the lady didnt force you.

Its sad how many PM's I get and they wont post here..

I still love you.

I didn't read how he outed her. I didn't say he wasn't stupid for giving all that info to her. Your just saying that because he sees a hooker he should accept all consequences and say there is no responsibilty for the hooker to be quiet at all. After all he is doing something wrong to begin with. That kind of thinking is just one arguement from an outing. It's probably the same kind of thinking she had. Fuck him! He should know better than to trust me. You are right in that he is a dumb ass but your explanation doesn't put you very far from her. If I think I can't trust you with something as simple as discretion then in my mind your not worth seeing.