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Lexxxy · 09-19-2011, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by anita germane

well i was actually feeling bad for you..till you started putting down backpage..and craigslist..being I started out on craigslist..and now have many great clients from there..and also backpage since I have been a provider on there for along time as well..and have many great clients from there as well..
child please..half the guys on this site look at that site daily!

I dont know why some ya'll ladies think its okay to put some of these sites down..

it just shows your true colors and snobbish attitude as well..oh and not to mention..
that's not very classy..

Id hate it for ya.. if you need a vouch from one of those ladies that can read what it is coming from you..
and girlfriend..being one of those ladies..Id think twice about giving you the vouch..

That is if you ever came to this yucky bp provider..I wouldn't wanna be responsible for tainting the shiny
persona you have created for yourself...

and suga britches...no where in my post to you did I call you an idiot..nor lean to twards it..
now that I actually read your whole post did I say anything about your biz skills nor screening methods either..
( I reffed to how I handle my biz..)

there was just soo much to read bout how skill-full you are..and I sorta got caught up in the bp cl yuck remarks..and all them 9's..goodness..
hope they (whomever) got your point..I got the point..however not the one you were trying to make..

....i just said..let the ipod go regardless what kinda weapon you gots or what sorta kickboxen skills you have....I'd hate for it to go all wrong and it get used on you..and thats not something Id advertise if I was you either..some crazy ass non-black man may make an appointment with you and blamo..stunn ya with his amazing skillzzzz!!

Now if you'll excuse me i have to step out and get some fresh air..all dis uppa-class-nezz in da room in suffa-cating me!

You have left me speechless and rolling my eyes. I am not saying this to start a fight, I am just explaining MY reasoning behind MY choice to stay away from BP. Even though I think it is off topic and irrelevant, I have time to kill before I leave my office and drive to Buffalo so I will go for it.
Why do I look down on BP?

The first few things I think: UNSAFE, LE, stings, fake ads, scams, amateurs, pimps, haggling... Then I get this terrible image of red roof inns, comfort inns, econo lodges, microtels, and other terrifying places. Then I think of women that HAVE to do this due to being addicted to forbidden topics, having multiple children(most likely with different dead beat dads) to pay for, people with no other skill sets in life, an overall lack of education/self worth ie: teen/text talk "sorta like numberz 4 wordz n ebonicz that r jus distasteful".
I know that there are a few worth while and wonderful Ladies that chose to take the risk of posting on there, kudos to them for being so brave. Getting categorized as a BP girl or taking those risks that I don't need to take isn't something that I want anything to do with. Everytime I look at the alert section, which I refer to as the BP section, I cringe at what goes on there. I used to feel so bad for what these Gents had to go through on there. Now, not so much, that is a total choice thing. If someone uses BP they have to expect it is a 50/50 chance of TOFTT.
I don't have any common grounds to discus CL or BP, I never had to start there. That is why I bring up the whole amateur thing, most newbies don't know any better than to start there. I started UTR and kept it that way for a long time on bigger/better sites. When I started seeing Gents from here I was UTR as well. I still keep a lot of things private on this site because I have no need to put myself out there. I started to bother with this site and come out from UTR due to getting so many requests to fit traveling all over WNY into my tours. I also use it for shits and giggles while I sit around bored in my office waiting to leave work, like right this very second.
As far as being called a child, yes, I am a child compared to you as far as age and age alone. I dread the fact that in a few years I will turn 30

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cnyred · 09-19-2011, 10:50 AM

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an overall lack of education/self worth ie: teen/text talk "sorta like numberz 4 wordz n ebonicz that r jus distasteful".

Wow. Bringing ebonics into it. That's an interesting way to go.

Lexxxy · 09-19-2011, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by cnyred

Wow. Bringing ebonics into it. That's an interesting way to go.

When in Rome...

Guest091813 · 09-19-2011, 11:57 AM

I apologize that its taken me a minute to respond..I have had a bizzy late morning ..

As I just got back from bath and body they have some really great body lotions there that I just love! And they smell just divine!

Then I scooted over to Walmart for my multiple children since I'm a single mom and I'm raising them on my own..no help.

Then I came back and started looking online at the prices of red roof inn's..as well as econo lodges for when I travel to buffalo and Syracuse.....

It sorta amazed me that you took a pot shots at backpage and cl when your issues of men robbing from you didn't come from either of those sites..

So it shows that there are issues with the places you advertise in as well or you wouldn't have been ripped off...

Also ..the phrase 'child please" is just that..a phrase..I wasn't calling you a child..I was just tossing something out there that I often say...

As far as you turning 30..you should look forward to it..with age comes knowledge..with knowledge comes the ability to embrace people of
all walks of life and the understanding of how to speak and write without insulting people and their situations...

GP · 09-19-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by rosine

This is just ridiculous. The stupidity of some of you guys is mind blowing. I can tell you for a fact that why Bella doesn't see "some" black men because she told me. She got really pounded by a really large guy. That's it. It wasn't this absurd smell nonsense, or how she was treated, or anything else that seems to make some of you feel better about yourself.

It was one guy from a girl that is running a high volume business model. As we all know, a high volume business model does not lend itself to pounding from large men. When I probed her about this she told me directly that lots of guys pound, but that when you mix pound with size, it's a bad thing.

All this other stuff is garbage. KFC, smells, assumptions that AAs treat women poorly, and all that -- completely unacceptable and speaks directly to the (lack of) character of the authors.

Finally, I know for a fact that she'll see some black guys. TWO of my friends saw her after she put the moratorium on black guys. They got a pass because babydoll knew them from having seen her a few times. Please, I don't log on for stuff like this. And I wouldn't put this on Rochester. It's on these guys specifically. Losers.

WOW, Way to insult everyone. For the most part, this discussion has remained civil. Then we get bombarded with crap like this. You could have conveyed the same message without the immature insults that do nothing for the discussion. Way to go!

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 09-19-2011, 07:48 PM

I've never noticed a difference either..... i'm around a lot of different people all the time.... when people stink they all smell the same to me. Even if people are wearing the same cologne or perfume they don't smell the same. I just...i dunno never noticed a major difference based on race..... not even the "white people smell like wet dog" stereotype.

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Originally Posted by Chloe

Any and all of the AA men I have met at meet and greets and that I have seen this is my experience.

I screen very well. Every AA man I have seen were respectful, clean, intelligent, and very sweet. I am pretty sure I have met every AA client on this thread in one way or another as well as some ladies on this thread and NONE of them stunk.

B.O. HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE. Toxins, chemical imbalances, and excess waste. Indeed, we are assaulted daily with a variety of toxins in our homes, food, and air. Over time, these accumulate in the body when the organs of elimination cannot dispose of them properly.

Be smart. Screen well and demand that every client takes a shower when they get there. Problem solved.

This is the most ignorant thread I have read in a long time. Educate yourselves people!! We all have bad experiences. It's linked to lack of knowledge or knowledge on screening, the class of people you attract and what you do with the knowledge you gain from past mistakes. We create what we want and we create our own uneducated reality in our minds . . .it's an easy way to push our own mistakes off onto another race or another portion of society.

BrookeButtons · 09-19-2011, 09:19 PM

I have to say that the smell of different races has me curious now! Please anyone other than a white male; come see me this week, take part of my special. Let me sniff you and see if you smell different based on race!!

I have seen guys of all shapes, sizes and races before, and smells too. Most have been very clean to my standards of cleanliness but a few have had a smell (mostly smokers) but I have never smelled wet dog, KFC, or oil of any kind of a specific race. Or rice/(sesame chicken).

cnyred · 09-20-2011, 05:52 AM

Brooke: Come over and sniff me. I'm white, but I can be your baseline.

Randall Creed · 09-20-2011, 06:50 AM

There IS a general difference in racial 'aroma signatures', but nothing I would call repulsive in races not my own, you know. Then again, maybe it's just me.

Lexxxy · 09-20-2011, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

There IS a general difference in racial 'aroma signatures', but nothing I would call repulsive in races not my own, you know. Then again, maybe it's just me.

Yes, it is a 100% fact that people smell very different based on race/diet/smoker/drugs.... but I have never been repulsed by anyone's smell based on race, no matter who you are or what raced you are if you are dirty and smell you are dirty and smell.

Guest120615-3 · 09-20-2011, 02:54 PM

This thread is getting way too long to read.... can someone tell me is "NBA" in effect or not?

My Knicks might have a shot this year with a full season of Melo and Stoudemire!

BALLSdaisyFRESH · 09-20-2011, 03:54 PM

http://rochester.backpage.com/Female...als-23/6588090

lokera14 · 09-20-2011, 07:05 PM

Blah blah blah who gives a fuck!!!!!

JNBALLS · 09-20-2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lokera14

Blah blah blah who gives a fuck!!!!!

Well, I was under the impression it was the OP..?Other than that, havnt given it much thought...is this something thats going to take more posts? I goma have to create some handles..

GeorgiaRain82 · 09-20-2011, 08:51 PM

As a black male who just moved up to the wonderful north country...I always ask if a woman has preferences on who they see, saves you the trouble. As we all know there are plenty of women to choose from ladies and gents.

I was being sarcastic about the north country, this place gets to damn cold.