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Originally Posted by jhende3
seems like a moot point this whole thread, because if you wearing a condom in the first place your already assuming the other person has a STD and protecting yourself. But like I always said in the past if I think a person has something I wouldn't have sex with them anyway. I don't trust a condom that much. But i believe most people believe that the other person they have sex with doesn't have anything. Because if you did believe they did you would be DATY or BBBJ
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What was that? I'm having a hard time understanding the point that you were trying to get across. But, from what I did gather --
1. I don't wear condoms, but I do provide them, to protect parties involved.
2. You don't trust condoms much? But you wear them, & trust them to keep you as STD free as possible, especially when hobbying.. correct?
3. No, there's
no assumption,
made by myself, that everyone is clean & clear.. that's not something that you can assume (although some people do) which is why I posted this thread.
I wanted to know what would/could/should be done if you VISIBLY SEE SOMETHING, lesions/scrapes/scratches/bumps/boils after the session has already began.
I'm not talking about meeting someone at the club, then having a one night stand. Because, THEN, of course, it's in my mind, after talking to them, drinking a bit, grinding on the dance floor, groping & grabbing.. "This person has an STD, even if they don't, they do, we're definitely using a condom."
However, this is the part time job
I chose. I screen, talk over the phone, speak to references & find out little bits of info about clientele.. but there are no pictures, no body shots, no website, no ad with information about you, written by you, marketing yourself. You choose what you see. I see what I see when you come to my door, like majority of the rest of the providers in the hobby.
If you can look at a provider's pictures & think to yourself, "Oh yea, she has an STD.. on to the next one." More power to you, man. But, I CANT. I don't think any other ladies can say that they can either. (Please correct me if I'm wrong.) The only time I'm even aware of any kind of ANYTHING, is when you drop trou & it's in my face.. possibly in my hands.. maybe my mouth.. THEN at that point, what do I do? What has a provider done? What was the outcome? How should someone react? -
That was the point of the thread.
It's not a moot (of little or no practical value or meaning) thread, but I'm sorry you felt that way.