A Provider's Response to All the BBFS BS!!

[lisa.lisa0302]

Why didn't she post this herself. I love hearing from the ladies, with someone else posting, its like talking to a brick wall. Maybe she will post.

Not sure how bbbj is no safer than bbfs...........well.........I don't know.

I'll rather do BBBJ than BBFS. Not sure what is "safer"........but ill rather do bbbj

[Union Jack]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

So if you have no respect for ECCIE, why not guest your account? Why update your account/showcase since you have such a distaste for this place? You don't like the site but you will still take business from it?

sixx

Sixx, it is amusing that you are addressing the young lass in question, as she has made it clear that she doesn't care to look at, respond, or so much as even participate in the drama of said ECCIE boards.

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Union Jack

Sixx, it is amusing that you are addressing the young lass in question, as she has made it clear that she doesn't care to look at, respond, or so much as even participate in the drama of said ECCIE boards.

Union, very true but something tells me she may look more than she cares to admit....

sixx

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

(sorry still learning this IPAD).

The board is what you make it. There have been times I've had to step away for a bit because it has gotten to me. That's fine. At the end of the day I'm in charge of contributing what I want to see and talk about. Or. . . I can take my marbles and go home and play by myself.

Either way, if I put up or shut up, I'm just as responsible as everyone else for the condition of the board I dislike so much that happens to be a great benefit to me.

Maxeen, we agree on something!



sixx

[Russ Tworthy]

I share a bit of the blame for this thread, I confess.

Spud and I visited briefly about the "list" noting a number of ladies on the list that we thought shouldn't be on the list based on knowing them.

Spud decided to give one of these ladies a heads up to tell her she was on the list. He did and she answered him privately with the first version of the email Spud posted.

He was impressed with her answer and with her permission shared it with me. She did not intend for it to be published, but at our urging allowed Spud to post an edited version as a reflection of what she and perhaps some other of our finest ladies are thinking about these matters. We thought there might be some value in that. I do see real value in her opinion which is totally reasonable from my point of view and she shouldn't be put down for it, even if others may not agree.

What she's saying about "not respecting eccie" is really something I hear from many ladies I see these days - It's really about the derogatory trash talk and drama that often comes from a few highly vocal posters. We know who they are. It's the disrespect of the few that taints the whole board.

I sometimes wonder if the trash talkers and drama queens really like the "hobby". I think most of the gents here, reviewers and lurkers alike, really like the ladies, treat them very well, speak of them well and honor their desire to maintain some kind of dignity and some level of privacy in what we all (or most of us) enjoy doing.

I would be great if this was a friendlier place.

I find it ironic that while this post was intended to address the need for that, in fact it just produced more trash talk and derogatory language. I should have known. I apologize for my small role in this. Just should have left it alone.

Now, for me, back to attending to some fine ladies!

regards,
Russ

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Russ Tworthy

What she's saying about "not respecting eccie" is really something I hear from many ladies I see these days - It's really about the derogatory trash talk and drama that often comes from a few highly vocal posters. We know who they are. It's the disrespect of the few that taints the whole board.

I sometimes wonder if the trash talkers and drama queens really like the "hobby". I think most of the gents here, reviewers and lurkers alike, really like the ladies, treat them very well, speak of them well and honor their desire to maintain some kind of dignity and some level of privacy in what we all (or most of us) enjoy doing.

I would be great if this was a friendlier place.

I find it ironic that while this post was intended to address the need for that, in fact it just produced more trash talk and derogatory language. I should have known. I apologize for my small role in this. Just should have left it alone.

Now, for me, back to attending to some fine ladies!

regards,
Russ

You know Russ, I can understand what you are saying. But if everyone knows something, why not the hell post it? Name names. You are complaining about the drama yet adding to it too.......
I am referring to name the people who make this site so negative for all
sixx

[Union Jack]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Union, very true but something tells me she may look more than she cares to admit....

sixx

Touché sir, touché.

[Smokin Joe]

Russ, you nailed it dude.

[Ez5417]

No No!! That wasn't for you Maxeen babe! Lol. I agreed w much of what you said.

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

I had long conversation about this thread with a retired Provider, and other boring bullshit on Eccie and her take was just as mine was

This is how we summed up the entire P4P industry

Men trying to con women into doing what they want for a cheaper price/bigger menu/extended time

Women trying to con men out of their $$ with ads of;
over promising from looks to service, to claiming to not be Pimped out
trying to get the guys out the door as easy as possible


This is all but a Big Con Game of who can "One up" the next and who can lie the most without getting caught

I have been guilty of the above just as its happened to me

I tend to stick with the girls that at least seem to somewhat enjoy my company more than my $$

lol you just described life in general ppl are always testing to see what they can get away with

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Why didn't she post this herself. I love hearing from the ladies, with someone else posting, its like talking to a brick wall. Maybe she will post.

Not sure how bbbj is no safer than bbfs...........well.........I don't know.

I'll rather do BBBJ than BBFS. Not sure what is "safer"........but ill rather do bbbj

I totally agree

[Who's Your Daddy]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

You know Russ, I can understand what you are saying. But if everyone knows something, why not the hell post it? Name names. You are complaining about the drama yet adding to it too.......
I am referring to name the people who make this site so negative for all
sixx

[jcruz]

"I dont BBFS and Tell" Some People Dont Kiss and Tell ,and If I have..... I am not asking for anyone to believe me, and I am assuming if anyone did they could respectfully deny it and remain between the two parties as it should in my opinion....
just my opinion and hope no one is offended by it

[TxTraveller]

wow, this thread got outta control quickly! I'm no great 'white knight', but I figure here it should be "live and let live". I'm surprised that things get so heated up here.... If someone wants to say something on a topic that is bound to bring out lots of flaming responses, I don't see much harm. Anyway, I'm only commenting because I come to eccie.net for something OTHER than lots of stress and acrimony..... In sum.... Can't we just all get along? ;-)

[harkontume]

What have we learned from all this?

1. Maxeen has Pink Hair and a new Haircut

2. She secretly has a HUGE Crush on Harkontume... yep

nuff said