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Originally Posted by Perfect Companion_Ashley
I have been away from the hobby for 2 weeks until today. “Ragnar3rd” , you seem to be starting stuff on this site, and just lurking. You’ve had 2 reputable providers cancel last minute. Clearly, it’s something you are doing. I don’t have to explain myself to you, you’ve never written ANY reviews, but have made over 45 posts. You have NO verification. THAT says A LOT, honestly. I’M a nice, safe, reputable provider! I would like to think gentlemen on here are not silly enough to go for this. I can’t believe providers & men are still replying to this thread.
“Ragnar3rd” why did you leave your original comment of getting “ghosted” by another provider on my post? And not just make your own? It seems you’re trying to start drama on this board. All questions were rhetorical by the way- and no reply is needed.
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First and foremost I am glad your ok and not hurt!
Thank you for enlightening me/us (the accountability team) on where your head is at. So, if I understand you correctly the reason for the NCNS on Saturday is you think I am someone that I am not? Thanks for sharing, it does help - abliet a little too late. Would it not have been so much easier to explain this paranoid feeling you had on Saturday and off line? Instead NCNS was really the best course of action? There is nothing wrong with politely declining/rescheduling/communicating your concerns about an appointment. I have had to and I am a rookie hobbies. It appears you've been doing this far longer than I have.
You didn't ask, but I provided 2 references. Did you check them and did they describe me as the man in the yellow hat? 💛
3rd, Candy. Very different senerio, albiet same as being highly reviewed and a ncns. After my compliant (found in this thread) I had several dm's from other members that confirmed her actions are typical Candy style. So, I accepted your invite and moved on.
#4 You are right, no reviews yet, but not without trying. Can't figure out how to post a review and haven't asked. When I click on the + sign it only gives me an option to start a thread. This is what I did when I reviewed my Asian STG recon extravaganza. Then the good Dr. moved my essay to a different section. So I upgraded my account to see if that was the issue, it wasn't. I have 7 reviews in the hopper of providers that didnt NCNS.
I will look into being verified, maybe that will cut down on the NCNS. I think due diligence should be done before an appt is set though. I've been guilty of not doing enough of this beforehand myself.
At the end of the day, go with your gut. Your safety is top priority, but in the future please let the appt know what is what. No explanation is needed, just communicate vs going dark. It's the right thing to do!
SKOL!!
Ragnar The 3rd