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12-31-2020, 10:54 AM
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#2476
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Kiss it once and kiss it twice then kiss it once again.. It's been a long long time.
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12-31-2020, 02:25 PM
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BANNED
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Originally Posted by Vannah
There's nothing like jamming out to some drag queen music, going shopping and finding the perfect dinner dress for New Years Eve to boost your confidence. It will go perfect with the diamond necklace I got for Christmas.
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Congrats!!! What a phenomenal gift! Happy for you!
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01-05-2021, 01:08 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jan 6, 2018
Location: Arkansas
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I think it's popcorn eating time lol
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01-05-2021, 01:49 PM
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Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Originally Posted by Baconman
I think it's popcorn eating time lol
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Indeed sir!
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01-05-2021, 01:55 PM
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Premium Access
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Location: Arkansas
Posts: 1,164
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Been awhile since I've been on here and never ceases to amaze me.
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01-05-2021, 02:17 PM
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Join Date: Dec 13, 2020
Location: Fayetteville, AR
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In case anyone suspects they may be dealing with a narcissist but isn't sure, here are the signs. I would add that they are the world champions of all gaslighters.
Grandiose sense of self-importance
Grandiosity is the defining characteristic of narcissism. More than just arrogance or vanity, grandiosity is an unrealistic sense of superiority. Narcissists believe they are unique or “special” and can only be understood by other special people. What’s more, they are too good for anything average or ordinary. They only want to associate and be associated with other high-status people, places, and things.
Narcissists also believe that they’re better than everyone else and expect recognition as such—even when they’ve done nothing to earn it. They will often exaggerate or outright lie about their achievements and talents. And when they talk about work or relationships, all you’ll hear is how much they contribute, how great they are, and how lucky the people in their lives are to have them. They are the undisputed star and everyone else is at best a bit player.
Lives in a fantasy world that supports their delusions of grandeur
Since reality doesn’t support their grandiose view of themselves, narcissists live in a fantasy world propped up by distortion, self-deception, and magical thinking. They spin self-glorifying fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, attractiveness, and ideal love that make them feel special and in control. These fantasies protect them from feelings of inner emptiness and shame, so facts and opinions that contradict them are ignored or rationalized away. Anything that threatens to burst the fantasy bubble is met with extreme defensiveness and even rage, so those around the narcissist learn to tread carefully around their denial of reality.
Needs constant praise and admiration
A narcissist’s sense of superiority is like a balloon that gradually loses air without a steady stream of applause and recognition to keep it inflated. The occasional compliment is not enough. Narcissists need constant food for their ego, so they surround themselves with people who are willing to cater to their obsessive craving for affirmation. These relationships are very one-sided. It’s all about what the admirer can do for the narcissist, never the other way around. And if there is ever an interruption or diminishment in the admirer’s attention and praise, the narcissist treats it as a betrayal.
Sense of entitlement
Because they consider themselves special, narcissists expect favorable treatment as their due. They truly believe that whatever they want, they should get. They also expect the people around them to automatically comply with their every wish and whim. That is their only value. If you don’t anticipate and meet their every need, then you’re useless. And if you have the nerve to defy their will or “selfishly” ask for something in return, prepare yourself for aggression, outrage, or the cold shoulder.
Exploits others without guilt or shame
Narcissists never develop the ability to identify with the feelings of others—to put themselves in other people’s shoes. In other words, they lack empathy. In many ways, they view the people in their lives as objects—there to serve their needs. As a consequence, they don’t think twice about taking advantage of others to achieve their own ends. Sometimes this interpersonal exploitation is malicious, but often it is simply oblivious. Narcissists simply don’t think about how their behavior affects others. And if you point it out, they still won’t truly get it. The only thing they understand is their own needs.
Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others
Narcissists feel threatened whenever they encounter someone who appears to have something they lack—especially those who are confident and popular. They’re also threatened by people who don’t kowtow to them or who challenge them in any way. Their defense mechanism is contempt. The only way to neutralize the threat and prop up their own sagging ego is to put those people down. They may do it in a patronizing or dismissive way as if to demonstrate how little the other person means to them. Or they may go on the attack with insults, name-calling, bullying, and threats to force the other person back into line.
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01-05-2021, 02:21 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jan 6, 2018
Location: Arkansas
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Eugene Yuss
In case anyone suspects they may be dealing with a narcissist but isn't sure, here are the signs. I would add that they are the world champions of all gaslighters.
Grandiose sense of self-importance
Grandiosity is the defining characteristic of narcissism. More than just arrogance or vanity, grandiosity is an unrealistic sense of superiority. Narcissists believe they are unique or “special” and can only be understood by other special people. What’s more, they are too good for anything average or ordinary. They only want to associate and be associated with other high-status people, places, and things.
Narcissists also believe that they’re better than everyone else and expect recognition as such—even when they’ve done nothing to earn it. They will often exaggerate or outright lie about their achievements and talents. And when they talk about work or relationships, all you’ll hear is how much they contribute, how great they are, and how lucky the people in their lives are to have them. They are the undisputed star and everyone else is at best a bit player.
Lives in a fantasy world that supports their delusions of grandeur
Since reality doesn’t support their grandiose view of themselves, narcissists live in a fantasy world propped up by distortion, self-deception, and magical thinking. They spin self-glorifying fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, attractiveness, and ideal love that make them feel special and in control. These fantasies protect them from feelings of inner emptiness and shame, so facts and opinions that contradict them are ignored or rationalized away. Anything that threatens to burst the fantasy bubble is met with extreme defensiveness and even rage, so those around the narcissist learn to tread carefully around their denial of reality.
Needs constant praise and admiration
A narcissist’s sense of superiority is like a balloon that gradually loses air without a steady stream of applause and recognition to keep it inflated. The occasional compliment is not enough. Narcissists need constant food for their ego, so they surround themselves with people who are willing to cater to their obsessive craving for affirmation. These relationships are very one-sided. It’s all about what the admirer can do for the narcissist, never the other way around. And if there is ever an interruption or diminishment in the admirer’s attention and praise, the narcissist treats it as a betrayal.
Sense of entitlement
Because they consider themselves special, narcissists expect favorable treatment as their due. They truly believe that whatever they want, they should get. They also expect the people around them to automatically comply with their every wish and whim. That is their only value. If you don’t anticipate and meet their every need, then you’re useless. And if you have the nerve to defy their will or “selfishly” ask for something in return, prepare yourself for aggression, outrage, or the cold shoulder.
Exploits others without guilt or shame
Narcissists never develop the ability to identify with the feelings of others—to put themselves in other people’s shoes. In other words, they lack empathy. In many ways, they view the people in their lives as objects—there to serve their needs. As a consequence, they don’t think twice about taking advantage of others to achieve their own ends. Sometimes this interpersonal exploitation is malicious, but often it is simply oblivious. Narcissists simply don’t think about how their behavior affects others. And if you point it out, they still won’t truly get it. The only thing they understand is their own needs.
Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others
Narcissists feel threatened whenever they encounter someone who appears to have something they lack—especially those who are confident and popular. They’re also threatened by people who don’t kowtow to them or who challenge them in any way. Their defense mechanism is contempt. The only way to neutralize the threat and prop up their own sagging ego is to put those people down. They may do it in a patronizing or dismissive way as if to demonstrate how little the other person means to them. Or they may go on the attack with insults, name-calling, bullying, and threats to force the other person back into line.
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I wonder who you're talking about! 🤔
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01-05-2021, 02:25 PM
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#2483
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Premium Access
Join Date: Feb 5, 2010
Location: NWA
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Baconman
I think it's popcorn eating time lol
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Pass some to me too!!! Going to have to get the combo pack . . . large popcorn with large soda!!
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01-05-2021, 02:27 PM
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Join Date: Dec 13, 2020
Location: Fayetteville, AR
Posts: 33
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Baconman
I wonder who you're talking about! 🤔
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I'm just posting a public service. It could be anyone...even someone right here among us.
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01-05-2021, 02:34 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jan 6, 2018
Location: Arkansas
Posts: 4,448
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Thanks for the public service announcement!
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01-05-2021, 04:36 PM
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#2486
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✨Tu Dioas✨
User ID: 301819
Join Date: Jun 7, 2015
Location: TravelingLady
Posts: 1,535
My ECCIE Reviews
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I need extra butter
Slide over gents and pass me the popcorn
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01-05-2021, 04:38 PM
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Join Date: Dec 13, 2020
Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Originally Posted by Baconman
Thanks for the public service announcement!
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You're quite welcome, my good man.
If you need practical advice about narcissist spotting, watch for people who prattle on endlessly about their fabulous possessions like expensive cars, clothes, designer shoes, the magnificence of their home and the improvements to said home that are in progress, thereby making it even more magnificent. Generally to an audience of people who couldn't care less and just want to get a word in edgewise but can't. That's a fairly reliable indicator, in my experience.
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01-05-2021, 04:47 PM
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#2488
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Join Date: Dec 13, 2020
Location: Fayetteville, AR
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By the way, everyone, no need to be formal with me. I go by Gene, to my friends. In fact I wasn't supposed to be named Eugene at all. When I was born, my mom looked at my dad and said (in simulated baby voice) "what are you going to name me, daddy?". "You Gene" he said. And the rest is history.
Anyway, just call me Gene.
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01-05-2021, 09:02 PM
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#2489
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Join Date: Jun 19, 2018
Location: Arkansas
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I got banned for posting pics of guys without shirts, before that a posted a thread called ladies touring little rock and had four out of town ladies with their dates that they would be in the rock, I got a point for that, it was called advertising...
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01-05-2021, 10:45 PM
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BANNED
Join Date: Feb 8, 2015
Location: Everywhere
Posts: 11,947
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Welcome to the Club... Read the RULES like a Mortgage Document!
Of course, that's SILLY, but just a 'lil different.
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