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Goose7093 · 09-23-2025, 12:31 PM

I’m an older guy. I’ve been in the hobby for 20+ years. I know it’s pay for play, and I’ve had no illusions that it is anything more. That’s served me well…until I met Pammy.

She was just different, or things were different with her, than anyone else I had seen. Things were authentic, and I found myself struggling to keep my emotions in check. After many months, I came clean and told her. It didn’t scare her at all. With some guidance and boundaries, we grew close, as friends and lovers. While I’m not “in love” with her, I do love and care for her.

We say “I love you” to one another, knowing it isn’t meaning taking things further.

I’m sure it’s happened to others out there, and I wonder how you handled it. Did you walk away? Did you tell them? Was it just one-sided? I know we don’t, and should not, expect that here, or look for it here. But is does happen from time to time.

Ripmany · 09-23-2025, 02:40 PM

To care for some you need, means, identify a need, and hart. If she nice to you better than my exes and accepting. I will form a hart. I have not found a provider with out needs that easily. There means I look specials and many providers spend out of my league.

Seline · Today, 05:39 AM

This happens a lot more than you think. I know many providers who married men they met in the hobby. If anyone decides they want to marry a provider, make sure you both have a great story of how you met, because that seems to be the number one question asked at a dinner or other event. It would be very awkward to have two different stories. LOL

Mort Watt · Today, 08:11 AM

I would just tell them "we met online!"

DallasBella · Today, 10:52 AM

A mutual loving relationship is not the same as a stalker. If you are not crossing any boundaries, then there is no issue with meeting a wonderful person. My last “boyfriend “actually started as a Client. He was the same age as my dad. Met my family as well.

Mplay · Today, 11:46 AM

I know one that left her husband and took the kids to a client. Another girl was pissed because he was her best client lol! Not sure if it was love or convenience.