Thrill of the hunt

[london2012]

Many of us are always on the lookout for the next ATF, someone who checks most of our mental boxes. It can take quite a bit of time, money and effort to find her. The trouble with ATF is sometime, things become same-old, same-old, and you're on the hunt for the next one.


It's been a while since I found a replacement ATF, but happen to come across one recently. I am going to savor the moments until things get stale. I won't share the contact (for now) but I am sure she's servicing many. I don't want her appt book to be full and can't squeeze me in (like the previous ones). Eventually others will discover her and she'll get busy, and possibly burnout.


Fortunately, plenty of asian women arriving daily on our shores , the land of opportunity. The American dream is still alive. lol


Flame me for not sharing, if you must. Won't hurt me one bit. Been in the hobby for decades, has grown a thick skin.

[atindulgence]

I agree London, I like the hunt as well. I hit a streak of good ones a couple months ago which gets me all hooked again! Good luck with your new ATF.

[CapKirk]

No need to feel any guilt OP. We are all looking for slightly different things. And when we get that, it is pure joy. And yes, we eventually move on for one reason or another.

Personally, I look for the diamond in the rough. It takes time and money as you and George Harrison say .....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_71w4UA2Oxo

[Boy Scout]

This tracks brother. Part of the reason I still go to spas is the thrill of the hunt. Like you, every once in a while I stumble upon a treasure, one that connects physically, emotionally, and spiritually, where everything seems just effortless and made for you. Though I admit this doesn't happen with just spas, but indies and agencies too. I tend to cherish and keep them, but like you, I've found myself moving on to another adventure due to multiple reasons for so many times. Still, the flame to hobby to find that spark remains.

[BobbyC50]

I have an occasional ATF but tend to wander instead of getting attached or thinking about them too much. It’s not necessarily levels of L’s that make them an ATF but the sensuality or non-negotiation that keeps me coming.

I had one that hadn’t gone past L1 that I kept visiting until I finally broke her down and she told me to return the next day with protection. I’d had many dreams of this happening and it finally came true. It was great and I went back a few more times to partake but the thrill of the hunt was finally over and I moved on.

[veloztec]

Trump’s ICE makes it more difficult though these days to find sampling data for your ATF

[cameronp]

Coco at the shade was my ATF. unlimited miles and GFE. Those days are long gone and closed since all those new apts got built up around the place.

[bashar]

I have one or two ATFs but still wonder out for new experiences. The excitement for me is finding a subAMP gem and encouraging them to go beyond L1. My successes have been with those in 35+ range, slight mom bods, who turned to massages to earn extra subsistence money. Many of them popped up after COVID era unemployment benefits expired. They often don’t have experience and their basic massage skills suck, not because they don’t care but because they just don’t have the experience. Encourage them and give them direction. Make them feel comfortable by talking about RW matters like raising a family and how cost of living is rising. Some will break because they need the money, sometimes even because they’re lonely and need the intimacy.

One of my favorites was a separated mom. Cute face, soft body. But something you wouldn’t give a second look to in public. She lived in Frisco. Met her at my go to place for a legit massage. Mamasan asked me if she could train the new girl with me. She wasn’t good but I just had a vibe. Asked for her alone the following week. That visit was L0.5. After that we spoke about dance and cheerleading classes and bulking up on chicken from Costco. She opened up to L1+, including DATY. The visit after that was L3.

[Metrep]

It’s fun until your dry spell is such that you’re realizing how many hours you’ve wasted

[Metrep]

It’s fun until your dry spell is such that you’re realizing how many hours you’ve wasted

[TruthSayer]

I remember back when the thrill was there, unfortunately, I made friends with them and they disclosed and I got to experience the behind the scenes info.

This opened my eyes and quickly pivoted to strictly transactional I still have my ATFs, but my intentions aren't clouded by emotions like before.

It's hard to explain, but once these ladies clue you into the game and end goal, you'll quickly realize how delusional or misguided some of us are in our interactions with these providers. We then come here bitch and moan at how they took us for a ride lol cmon man what did you expect? Just reset the expectations you'll never let them get the best of you.

[BobbyC50]

Originally Posted by TruthSayer

I remember back when the thrill was there, unfortunately, I made friends with them and they disclosed and I got to experience the behind the scenes info.

This opened my eyes and quickly pivoted to strictly transactional I still have my ATFs, but my intentions aren't clouded by emotions like before.

It's hard to explain, but once these ladies clue you into the game and end goal, you'll quickly realize how delusional or misguided some of us are in our interactions with these providers. We then come here bitch and moan at how they took us for a ride lol cmon man what did you expect? Just reset the expectations you'll never let them get the best of you.

Can you elaborate?

[thunderyfireball]

Originally Posted by TruthSayer

I remember back when the thrill was there, unfortunately, I made friends with them and they disclosed and I got to experience the behind the scenes info.

This opened my eyes and quickly pivoted to strictly transactional I still have my ATFs, but my intentions aren't clouded by emotions like before.

It's hard to explain, but once these ladies clue you into the game and end goal, you'll quickly realize how delusional or misguided some of us are in our interactions with these providers. We then come here bitch and moan at how they took us for a ride lol cmon man what did you expect? Just reset the expectations you'll never let them get the best of you.

"you got it, you got it bad" - Usher