Any advice for a first timer before taking the leap?

[Rocguy3423]

First off, thanks for all the great reviews and info I have found and gotten through everyone's reviews. I have never done anything like this but hope to find the time and funds shortly to make the leap. Is there any advice you could give to someone so they have a good first experience and also make a good "first impression" or things you wish you know your first time?

Unfortunately Idon't have a "disposable" income and have to be strategic with my time and money so noy as easy to jjst show up somewhere with a pocket full of cash like some maybe are.

I always had specific scenarios in mind for the "perfect situation..i.e looks, age, outfits Yada Yada but that is put to the side but still want to make this something "special"

Please leave any judgements or snarky comments to yourself and if this is better posted elsewhere I would be more than happy to do so.

Happy New Year Everyone.

[Tiger]

You'll easily get the top advise: Run. (right OSD?)

Expect at some point in time, you will lose the gift you bring. Never take more than you can afford to lose.

Do your research. Pay attention to those no reviews. Those will give you the best advice of what you should be on the lookout for.

Generally, avoid deposits. Look for a provider with a good reputation of being on time and having the services you are looking for.

Play safe

[me2too]

Never give a deposit.
Never.
Ever.
Even if it seems legit, your money will be gone and you'll feel like an idiot.
Take it from one who's been there.

[Rocguy3423]

Thanks I definitely don't plan on doing deposit. obviously bbbj sounds great but given the hobby, maybe not the best idea...I have a few I have reached out to and one other I plan to...most likely will be the one I haven't reached out to that will be my choice.

[NYIP NYIP]

Set low expectations. If she looks like a 7 in her best picture, divide by 2. She’s a 3.5 at best.

Add for age. Nobody is 41. If she is 41, her ad would say 37. She’s probably 49.

Add for weight. They tend to advertise about 25% less than their real weight.

Don’t believe the list of activities on Skip ads- especially if it’s a long list. That’s just their handler checking lots of boxes on a web form.

Be in a position to be able to handle consequences-
- theft
- robbery by a gun or knife wielding butthole loser
- arrest
- car damage such as a broken window or slashed tire
- one or even many good experiences with a specific provider is not a predictor of future similar experiences


Pretty Woman is a fun movie but it’s not a documentary.

You may have some fun or satisfying moments but it’s never worth it.

[FBSMLUVR]

All great advice, take head to all the above, don’t stray from what has already been said and your success level will be higher.

But, if you don’t have any disposable income for this, for whatever reason (due to having an SO, etc), maybe you should take a minute to think about getting involved in these shenanigans lol.

[change2chance]

Originally Posted by Rocguy3423

First off, thanks for all the great reviews and info I have found and gotten through everyone's reviews. I have never done anything like this but hope to find the time and funds shortly to make the leap. Is there any advice you could give to someone so they have a good first experience and also make a good "first impression" or things you wish you know your first time?

Unfortunately Idon't have a "disposable" income and have to be strategic with my time and money so noy as easy to jjst show up somewhere with a pocket full of cash like some maybe are.

I always had specific scenarios in mind for the "perfect situation..i.e looks, age, outfits Yada Yada but that is put to the side but still want to make this something "special"

Please leave any judgements or snarky comments to yourself and if this is better posted elsewhere I would be more than happy to do so.

Happy New Year Everyone.

Hygiene is important and whatever you think is clean..go harder and wipes are your friend. Get tested every 4 months to be safe. Do not ignore your 6th sense for Bs or red flags. If it seems too good to be true then it is. If she has a attitude when you 1st meet her it's not going to change so don't waste your money. If the price suddenly changes when you get there leave. Leave if she's acting like you should be lucky

[lilylivered]

First time, pay more and play it safe.
Pick someone from Tryst with good reviews.
Enjoy the experience

Unless you do the best advice and RUN!

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by Rocguy3423

Is there any advice you could give to someone so they have a good first experience and also make a good "first impression" or things you wish you know your first time?

fer a small ...fee ...plastic man ...woulds be willin ta takes ya under ...his shelterin wing

...a good first time ...be guaranteed

[sucker45]

Don't give any more information to the provider than is absolutely necessary imo. They aren't your friend, they don't love you, they don't care about you, and most of them are taking risks that you could get caught up in so it's best to keep them at an arms length and pay attention to how discreet they are about their other clients whether you personally care about discretion or not. Most of these women are not victims of anyone or anything other than their own impulses and at the end of the day, dealing with these types of women will, best case scenario, make it hard for you to trust a good women if you meet one you like someday. Some of them get off on the act of swindling people more than they care about the money they get out of it

Also a "handler" or "boyfriend" is usually just a dude that they are manipulating into robbing clients for them so I'd stay away if she has one (several experienced women in the hobby have told me that they've never been attacked or even felt like their safety was in danger at any point so personally I don't buy the whole personal protection justification).

Also to re-iterate the best advice-run. Most of these providers are honestly not worth getting services from in the first place. You will deal with just as many headaches if not more with providers, as you will with the alternative

[sexguy45]

Get a hobby phone or a texting app. Also recommend a bogus email accout.
Never ever ever give actual personal info.
Even if you see same one multiple times, nothing real.
Not marital status, kids, where you live, where you work, what you do for a living.
Easy to extort money from a white collar married guy with kids. It happens.

[sexguy45]

Take only the agreed upon fee. Dont bring your wallet. Find a hiding spot in your car.
If incall is house, apt or motel. Get there early. Park discreetly where you can watch location. When they ask for a text 10 minutes out, that is when the pimp leaves. Watch where they go. Look for nefarious characters. Neighbors know why you are going there and know they have a 30-60 minute window to break in to your car. Reason for hiding your valuables. Avoid parking in driveway if possible.
Even in hotel room verify no one else there. Ask to use the bathroom. They say no just walk away. Never leave your shit unattended.
Know where in Rochester to not go.
I will probably think of more shit, lol

[Crazy Bob]

Don’t feel like you need to compete with the guys who seem to have half a dozen encounters a week, or go three or four rounds in an appointment, or give the lady multiple orgasms.

[offshoredrilling]

may the krill(op) be lucky and not eaten

[ben dover]

Jeeezus, Rocguy if after reading all this you still want to take a chance you're crazy! Not sure I want to again.