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Puzzeluver210 · 12-12-2010, 10:40 AM

I haven't gotten into the hobby like I wanted to, but I still check out this site from time to time, but I couldn't help but notice that the number of online providers that refuse to see AA men is going up. Am I just blind of something that's going on or is racism becoming an issue between hobbyist and providers. Just wanted everyone's opinion on this in fact, here are some ads:

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...x-y-23/3682113
http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...-e_-24/1581389
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=141011

FootLong · 12-12-2010, 10:50 AM

I don't think it is any more prevalent than guys who do not see AA girls. It's to each his/her own, on both sides of the aisle. It's better that they state it up front, than providing substandard due to feeling uncomfortable. Everyone can make a choice. And they do not have to explain the choice they make. That's my take.

FLWrite · 12-12-2010, 10:57 AM

Good question. It's an issue that without question has it's basis in personal preference and logic but finds its expression in more complicated, racial terms. Foot is correct, many gentlemen and ladies alike have a preference and in order to avoid difficult conversations later they state their preferences up front. Racism has at its core the inequality between races. I don't think I've witnessed any of that around here. If I did, I wouldn't be here.

Mature Companion · 12-12-2010, 11:20 AM

It's ones individual choice to see & or decline someone they choose not to be meet BCD in this adult hobby.
I applaud those who have the brass balls to openly post whom they choose not to see. Better they be upfront about it. Than to lead that person on (a lot like some men do with the gals) and you & she have a crappy date from hell.

Perhaps she simply chooses NOT to see certain men BCD, yet has civilian friends of that same ethnicity. Does that make her a racist? NO!

Ones individual preference needs to be respected and not questioned. Especially not called out on as being racist.

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Originally Posted by Puzzeluver10

I haven't gotten into the hobby like I wanted to, but I still check out this site from time to time, but I couldn't help but notice that the number of online providers that refuse to see AA men is going up. Am I just blind of something that's going on or is racism becoming an issue between hobbyist and providers. Just wanted everyone's opinion on this in fact, here are some ads:

http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...x-y-23/3682113
http://sanantonio.backpage.com/Femal...-e_-24/1581389
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=141011

Puzzeluver210 · 12-12-2010, 12:18 PM

I didn't intend to call anyone a racist, I was simply asking if its an issue or not and to get peoples views on it. I understand that everyone has a preference, I guess I let some ads kind of irritate me alittle which sparked me to start this thread that's all.

Budman · 12-12-2010, 12:32 PM

Based on the title of this thread and your initial post you are calling some providers racist. You may not have named names but you certainly insinuated they were racist. My question to you is what difference does it makes? Let's assume for the sake of argument that they are racist. Wouldn't you rather have it posted in the ad that she will not see AA men before you have the door slammed in your face? We all have our likes and dislikes. It may be skin color, hair color, petite or BBW but there is someone out there for everyone.

Guest083013 · 12-12-2010, 12:41 PM

Totally agree with Budman and others. Your post appears to be "somewhat" abrasive in many ways. Always remember this is a business venture and really little else although some extended freindships can evolve. How do you perceive companions who advertise a minimum age requirement for gentlemen? Seriously ==> I think it is stark reality and totally classy for a Provider to announce her NBA policy if she in fact feels that way.

Guest071711 · 12-12-2010, 02:00 PM

The title of your thread is racist providers; and no, just because someone chooses not share something VERY personal with AA does not mean they are racist! Are you serious?

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Originally Posted by Puzzeluver10

I didn't intend to call anyone a racist, I was simply asking if its an issue or not and to get peoples views on it. I understand that everyone has a preference, I guess I let some ads kind of irritate me alittle which sparked me to start this thread that's all.

bestoralntexas · 12-12-2010, 02:35 PM

Good Afternoon Yall.

Well, O.P. I agree, "racist providing" & " hobbying".
Welcome, to Redneck Texas, and for the record,
I don't see your Thread as as abrasive at all, just direct.
Abrasive is to actually still see that people, mainly of the fairer races, are still so segregated, have race limitations based on skin tone rather than culture; & advertise there race limitations. White, black...they are not races! They are Crayola out of a box, and where do the Jewish folks fit in?

I have age requirements, and I also am a Non-Discriminating, Equal Opportunity C@ck sucker ( LOL - had to say it man).
I posted on a H-town thread, related to "References", that my reference is based on my criteria, and race was not a object I had to verify for BCD, and would to please not ask or exspect to see the race of one of my clients on there reference.

I will say, that I have had a few, quite a few "white" hobbyist pass on me because I am Non-Discriminating; on the same not this Jewish girl has quite a few closet clients who are "Good Ole Boys".One day, this shit will not exist, but until then, look me up when you come to Houston.

sajay · 12-12-2010, 02:38 PM

just preference I think... every guy in here has there own preferences and I bet most are pretty picky!!! ...and why shouldn't they be? same goes for the provider...

Puzzeluver210 · 12-12-2010, 02:39 PM

Ok I admit I was wrong to put "Racist Providers" as a title thread and if I created a bad vibe with anyone I apologize, perhaps it was a bad topic to bring up in the first place, like I said I was just wanting opinions and I got that, thanks for your response.

sajay · 12-12-2010, 02:43 PM

i dont think its a bad topic... I think its worse to NOT talk about it... The more people talk about race the better they will understand each other... and maybe someday all this racism crap dies off...

cowboy84 · 12-12-2010, 02:57 PM

maybe the question should be why some providers won't see any AA men....just my 2 cents but I could be wrong

Budman · 12-12-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bestoralntexas

Good Afternoon Yall.

Well, O.P. I agree, "racist providing" & " hobbying".
Welcome, to Redneck Texas, and for the record,
I don't see your Thread as as abrasive at all, just direct.
Abrasive is to actually still see that people, mainly of the fairer races, are still so segregated, have race limitations based on skin tone rather than culture; & advertise there race limitations. White, black...they are not races! They are Crayola out of a box, and where do the Jewish folks fit in?

Redneck Texas?? Really. So you must be the enlightened one...

Mainly the fairer races? Are you fucking serious?

I have age requirements, and I also am a Non-Discriminating, Equal Opportunity C@ck sucker ( LOL - had to say it man).
I posted on a H-town thread, related to "References", that my reference is based on my criteria, and race was not a object I had to verify for BCD, and would to please not ask or exspect to see the race of one of my clients on there reference.

Your use of age as a criteria is OK but other providers who use race is not?

I will say, that I have had a few, quite a few "white" hobbyist pass on me because I am Non-Discriminating;

And how did you know they were white or that the reason they passed on you is because of your non-discriminating criteria?

on the same not this Jewish girl has quite a few closet clients who are "Good Ole Boys".One day, this shit will not exist, but until then, look me up when you come to Houston.

Wrong. People will always have their preference based on their own life experiences. I'm curious as to what exactly you mean by "Good Ole Boys".

Budman · 12-12-2010, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by cowboy84

maybe the question should be why some providers won't see any AA men....just my 2 cents but I could be wrong

Cowboy, Why should there be a question at all? Or maybe we should have a long list of questions.

1. Why do some hobbyist see petite blondes?
2. Why don't all hobbyist see gay men?
3. Why do providers have age requirements?
4. Why don't all providers charge the same amount per hour?
5. Why do some hobbyist only want to see tall providers?

This list could go on forever and the only answer is because that's what they prefer. It's as simple as that. Trying to read more into it than that is futile.