It's become cool to be a dick behind a computer screen. Dallas, this is enough. Calling the old guard..

[Guest062512]

Hahahaha...

Those of you who are telling the OP that she should not try to police the internet and tell people what to post and what not to post...

Aren't you doing the exact same thing toward the OP (telling her what not to post?)

But I think she was less telling people what not to post, per se, but more asking for help and support from like-minded members to try and turn this place back into a more pleasant and helpful place.

The challenge is to disagree without being disagreeable.

[LovingKayla]

Lucus, damn this thing, I had to type your name 6 times before the auto correct quit changing it on me (it doesn't like your name apparently. Sorry)*

I had ready painted my face blue by mid afternoon. You slick devil.*

I promise to keep my opinions to myself when there are no more dickheads in the world attacking women and going to the edge to cause pain. I happen to know Alot about that since I was one of the bad guys for a very short time. It's wrong. Period.*

The only thing required for evil to win is for good men to do nothing. ~ (i forget who originally said that, but it's my favorite quote and my most hated quote. )

No choice is a choice. You guys should know by now that my drummer doesn't play( well, she doesn't play very well at all) to the beat of a crowd unless I believe the crowd is right. *If you are looking at my post thinking I'm anything other than an American speaking my own personal thoughts that I absolutely have the right to have, you should consider looking closer at yourself.*


And let me clue some of you slower ones in on something... Sticking your neck out on this board (what it's turned into) is fucking scary. The rabid dogs could tear me limb from limb, all for standing up for something I believe. You go right ahead and do your worst. You won't be able to silence me an you will show yourself for the dark person you are.*

Being mean gives power but it's the wrong kind of power. Do you (in your real life) really want to be a giant turd sandwich? Does making fun or causing pain bring you pleasure of any kind? We are all capable of great evil and honestly evil is so much easier. I can always find a crowd to lay waste to someone but only one or two that are willing to go up against the crowd (who the hell wants all that trouble.)

Truthfully I'm flat shocked there is so much support in this thread. I saw posts from people that had quit posting all together. Thankyou. Really. It took amazing courage to support the crazy provider taking on stuff she really shouldn't.*

In the old days I thrived on trouble. *I hate trouble now but damnit I can't just sit here or run away anymore.*

The purpose of this thread originally *was to make a stand and grit my teeth for the onslaught. If I irritate you, why is that? Like your women quiet and docile? Well, turn that page honey, there are women here with the ability to fold you into a sandwich and serve you up for lunch ( not me but she just came back around.)

So, to sum up... The more you attack me, pm, call w bs, the harder I'll dig in.*

All we need is to remind folks of their good side. We providers LIVE on this side of the wall. This IS our real life. You are no longer allowed to inflict pain on us or one of the gentle guys that has the balls to be nice. *If you are one this applies too, consider finding your kind side again. Don't come dump your real life pain by trying to inflict more on people. There is actually a human on the other side of every post. (that statement is questionable sometimes but there is still a person.... Maybe an evil person, but Still a person.*



~K~



Ps. I'm much cooler this morning but i still believe doing what's right can never be quantified by evil men.*

[LovingKayla]

Pss. It's very insulting for you to come on here and snidely say this is just a whore board. How would you like me to walk into your home, look at your kids toys and turn my nose up and say," it's just a johns house.


Burn it."

[tramp76137]

Go get them Tiger! You are still my hero.

[yelnats69]

Always loved the way you are up front and real. I agree that people need to keep their mean and snide to themelves. I stopped reviewing on the old ASPD when I was attacked because my view of q session with someone did not meet the status quo - she just wasn't my style and I said so, woe is me! Fight the good fight, Kayla.

I'll PM you on another topic.

[Guest080611]

AMEN, LOVING KAYLA!!!! I've said it a couple times myself over the last couple months.....maybe longer than that, because I haven't been on the board.....for reasons you are saying. Mostly I see a lack of respect, and personally if you don't have respect on this board, how am I soppose to trust that you will have respect in person. BP guys have more respect than more than half the guys that post here. Always hearing WHORE this, WHORE that. Really? providers & hobbiest both have other names.....but not once have I seen a provider use the other term for hobbiest. Maybe they have.....but not that I have read. Its a damn shame really. The way I remember, ASPD would have never let alot of this negativity continue. BANNED, BANNED, BANNED. It seems to me the main ones that get banned here are the providers & hobbiest that defend theirselves to these disrespectful people. Like I've said in a previous thread......this board is not what it was intended to be. When a members only board becomes lower than BP......you know there is a problem. Don't get me wrong, lately I've seen more than a few eccie hobbiest that were wonderful!!!!!! But of course because of this board going to shit......they don't even post. This board is more drama & negativity than my "All Woman facebook & myspace pages....now thats some drama for your ass...lmao!!! So LOVING KAYLA.....I'm with ya honey!!! SOMEBODY needs to do some cleaning house around here.....just sayin

[Jules Jaguar]

wow assholes come in all shapes sizes AND sexes who knew

thanks again kayla for the kind words

[Pistol Man]

Kayla, I do believe that many (hopefully most) of the men on this board use it as a source of pleasure not otherwise found in our normal everyday hum drum lives. That's why I have never understood the need of some men (or perhaps eunuchs?) to post here proving they are, indeed, nutless wonders. And, let's face it, so do some women. But let's get back to providing pleasure to one another - and, remember, as the tag line says, with chivalry you get so much more pleasure than you ever thought possible!

Pistol Man

[surfindick]

The only thing required for evil to win is for good men to do nothing .... Edmund Burke

the actual quote is:"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."

"In the old days I thrived on trouble."

No...say it's not true!!!!!

Good post by the way.

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

Pss. It's very insulting for you to come on here and snidely say this is just a whore board. How would you like me to walk into your home, look at your kids toys and turn my nose up and say," it's just a johns house.


Burn it."

Is this directed at me? I am assuming so. Wow, that's somewhat of a weird analogy. But, fair enough.

Since I have no kids and never want any, if you do see toys in my house, you'll see me frantically on the phone with the cops because I'll be freaked the fuck out while wondering where those toys came from.

[L.A.]

I typed a few paragraphs then deleted them before hitting "post quick reply"
I almost forgot why I became a "lurker"

[Budman]

Originally Posted by Crossroads

Hahahaha...

Those of you who are telling the OP that she should not try to police the internet and tell people what to post and what not to post...

Aren't you doing the exact same thing toward the OP (telling her what not to post?)

But I think she was less telling people what not to post, per se, but more asking for help and support from like-minded members to try and turn this place back into a more pleasant and helpful place.

The challenge is to disagree without being disagreeable.

Who told her she can't post this drivel?

[mpython1]

Pistol Man, what you said reflects the opinion of many of us hobbyists on eccie. I hope it would be most. A bad experience deserves a negative review, but even in negativity it is possible to be a gentleman. I would hope that most of the lovely ladies on this board would prefer a gentleman to a self-righteous label-er every time. You reap what you sew.

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by 69er

A board like this is about opinions. If we can only come here, and talk about what is deemed "good" by some posters... this place is going to die.

This place exists because we don't all have the same opinions. I agree that the comments on Jules photo were very harsh. But I did hear his message... Not so sure that Kayla did. Can you tell us what his message was?

69er makes a very good point there and after I read it last night I went to sleep and thought about that. Then read both threads again.

The guy didn't attack Jules. In a rude and coarse way, he asked why would a person who has chosen this line of work think that sort of body modification would appeal to the old guys who make up the vast portion of the client pool?

There have been numerous threads about tattoos here in Dallas. Some guys hate them and some love them. I can't talk about Austin tattoo threads as I don't visit that forum very often.

Jules put those tattoos on display in her ad in their full living color glory and he, in a coarse way, started a thread about tattoos that got twisted and hijacked in Austin into a defend Jules thing and then it got carried up here to defend her honor. Jules larger than life "tit tat" (Titty tattoo) got him started and off he went to the races with his harsh comments about the TATTOO not about JULES.

Actions have consequences. In the hobby and also in the real world, more so in the real world.

When you decide to begin body modifications, you start to see the consequences in what type of client wants to see you and where a client wants to be seen with you.

THAT much ink would never blend into a nice fancy restaurant where you had a plunging neckline with a client in a 3 piece suit. What he was with would become obvious. Everyone would assume he was with some street level prostitute because that type of ink is what many $50 Harry Hines ladies once sported while the HRH ladies almost never had ink and if they did it was subtle and easily hidden.

Many clients enjoy dining out with a younger lady who can be presented as a working professional business woman. Not taken for a street walker.

The same applies to your body as it does your website.

Most men want a fantasy and there have recently been some threads about that such as the guy who doesn't want a word said.

If your website is all about YOU YOU YOU, what music YOU like, your life and your thoughts, and not about CLIENT CLIENT CLIENT where you are showing him various fantasy looks he might want to enjoy then you loose business as an escort.

If you have chosen to modify your body to such an extent that you begin to resemble what people my age paid money to look at in the carnivals as kids then you must deal with the issue of loosing clients because of the ink or body mods.

But after reading then re-reading 69er's post, everyone needs to take a deep breath and understand rrrabit didn't attack Jules. He made fun of and was disgusted by a prostitute's choice of ink on her boob.

That was all.

[Budman]

I'm not a big fan of tats but a few discreet ones don't bother me. I appreciate a provider showing her tats in pics because it helps me make my decision on whether or not I want to visit her. I had an appointment where 1/3 of her body was covered in a tatoo but I had no idea. The pics didn't show it and the reviews only mentioned 1 tat. Technically they were correct but they failed to mention that it started at her calf and ended at her breast. Not what I was looking for.