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Old 03-29-2019, 08:31 PM   #31
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I would remind people they should be careful what they wish for in terms of discipline...if members were banned after one infraction, ladies would be banned for posting inappropriate ads or photos. If you look on the open boards for guys vs. girls being banned...it is at least 10 to 1 with guys outnumbering ladies.

We have a way of doing things here. It is based on a point system. There are only a couple things that we refer to as "nuclear" that will get you banned immediately. Most things are a point accumulati.on. Complaints would be better based on changing what is an auto ban rather than unfounded speculation on infractions being ignored. Infractions are not ignored, it is simply that they don't result in an auto ban.

If every infraction resulted in some sort of ban, then we'd have no ladies here...but it is, by design, VERY hard for ladies to be banned here. If they don't violate a nuclear rule, it is virtually impossible...
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Old 03-30-2019, 06:51 AM   #32
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After browsing through this discussion, I think it is imperative that B Three and her Two friends come to KC so we can have a through oral exploration of this topic in person.
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Old 03-30-2019, 07:15 AM   #33
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Wow, thinks Lubes comment was rude? I've seen way worse.
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Old 03-30-2019, 07:22 AM   #34
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"Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering." Don Miguel Ruiz
Thank you for sharing advice from Mr. Ruiz.

I read something on e-cards a couple of months ago that dovetails right into Mr. Ruiz's advice. It went like this, "Announcing 'I'm offended' is basically telling the world you can't control your own emotions, so every one else should do it for you."

Again, don't take things personally.
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Old 03-30-2019, 07:38 AM   #35
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Wow, thinks Lubes comment was rude? I've seen way worse.
The irony is that she's getting worked up over something she couldn't even read. I personally think the ' rudeness' in the referenced comment was more perceived then actual or intended.
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Old 03-30-2019, 08:27 AM   #36
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The irony is that she's getting worked up over something she couldn't even read. I personally think the ' rudeness' in the referenced comment was more perceived then actual or intended.
Ya one would think if you couldn't read the actual comment then there wouldn't be much to be pissed about.
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Old 03-30-2019, 08:55 AM   #37
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Ya one would think if you couldn't read the actual comment then there wouldn't be much to be pissed about.
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Old 03-30-2019, 09:06 AM   #38
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I find it amusingly interesting that the guideline that addresses "rudeness" also states "...acceptable within reason...".
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Old 03-30-2019, 09:42 AM   #39
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Hence the use of the word "guideline" instead of rule, to allow for subjective interpretation, the intent of those creating the guidelines and allowed by this site.

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#1 - Avoid cases of unprovoked rudeness to others. No place for it here. Yes, with the dynamic nature of the threads and topics, tempers will flare and things will become heated from time to time. You may often encounter individuals who become passionate or emotional when expressing one's opinion or point of view. That's all understood and perfectly acceptable within reason…….but, start slamming or bashing another member and be met with consequences.
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Ya I can see that.
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Thank you for sharing advice from Mr. Ruiz.

I read something on e-cards a couple of months ago that dovetails right into Mr. Ruiz's advice. It went like this, "Announcing 'I'm offended' is basically telling the world you can't control your own emotions, so every one else should do it for you."

Again, don't take things personally.
Why has this thread turned into a repository of quotes for you and yours? I suggest you two adhere to your own advice, or at a minimum, stay on topic WHICH IS men violating rules using private tags and calling women names on the open forums. Maybe you two can start a coffee klatch and write a book of pithy advice for women being abused. However, I will caution you that this will require original thoughts, and a genuine love for women.

No man should be allowed to come on this forum and call women HBIC, accuse her of being a "manager," nor call her incall location "a house of ill repute." Whoever she is. BigDeal won't admit that he's addressing me. But everyone knows. I'm not waiting for a coward to grow a conscience.

If a person called a mod a bitch, they'd get an infraction. You guys wouldn't be spouting platitudes then. But you let a companion be called a bitch, and we're told, "Don't take it personally"?

So is that the mod official response then, Scorpio? "Don't take it personally" when a member calls a woman a bitch on the boards? Women should just sit back and be called names on the KC forums since our lead mod has determined that instead of a rules violation, it's a case of "the companion took being called a HBIC personally."

Heard loud and clear. SMDH.
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Old 03-30-2019, 03:43 PM   #42
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moving to coed - but again, please stick to the topic.
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Old 03-30-2019, 05:37 PM   #44
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Just a general note.

Just because someone says something that offends me, does not mean that it is actually an insult. Sometimes it is a difference of opinion. Sometimes it is true, I just don't like it. Sometimes it is a poor choice of words.

Comments like "if you don't have something nice to say..." are not actually indicative of an insulting comment" e.g., Her teeth are very crooked and yellow; She is heavier than her pics; As opposed to Her teeth are completely jacked up and nasty; She's a fat freaking cow and lies about it.


None of the statements above are particularly "nice" but the last two are insults and the first two are opinions.
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Let me see here is a review I found, with no mention of this hooker...and no disclosure of any location relating to this individual...my review was in regards to a hotel.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2542788

This is a thread started by a particular hooker..
Claiming to be what she now denies....

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2542968

Then there is this thread about a place in Jackson County where you can go to think and this hooker calls it a "PRIVATE INCALL"....but yet I still see no connection to my review and this hookers place??

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2503474&highlight=



Hmmmm weird how this individuals mind is working overtime here!!
Smdh

Here is another thread this individual started about her having another doing her bookings...yet I have no idea where this place is because I AINT EVER BEEN THERE!!!

Then the eventual shutdown of this AirBnB...***cough***
Blaming my review...
Someone's cheese has done slipped off her pizza!!

Soooo it appears to me and many others, btw i appreciate the many pm's of support from the fine ladies and men here during these troubling times on the board...Im sure it will get better as the mods work thru this mess started by this troubled individual.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2543924&highlight=





Btw B Three I appreciate you weighing in and trying to bring some civility here in our market..you are appreciated!
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