A question regarding open relationships and dating

[lizshue81]

Originally Posted by The Lawn Boy

Any dude that plays under those circumstances and any prostitute that sees a dude under those circumstances is a terrible human being and will not go to heaven.

Did lawn boy get banned for this statement? I guess threatening that we won’t go to heaven could be considered rude and an attack and maybe a threat? I definitely felt rudely attached and threatened...

Anyway, the OP wasn’t asking for our opinions on the decision he and his wife have made, he asked 1. Where to find dates and 2. If women will be open to dating a happily married man.

1. People mentioned lots of online dating forums and apps. I would add hinge and i can’t remember if someone said bumble. You can include in your profile something about your story- maybe write it with your wife so she feels comfortable with how much of her situation you share- but don’t be afraid to state in your profile that you are happily married. That will filter your responses to get you people who are open to it.
2. Yes. Especially one who’s honest. ...and also if he can fuck adequately well.

[JohnnyYanks]

Wondering if the OP will succeed in getting at least one sympathy fuck from one of the hoes ... Nah, right?

[Dev Null]

I think we've pretty much established who among is capable of a little empathy and who is not.

Maybe some of us might take a step back and ask themselves what they do and do not know.

Carry on.

[beelzebubba]

^ A tad judgemental, perhaps you should step back and ask yourself who you are to judge anyone?
Or was that something you had not considered?
And We’ve? You are alone, unless the voices were talking to you.
No one needs your permission to carry on.
Maybe, just maybe you could have posted on topic?

As tough as it is OP stick it out faithful to the woman you love.
At the very least, do what you have to, but never ever let her know.

[Groovy Johnson]

Originally Posted by Dev Null

I think we've pretty much established who among is capable of a little empathy and who is not.

Maybe some of us might take a step back and ask themselves what they do and do not know.

Carry on.

+1

[Million Miler]

My last girlfriend and I were in an open relationship. Not the easiest thing but when it does work.... it's like when that inside straight draw pays off

[Johnny Depth]

I would focus on your wife. I know it’s tough, but if y’all are friends then she should more important than some sport fucking. After she passes I truly suggest that you grieve properly so that the next lady you date you can truly give all of your attention to them. It may not seem like it now but if you don’t properly grieve, you are cheating yourself and the next woman you date. Instant gratification is short lived and it will just make you less happy in the end. You’ll keep dating women looking for something that it you won’t find and end up unhappy.

[Johnny Depth]

Reverse roles. You are sitting at home dying, wanting to keep it all under your hat and your wife is out there laid up with some guy having the time of her life. That would be devastating with every thing else going on. I’m not trying to be judgmental because we don’t know all of the details, but IMO if she really wanted you to be out there she would have divorced you ahead of time. Be with her man. Think about it if you were the one dying. I’d want my last days to be with my friend, they one I love. I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I’m sure it’s not easy. I’d be glad to buy you a beer or something if you want to talk in person.