NcNs, last minute cancelations

[Mizzou82]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

Im not one of the guys, but any interest in hearing why the didnt show up? When it is a woman doing it there are a dozen or more posts asking for them to get a chance and I have had a crap ton of providers cancel last minute or after the scheduled time with family issues, car issues, health issues.

I should also say its none of my business, but adding guys to DNS lists because of a NCNS that did not involve you and you are not aware of his situation seems a bit rash. Just sayin. I think it is fine for the girls to share between themselves when a guy does it, but when providers break schedule we are expected to forgive it. Why not give guys a chance.

I agree. I have never NCNS, and only have cancelled on short notice once. Did not think she would enjoy me with food poisoning. I see these kinds of posts about you ladies doing NCNS and late cancels in the men's lounge all the time. There are always guys like ryan advising to give her a chance to explain and to be careful about harming a girl's ability to make a living, without her side of the story. I hope the ladies can be as careful with this idea of posting names with only one side of a story before they harm these guy's ability to get laid. But if the OP had 3 NCNS in one day, and they just blew her off with no explanation, after a certain time, go for it.

[A2theb2thec]

The lady has had multitudes of arrangements in her career. I'm quite sure she can smell bullshit well enough. It sounds like she had a bad trend that day. Still it is awful how inconsiderate people can be on both sides of this hobby. I've had my share of sheer disappointments with the ladies more than you will ever know. It doesn't stop me from seeking new talent but does make me more wary and more prone to seek a quick alternative.

The sad thing is that this certainly made a mark on the OP and she will certainly do things differently from this point forward with all her clients apart from the ones she has gained some trust. So goes the game. I figure if we shun the ladies who practice flaky business the ladies in turn can blacklist the assholes.

Lady Y, do as you please. I would certainly think these three are not a good representative of the rest. I'm not sure what could prevent the wasted time besides double booking. Not like that hasn't been done before.

-A2theb2thec

[Ms.Lady Y]

Thank you all for your comments,

I will not be publicly outing them, I think its tacky when the guys do it to the ladies so I will not do it to the men!

[shayla84]

Please let me know miss lady y