When canceling a date: Should there be a fee to cancel?

[MuffLuver]

As a client, this happened to me a couple of years ago with a provider at her incall (her home). I took off work early on both occassions, showed up on time, no answer at the door and no answer on my calls. She was hot and I was horned up for her and that was why I was dumb enough to try a second time.

Lux makes a good point about setting up an incall just prior to the meeting.

NCNS goes both ways (client or provider) and its just as rude both ways.

[cbyracer]

Can't speak to your issue but here was my experience:

I had to cancel on a provider here this week. I didn't want to but it was unavoidable.

There had been another date I couldn't make a couple of weeks earlier so this was my 2nd cancellation.

I offered to make it right, since she'd spent a good deal of time emailing me back and forth on both occasions.
I emailed her a gift card for an hour of her time.

She emailed me back that she would credit that against a future appointment. I think I found a special girl and one I am going to spoil if I get the chance