Time to Address this old bullshit

[nookiebandit]

Kitty I think the best advice has been said before:


"You gotta' get some thick skin like a rhinoceros be cuz let me tell you there's a lotta haters and there's a lotta drama, but you just gotta be strong and get that money."

[ntxguy]

My brain hurts after trying to read all of this.

[Boltfan]

Well said Talia.

The self started train wreck, the lies, the deflection. The reason people keep posting is because we were all there, first hand, when all this nonsense from the past actually came up.

Kitty, you made the decision to make a post denying your past. The lies are stupendous. It is remarkable that someone can be so delusional.

[Wordsmith]

Hello Tallia. Long time no see. Hope you are doing well.

[jonas1_2]

It is obvious that Kitty has created an alter ego to deal with her pain. It's a common symptom among many mental disorders, including Autism Spectum Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. In ASD, it commonly manifests as "masking," while in NPD, it commonly manifests as gaslighting and delusions of grandeur.

So no one here is actually talking to the real Kitty. The real Kitty doesn't exist in this thread. The person we're interacting with is a fictitious character who doesn't exist. And since that character doesn't exist, there's no such thing as objective facts for that character. That character, and her history, is whatever the roleplayer says it is. It's like when we were kids playing pretend, and there was that one kid who was always invincible to everything and was always more powerful than everyone else. It's like a Dungeons and Dragons roleplay, where you can make up your character's backstory, and no one can tell you any different because it's your character.

People do this to protect themselves from pain. By taking on the mask of their alter ego, they pretend that they didn't do any of the things they're ashamed of. Any criticism you direct towards them gets redirected toward the alter ego. And since the alter ego (purportedly) didn't do any of those things, your criticism is moot.

This is why Kitty seems to kinda-sorta-but-not-really take responsibility:

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Good grief I admitted to experiementing with AI way back at the beginning of this thread. I found the app on IG. I was bored and I tried it out, I had a good old time with it. It's the one and only I ever posted an AI pic, I must not have been thinking too clearly, I do make some fucked up choices some time. We're only human. But quit trying to punish me over and over and over for the same old shit.

Her real ego wants to take responsibility and do better, but then she deflects to her alter ego to avoid responsibility by playing the victim. So we see both at the same time.

Kitty: other peoples' opinions are your drug, and you are addicted to it. That's why you created this thread and keep coming back to respond to it. You are addicted and can't help yourself. You are not missing time with your horses because of other people; you are missing that time because you're an addict. So just like with any drug or alcohol addict, you have to be willing to give up that drug completely. That means completely cutting off access to that drug -- even if it means deleting your account and never coming back. I AM NOT SAYING I WANT YOU TO DO THAT. I am saying that I think it may be better for your own mental health.

Everyone else: I think you should just let her go. I appreciate all the backstory; I wasn't here 8 years ago to witness this drama myself. But continuing to argue with Kitty at this point is like continuing to argue with a toddler about whether or not they ate the cookies, while they have cookie crumbs all over their face and hands. It's a waste of your time, and it just makes you look like you don't understand irrationality when you see it.

[KittyLamour]

Jonas I'm glad you're a doctor and posted your expert opinion on me when you've never met me.

BOLTFAG I have zero respect for you, think it's ridiculous they have you as a moderator and frankly don't read anything you say. You are pathetic in your vendettas against certain members and personally think you need to take a break from the board. No need to respond. I won't read it anyways.

Grace nobody would want to copy your diagnosis. It has been life shattering for me and having to deal with all the pain from a lifetime of being bullied and victimized and wishing that I'd been diagnosed earlier and probably been able to have had a much better life. I never would have guessed you were autistic because you seem to be quite adept at social interactions in contrast I am a complete failure. I knew nothing about your diagnosis until now but I will say in my observations you exhibit none of the known trademarks of autism. So you must have a very low score on the spectrum. Not that it is a competition or anything to be proud of. It's nothing but pure misery for me and I never would have even exposed I had it but for ze threatening more ridicule over a pm I sent her trying to make peace.

[~Ze~]

You know what's funny, you can toss this whole thread into gtp and have it analyze it all and it comes up with some interesting opinions. :P

[Anthonylewis50]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Jonas I'm glad you're a doctor and posted your expert opinion on me when you've never met me.

BOLTFAG I have zero respect for you, think it's ridiculous they have you as a moderator and frankly don't read anything you say. You are pathetic in your vendettas against certain members and personally think you need to take a break from the board. No need to respond. I won't read it anyways.

Grace nobody would want to copy your diagnosis. It has been life shattering for me and having to deal with all the pain from a lifetime of being bullied and victimized and wishing that I'd been diagnosed earlier and probably been able to have had a much better life. I never would have guessed you were autistic because you seem to be quite adept at social interactions in contrast I am a complete failure. I knew nothing about your diagnosis until now but I will say in my observations you exhibit none of the known trademarks of autism. So you must have a very low score on the spectrum. Not that it is a competition or anything to be proud of. It's nothing but pure misery for me and I never would have even exposed I had it but for ze threatening more ridicule over a pm I sent her trying to make peace.

I agree 100% about Boltfan, Kitty. Although my disputes with Boltfan have all been horse related. He tends to believe east coast horses are better than the west coast ones (which is complete bullshit, btw). He's a good mod, but doesn't know shit about horses

[Boltfan]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

I agree 100% about Boltfan, Kitty. Although my disputes with Boltfan have all been horse related. He tends to believe east coast horses are better than the west coast ones (which is complete bullshit, btw). He's a good mod, but doesn't know shit about horses

Hey, I grew up raising horses. Though they were neither east coast nor west coast horses. They were mountain high horses. And they ate apples. Lots of apples. Not AI apples. Red apples. Some with worms in them because they were wild apples. But not wild horses. Those are mostly in NV now.

[Boltfan]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Jonas I'm glad you're a doctor and posted your expert opinion on me when you've never met me.

BOLTFAG I have zero respect for you, think it's ridiculous they have you as a moderator and frankly don't read anything you say. You are pathetic in your vendettas against certain members and personally think you need to take a break from the board. No need to respond. I won't read it anyways.

Grace nobody would want to copy your diagnosis. It has been life shattering for me and having to deal with all the pain from a lifetime of being bullied and victimized and wishing that I'd been diagnosed earlier and probably been able to have had a much better life. I never would have guessed you were autistic because you seem to be quite adept at social interactions in contrast I am a complete failure. I knew nothing about your diagnosis until now but I will say in my observations you exhibit none of the known trademarks of autism. So you must have a very low score on the spectrum. Not that it is a competition or anything to be proud of. It's nothing but pure misery for me and I never would have even exposed I had it but for ze threatening more ridicule over a pm I sent her trying to make peace.

You will always be Plaxico. Every single issue you ever had on this board has been self inflicted.

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Grace nobody would want to copy your diagnosis. It has been life shattering for me and having to deal with all the pain from a lifetime of being bullied and victimized and wishing that I'd been diagnosed earlier and probably been able to have had a much better life. I never would have guessed you were autistic because you seem to be quite adept at social interactions in contrast I am a complete failure. I knew nothing about your diagnosis until now but I will say in my observations you exhibit none of the known trademarks of autism. So you must have a very low score on the spectrum. Not that it is a competition or anything to be proud of. It's nothing but pure misery for me and I never would have even exposed I had it but for ze threatening more ridicule over a pm I sent her trying to make peace.

Women on the spectrum, particularly those diagnosed with Aspergers, tend to do well with masking. If you've ever wondered how it is that I generally stay calm in these discussions and don't get all emotional-- that's why. Most people on the spectrum tend to not react with emotion for every... little... thing. Its easy for me to stay calm because... I'm generally not emotionally invested. I don't equate peoples opinions of me on a SHMB with my value or worth. I don't bother with opinions of those who don't like me, because there are plenty who do.


You'd have a lot more peace if you didn't insist on lying. You quite literally brought this thread to the board-- then started doubling down. Ze's first appearance on this thread involved you claiming that your AI pics were true and a representation of you. Her first response was relatively tame-- pointing out the heavy use of AI-- and you responded by calling her everything but a child of God. Fortune smiles upon you in the sense that Boltfan doesn't moderate in Dallas-- and I don't moderate Coed areas. Fortune frowns upon you in the sense that you started this thread and opened up the doors to most of the issues you're currently upset about.

[KittyLamour]

Anthony neither one of you knows Jack shit about horses.

Grace I'm happy for you.

Ze, nobody gives a fuck.

[KittyLamour]

Then why does BOLTFAG point people in Dallas every chance he gets?

I didn't call Ze a child of God because she is the spawn of Satan.

[corona]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Then why does BOLTFAG point people in Dallas every chance he gets?

I didn't call Ze a child of God because she is the spawn of Satan.

Also, quite rude about ~Ze~. She doesn't suffer fools, but I've never seen anything to lead me to believe she's the spawn of satan.


Got receipts for your claim on Bolt? How could you possibly know who Boltfan has pointed and in what forum the violation occurred?

[nookiebandit]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

I agree 100% about Boltfan, Kitty. Although my disputes with Boltfan have all been horse related. He tends to believe east coast horses are better than the west coast ones (which is complete bullshit, btw). He's a good mod, but doesn't know shit about horses

I agree with Boltfan and Jonas too.

Anthony, I think you are forgetting some of the finest horse racing around came from the east. Back in the day, if you really wanted your horses to Run, right on time, it was tricky. But some in NY found a way that allowed others to fight, for their right - to be licensed. Before they got ill though.

I'm not a horse expert like Kitty is so this is just what I remember.