OK, here goes
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Originally Posted by GP
What is proper protocol for the following hypothetical?
You have an appointment with a lady. You show up with the proper donation and any extra for a tip. The two of you have a fantastic time together. It is time to part ways, but you look outside and one mother of a snow storm has descended upon the area. You are stranded. There is no way for you to leave safely. Knowing that there is no way for anyone else to make it to the ladies incall safely either, do you impose and stay, or risk life and limb and venture outside to make it to god only knows where? Should the lady offer? Would any "extra" compensation be expected? Should any extra activities take place knowing ahead of time no extra money was brought? Could an IOU be involved? I know, it all depends on the relationship and what the lady decides, but in most circumstances, what would most ladies do if it were your average, run of the mill decent guy good client who is clean, always shows up on time and pays.
The reason I ask is because I have a lady who could not see me today because she was booked. She calls me back asking where I am. I tell her she must have the wrong number. She realizes who I am and then wishes she had booked me instead as I would have shown up unlike her other client. Too late for that, but she does book me for tomorrow. I explain to her that there is an impending storm coming. I mention how great it would be if we got stranded together for 24+ hours. The first words out of her mouth were that she could afford her new car. *(%#WTF#%## Needless to say, I was a little shocked. How much does she think her time is worth and also, how much stamina does she think I have? LOL.
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There is no way for you to leave safely. Knowing that there is no way for anyone else to make it to the ladies incall safely either, do you impose and stay, or risk life and limb and venture outside to make it to god only knows where?
You ask if you can stay until the weather clears or you find a nearby place to stay.
Should the lady offer? Yes, if she can.
Would any "extra" compensation be expected? No
Should any extra activities take place knowing ahead of time no extra money was brought? No
Could an IOU be involved? No
I know, it all depends on the relationship and what the lady decides, but in most circumstances, what would most ladies do if it were your average, run of the mill decent guy good client who is clean, always shows up on time and pays.
Offer shelter and if she is in the mood, you can be her slave until the weather clears.
It's offensive of you to even joke about how great spending 24+ hours together would be and then complain that the lady expects to be compensated in a big way. It's offensive to even ask what she thinks her time is worth. You know what her time is worth and you can't change the terms because of the weather. Spending 24 hours catering to anyone is exhausting and worth every penny earned. What you might not understand is that escorts cater to you and do it with a smile on their face and that doesn't mean they are always having a good time.
I know you meant no harm but you need to get it straight.
