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ALEXIS_ARIZA · 12-20-2010, 09:13 PM

What is it?
Has ANYONE HERE, provider or hobbyist, participated in such a ACT??
I have a regular client who is basically BEGGING for me to do so, to the point that Ive had to be more dominate than usual, which works, yet I stil seek to have a true grasp of the concept, and how to participate in a constructive manner. Any takers on the subject??

http://thedrsuereview.com/what-is-financial-domination/

Krunkman · 12-21-2010, 07:54 AM

It is where the person wants to give you money. In theory it is a no-strings attached issue, where you (as the provider) just count it as extra income.

However, that's the theory. The reality is far different. Sometimes the no-strings turns into strings. Other times its used to control you, because you'll get used to the extra income and then you become hostage to it.

I would say that its a short-term issue at best. None of my domme friends who have gotten into this have ever had it end well. My personal opinion of it is that its f*cking stupid as hell. If you look below the surface it really benefits no one, but does muddy the waters in the short-term.

You are better off in the long run of just getting into the pay-for-play stance and leaving it at that. Unless you are just going to do it as a short-term issue.

Gryphon · 12-21-2010, 07:18 PM

Hmmm. I always thought financial domination was basically taking control of the sub's finances--I did that for a while with a sub girlfriend who wanted to do a full time total power exchange. The situation didn't end well, but not because of financial issues; she was grateful I forced her out from under a pile of debt and got her started on some savings. I'm not sure how that could work in a relationship with a provider, though.

Hot to Trot Daphne · 12-21-2010, 08:03 PM

The submissive is usually referred to as your cash cow, pay pig, financial slut, etc. Your money is your only form of worship, without it, the subject is nothing. Fuck you, pay me. Not really my thing. Here's some sites I found valuable when researching it a while ago..

http://www.financialdomination100.co...st/toplist.htm

http://www.princess-shimmy.net/

Guest050613-02 · 12-22-2010, 10:01 AM

Is no one going to make the obvious joke:

financial domination = marriage.

TheDogger · 01-08-2011, 09:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ReadCT

Is no one going to make the obvious joke:

financial domination = marriage.

+++++1

captnzen · 01-10-2011, 08:54 AM

I have tried a light dusting/playful form of it. Basically negotiating with the lady in question as to what my actual financial limits are in this area...and then taking her on a shopping spree...or paying certain bills as she dictates the where and when. That's probably a baby form of financial humiliation...I thought it woud be cooler than it actually was. Although the shopping spree thing with a lady you're intensely attracted to is fun...

RickO'shayRabbitt · 01-10-2011, 02:07 PM

Maybe it's just me, but the only way I could get off on that would be if the lady--occasionally at least--gave me one helluva sexual reward. Otherwise, I would just feel so.....used. Haha.

SlowHand49 · 01-10-2011, 02:36 PM

*laughs at the marriage=financial domination suggestion*

MsPrittiKitti · 01-10-2011, 11:59 PM

i could see how a "financial slave" to a provider might "enjoy it"
maybe knowing that shes with other guys ...is your thing!
maybe knowing that you pay for her incall, hobby phone etc....could be a "turn on" as well

ElisabethWhispers · 01-12-2011, 10:22 AM

I spoke about it for awhile with my mentor a few years back. She told me that it was a hell of a lot of responsibility and to really think twice before doing it.

My understanding of it is your client giving you his paycheck and you take care of his needs. Anything else, well I guess that it would be yours.

I would think ... that this is a VERY private situation and could go badly quickly if he was abused in any way.

The other suggestions, shopping spree or whatever, that is a little different. Gryphon's definition of it below is what I think of it to be.

Good luck with it. Great topic!

Elisabeth

Krunkman · 01-12-2011, 12:36 PM

The definition of it is highly variable, hence the wide-range of opinions of what it is and how a person may be affected by it. Very much a YMMV sort of thing.

Though the reference to marriage...lol. Definitely somewhat appropriate!

ALEXIS_ARIZA · 01-17-2011, 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

i could see how a "financial slave" to a provider might "enjoy it"
maybe knowing that shes with other guys ...is your thing!
maybe knowing that you pay for her incall, hobby phone etc....could be a "turn on" as well

Thats what I was thinking..

ALEXIS_ARIZA · 01-17-2011, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

I spoke about it for awhile with my mentor a few years back. She told me that it was a hell of a lot of responsibility and to really think twice before doing it.

My understanding of it is your client giving you his paycheck and you take care of his needs. Anything else, well I guess that it would be yours.

I would think ... that this is a VERY private situation and could go badly quickly if he was abused in any way.

The other suggestions, shopping spree or whatever, that is a little different. Gryphon's definition of it below is what I think of it to be.

Good luck with it. Great topic!

Elisabeth

When explained/ approached about it, I was told about a LUMP SUM being governed by me. I Would be responsible for making sure that his needs were maintained, if not improved or made more comfortable, and whatever else I wanted to do.... I would really have no sexual contact with him unless I demanded it.

satexasguy · 01-18-2011, 03:21 PM

I think this basically describes a wife! JK