I am writing a response to a bad review only because it has drawn alot of attention.  I appreciate the support from the guys on my end.  Details in the review, such as CBJ and dark hair, led me to believe this was completely fake.  I think this was the general concensus.   I literally  had a posted pics from a photo shoot less than a week prior to the appointment.   There were just so many details that didn't make sense. 
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=143243
 
 
Duck made a comment which he probably should have put in the review.  Suddenly, I had a moment of clarity!   I am here to clarify that I did, in fact, see this guy and probably deserved a bad review.  We had miscommunication from the start.  I didn't think we were meeting so I wasn't ready.  After a 12 hour work day in the real world,  I wasn't on my A-game because I was exhausted.   
 
I think Duck and I can both learn a lesson here.  He can learn the importance of paying better attention to detail in a review.  I learned that being overly accomodating isn't always a good thing.  I shouldn't have seen anyone and gotten some rest that evening.  
 
Sorry I let you down, Duck.  Happy holidays everyone and thanks for the support.