rate location question

[bigfastmike]

Ok I am new to this and don't know what may be an inappropriate or stupid question so...

Why don't many providers list rates and/or general location? I feel like a pest calling to ask. PERSONALL to me most providers are about as attractive as the next. And very few here I wouldn't not care to meet due to appearance and all claim to be the best companion. To me the actual freaky skillz are more important but I've only seen one (gr**e the head nurse) with mad skills discussed. I think that's awesome.
Seems only way to know the true talent of provider is to give a try. And that's understandable and ok.
So... just curious
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Any security reasons?
is it rude to call around to get the rate and location desired?

[Miss_Mya]

First when you are new there really are no stupid questions. The ones I don't understand are the providers that won't talk about rates and also do not list their rates doesn't make much sense. Now as for the general location I don't know what to say about that except some might do it for security reasons. I do give a general location just because I am not located in the city but out in the country (some call it out in BFE (I hear this from a lot of prior service guys)).

Both providers and hobbyist create a list of red flags some are common sense while others are just personal things. For example if you do not like the fact that a lady doesn't list her rates in her ad make that a personal red flag (but first see if she might have another site like eros, here, or a personal escort site). Just be safe and create your own list of red flags, do your best to stick with those flags, and do research. I know it can be hard at times with all the lovely providers that are out there but if you play safe I guarantee you will have a great time in the hobby.

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by bigfastmike

Any security reasons?
is it rude to call around to get the rate and location desired?

Yes, LE.

Its not rude to call, but before you start making calls, check around and see if she has a website that gives the rate information.

As far as the location, no intelligent provider would give out that information. A VERY general location, sure.

[bigfastmike]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Yes, LE.

Its not rude to call, but before you start making calls, check around and see if she has a website that gives the rate information.

As far as the location, no intelligent provider would give out that information. A VERY general location, sure.

Well.. nothing specific. Just mabey east side, west or downtown.
Someone living on far westside would prefer not to drive across town ya know.
Or maybe someone would not want to visit a provider on same side of town.

[Allie_Kat]

I don't discuss rates or anything like that over the phone. I have mine posted in various places. There are some who don't read the entire ad and just write down the number after checking out the pictures. That is not a good way to go about it. LOL.

[BigMikeinKC]

Originally Posted by bigfastmike

PERSONALL to me most providers are about as attractive as the next. And very few here I wouldn't not care to meet due to appearance and all claim to be the best companion.

Wow, you just made a lot of friends in the provider community. Glad I'm not FAST....

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

Wow, you just made a lot of friends in the provider community. Glad I'm not FAST....

I totally missed that one Mike. He took the Dale Carnegie class on how to influence people huh?


BigFastMike, disregard my statements to you. LOL

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I totally missed that one Mike. He took the Dale Carnegie class on how to influence people huh?

BigFastMike, disregard my statements to you. LOL

+1, Elena

Just goes to show you... FAST isn't always the best...

[bigfastmike]

Ha. Fast is best when paying by the hour. LOL

[BigMikeinKC]

Originally Posted by bigfastmike

Ha. Fast is best when paying by the hour. LOL

How sad for you.

Take your time and enjoy the journey, lad.

[bigfastmike]

Lad?
sad lad? Why you gotta do me like that?
Lol. Thread is supposed to be thought provoking and entertaining. Y'all were giving me a hard time so I was playing along.
I may be fast, lack endruance and size but my therapist says to look at the bright side and be happy.

[Miss_Mya]

Originally Posted by bigfastmike

I may be fast, lack endruance and size but my therapist says to look at the bright side and be happy.

Look for a short provider it will solve the size issue...LOL