yes krunkman, in the past i have looked into gwnn and saade and attended a couple of munches and a public playparty.  as you observed, it has been difficult to find dominants who are into submissives who are tv/cd.  there seem to be more who are into forced feminization than those that are into just a good ol' t-girl such as myself.  fortunately i'm patient.
 
i am mostly a bottom.  i'm not sure if i could switch, but i never rule anything out.  i do know that if i was to switch, i would have to do more than just "fake" it; i would truly have to want to and thus make it a legitimate experience.  who knows what the future could hold?  but for now, i'm very happy as a sub.  
