Menu and upcharging

[cindycum]

I wanted to ask ladies if you ask for extra donations for things you're not really interested in doing such as photos, videos, greek, gfe, pse etc? I've had gentlemen ask what my menu includes and I say I'm open to anything.

I personally like to keep my menu as all inclusive unless it's something way out there that I couldn't do such as bondage or something of that nature.

I've heard from some gentle that some girls upcharge. Just curious

[SmackThatAzz]

Most girls def upcharge for those you mentioned. Some use GFE and PSE in the usual rate though

[BADBOYFU]

Originally Posted by cindycum

I wanted to ask ladies if you ask for extra donations for things you're not really interested in doing such as photos, videos, greek, gfe, pse etc? I've had gentlemen ask what my menu includes and I say I'm open to anything.

I personally like to keep my menu as all inclusive unless it's something way out there that I couldn't do such as bondage or something of that nature.

I've heard from some gentle that some girls upcharge. Just curious

Most providers who do full service. provide a whole range of service except Greek. Those who do Greek charge extra ($50 or so). Only few providers offer Greek as part of their menu (Crystal K, Maci Lyn and Kat). I hope it helps

[HELL YES 76]

I've asked providers whom I've seen regularly for rough sex, Greek, bondage and they don't up charge only cause I've been a good repeat customer...

[cindycum]

HELL YES 76, that makes perfect sense. I wouldn't up charge a regular who sees me every month. I've down charged a great regular of mine once because he was in a job transition. Basically I extended our play time because I enjoy his company.

[rocker]

It all depends, lets say your hourly rate is $$$ ph and I am interested in Greek as well.
My feelings are that if somebody wants to upcharge for other certain things, they probably dont like doing that anyway. So why would I want to pay the upcharge to do greek knowing that you arent interested in it? That just wouldnt be any fun.


It seems that there is a lot of upcharges going around lately for things that usually are included in a GFE session. People are all different in want they like when it comes to sex, no problem. If you as a provider are not interested in certain acts, all you have to do is say no.

My .02 cents

Rocker

[Codybeast]

I'm along the same line of thought as Rocker. If it is something you don't like doing you shouldn't be doing it period regardless of xtra $.

If it's something you also enjoy then it should simply be part of the service you provide. If your menu is more complete than other providers
you can either reflect that in your initial hourly rate or simply leave the rate reasonable and blow your competition away.

Upcharging kills all sense of GFE.

If I want the feeling of being upcharged for extras I'll go TV shopping at Best Buy or pretend I'm car shopping at a dealer..

There is a certain young new provider on the board whose menu, rate and positive reviews had her high on my short list. However I just read a review where she's now started upcharging for Greek. While I haven't removed her as a backup altogether she is no longer a must see.

[Sensei]

I believe the rate should be all inclusive. The ladies need to set a reasonable rate that they feel their time is worth and roll with it. If I would like to partake in the "extra" activities I get a little extra, if not then they get a little extra $ and we are all happy. That way I can look at reviews and/or menu and decide if that is something i would like that particular time and if its worth the rate.

[Fratelli]

I know you asked for input from other ladies, but ....

I'm with Rocker and Cody. Doing things you don't really want to do is a quick path to burnout in this hobby. Keep your menu to the things that you enjoy. If you want to try something you aren't sure about, do it with someone you know and trust, then decide if you want to make it part of your menu, or not. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do.

[cindycum]

great responses. thanks everyone.

[Jay Walker]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

If it is something you don't like doing you shouldn't be doing it period regardless of xtra $.

I would wager that MOST ladies do not like fucking for money. Seriusly dude, if they actually liked fucking you, there wouldn't be an exchange of money. If you believe that escorts LIKE doing anything with you besides taking your money, then you are, generally speaking, a complete dumb ass.

[ThekNight]

Originally Posted by Jay Walker

I would wager that MOST ladies do not like fucking for money. Seriusly dude, if they actually liked fucking you, there wouldn't be an exchange of money. If you believe that escorts LIKE doing anything with you besides taking your money, then you are, generally speaking, a complete dumb ass.

Jay Walker that is why we have eyelids and imagination so the providers can imagine they are fucking Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

Like Fast Eddie Felson said "money won is twice as good as money earned"

I am sure many of the women think money from pleasure is a million times better than a paycheck from Walmart

I was not being up charged for anything on my resent request from providers I have seen.

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by Jay Walker

I would wager that MOST ladies do not like fucking for money. Seriusly dude, if they actually liked fucking you, there wouldn't be an exchange of money. If you believe that escorts LIKE doing anything with you besides taking your money, then you are, generally speaking, a complete dumb ass.

Clearly you must get along well with the ladies. They so love a textbook Misogynist.

Speaking of the term "Dumb ass" I was CLEARLY referring to Specific Activities she strongly dislikes NOT whether or not she's attracted to every client.

Obviously you don't impress the ladies and are venting in anger from your own experiences but some providers actually do like fucking certain clients more than others.

I would wager that most providers like both having sex and making money thus the world's oldest profession was born.

Why is it always the least intelligent individuals on the board who are slinging childish terms like dumb ass or stupid around? Is it that it rings a familiar bell from childhood?

If so I'm sorry for your experience. Now go look up the word "Misogynist". I can see you scratching your head from here.

[GneissGuy]

Originally Posted by cindycum

I wanted to ask ladies if you ask for extra donations for things you're not really interested in doing such as photos, videos, greek, gfe, pse etc? I've had gentlemen ask what my menu includes and I say I'm open to anything.

Around here, upcharging for GFE, especially BBBJ, will get you a bad rep. Doubly bad rep if you're not clear about it beforehand.

"PSE" is fairly meaningless. Greek and the rest is more acceptable.

[Guest092815]

I have always bee-lieved in the freedom of pursuit of happiness; all inclusive.

Lately, when I am 'nickel and dimed' for discounts.. I question... why do I give all of myself? I am valued less than those who insist on more $$$? I am no less good looking, and I give everything--complete safety and satisfaction. I am seriously asking myself, why?

Perhaps I have been too nice? The world is ever meaner and my "do unto others, as you you would have them do unto you" isn't keeping me on a level field. It hurts. If only I were a born dominatrix instead of a true pleaser. (sigh). ok. see, it doesn't work for me even in jest.~ grrr!

I love men!