Provider that wants more now for dumping her.

[oldman49]

Originally Posted by KenMonk

OP spill the details. You aren't giving us everything...

Dont know if Im OP. No need to give out her info yet, she still needs to make a living just not with me anymore.

[ArisRose]

Originally Posted by oldman49

Dont know if Im OP. No need to give out her info yet, she still needs to make a living just not with me anymore.

If you are telling the truth about the blackmailing then she DOES NOT need to be making a living here!

[Guest052813-01]

Originally Posted by oldman49

Dont know if Im OP. No need to give out her info yet, she still needs to make a living just not with me anymore.

Oldman49 - Yes, you are the OP (original poster).

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by oldman49

Dont know if Im OP. No need to give out her info yet, she still needs to make a living just not with me anymore.

I hate seeing posts by guys who will bitch and moan about what a lady has done to them, but refuse to give out her name. Why make the post then?

If she's doing this to you, she'll do it with another guy in the future. Why you aren't giving the board her name is beyond me. This board is to help everyone in the hobby and especially to keep others safe.

Don't you want to potentially save another guy from going through this?

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Let me get this straight. First you weren't sure whether you should report the situation to the police or not - but now her name needs to be kept out of it because she still needs to earn a living?

Yes, that makes total sense.

[SexyKaylen]

+1 Sins

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Let me get this straight. First you weren't sure whether you should report the situation to the police or not - but now her name needs to be kept out of it because she still needs to earn a living?

Yes, that makes total sense.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Let me get this straight. First you weren't sure whether you should report the situation to the police or not - but now her name needs to be kept out of it because she still needs to earn a living?

Yes, that makes total sense.

Biting sarcasm at its finest...and so true.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I hate seeing posts by guys who will bitch and moan about what a lady has done to them, but refuse to give out her name. Why make the post then?

If she's doing this to you, she'll do it with another guy in the future. Why you aren't giving the board her name is beyond me. This board is to help everyone in the hobby and especially to keep others safe.

Don't you want to potentially save another guy from going through this?

He just wants to whine...I think he and N-2-T should hook up and boo hoo into their beer together...

[BeautifulBree]

Originally Posted by royamcr

Damn, had to read the original post 3 times and each time I LOL a little louder. Wow. How do you dump a hooker? Why did you dump her? Just stop calling one day. No reason, no explanation. She think she has right to Hooker alimony or something?

Don't get me wrong, this is fucked up, and trying to mess with your personal life is FUBAR, but I just don't get it. Was this some sort of agreement or something like a SD/SB arrangement?

Hooker alimony ... I'm in tears laughing... Wouldn't that be great, But when u receive alimony and start sleeping with spmebody else u lose your alimony ... Damn loopholes

Originally Posted by blk07lac

What kind of relationship did you have that she even knows how to inform your family of your secret hobby? Please tell us so it reminds the others so they don't try it...

3 years of seeing somebody I'm sure she's accumulated enough info to cause some damage ... Men open up to us especially when they dobt have a s/o... Or when they ate i. The hobby because of loneliness

Originally Posted by OLindsay

wow bad move on ur part never mix business with pleasure unless ur ready for the repercussions. taking this to LE is putting so many in jeopardy cause they aren't just gonna stop with u, they will take over all ur personal things and then it's gonna become a ripple affect to the rest of us. I hope you have learned that this is a big no no unless you were her sugar daddy and your not telling us that part...

However best of luck with this.
XOXO, Lindsay

Yes we would definitely appreciate you not hooking up with le... If you want to tell on her tell the mod not the police

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Let me get this straight. First you weren't sure whether you should report the situation to the police or not - but now her name needs to be kept out of it because she still needs to earn a living?

Yes, that makes total sense.

Sins u always thinking the same thing I am ...
I will say in defense for the op... I know a couple of provider names that if he would have through out here ya'll would have ate him alive... If she's well reviewed and of hot topic between the men on this board you all will go to bat like she's one of your children and completely dismiss everything this poster had said... But op you need to provide a little more info as to the situation if you want better feedback ... Don't let us bully you! Your proba ly not the only one she has blackmailed... Cuz if it worked they were to scared to say anything ...

[BeautifulBree]

Excuse all grammar and spelling typing all that from a phone gets annoying!

[KenMonk]

Thank you ladies... you said what I was thinking. Bonus points to Elena, randomblkchick and Sins!

I know if there was a legit blackmail threat I would have never even posted I was having an issue. Why you ask? Hell yes I'll explain.

Even posting that could set her off with the information she has. If I were married, and she knew about my life she could ruin that aspect of it. Then going through the shame (this life style is still considered taboo in this country and most likely will never change) of the SO telling everyone, and going through a divorce. The fact that you even made the post makes me think of several different things.

The way it sounds is you had some sort of relationship with her, be it a mistress/SB type of thing, friend with benefits, or more. If you have an SO you should just hope you don't have a bunch of stuff in your name, or things you have paid for that leaves a paper trail, or god forbid a kid with her (Ask Arnold about that one). If so things will not end well for you so you might as well just name drop her.

[bartipero]

Good advice but in terms of the alert value op has in the end wasted the time of all.

[BeautifulBree]

He said he's not married.. does not have a so

[CaptainOveur]

OP wrote:

Been seeing her now for bout 3+ years....No need to give out her info yet, she still needs to make a living just not with me anymore.

New question on my provider screening questionnaire:

How long have you been a provider?

That one's going to knock lots of nice ladies off the list. Maybe the OP could help out a bit if we play 20 questions. I'll go first: Is she one of your six reviews?

I think she wants hooker alimony.

Probably the best phrase from this thread.

[KenMonk]

If the OP isn't married what is the problem then? That becomes even more mind-numbing.