sending naked pictures

[Shelbi]

O.k., I really need some feed back on this one.......

In the process of setting up a meeting the man asked for pics,,, I sent him a modest pic. Then this morning he called saying he was on his way, after we had set a time for tomorrow (and haggled about pricing). I was just waking up so I told him to give me a minute to jump in the shower. That's when he asked me to take a full body naked pic and send to him. I'm a little apprehensive about sending naked pics to people i have never met. He also flat out said, "I won't leave till I get the picture." Now to me,, that's just rude. I text him saying I wouldn't be sending the pic and that if he doesn't want to meet because of it, that would be o.k. Never heard from him again. My question is,,,Do I just need to put my big girl panties on and send them when asked or stick to my guns? It's not that I'm against it,,, once I've met you, You could very well get a few, but just to send to a stranger promising me the world??? ?

[sanantonioman37]

Always do what you are comfortable doing, don't allow someone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. If they don't like it, they can move on.

[rockerrick]

Stick to your guns ! You should never cave to pressure , no guarantee that he wouldn't have canceled anyway . Then one day you're perusing BP and there's your pics on someone else's ad .

[Laz]

Do what you think is right. A dressed pic in an outfit that allows him to know your body type should be adequate for someone you have never seen.

[bigjimt52]

you did right...

[Harro69]

You need a showcase with some eye candy, that you are comfy with, and then just tell them that's all you want to show on the web. He seems rude but it is normal for guys to want to see providers bod's.

[Guest083013]

.....obviously you cannot have a Showcase because you have not been granted Verified Provider status; however, please try to remember this ==> this is YOUR business platform and only you know what your comfort levels are. I believe you are seeing those of us who are tenured here will always support your right to make those decisions that you feel good about. Do not allow others to talk you into things that make you feel otherwise. As many will tell you ===> all money is not good money!!
Have a great day.

[Gipper]

Originally Posted by sanantonioman37

Always do what you are comfortable doing, don't allow someone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. If they don't like it, they can move on.

SA Man speaks the truth.

[Shelbi]

I know,,, I can't wait to be able to make my showcase. Still waiting on reply of my verified status. I'm anxious to really get going. Thanx for all the really good feedback. I don't feel so bad now.

[JSmith2010]

Definitely works both ways. If you don't want to it's your prerogative, and if he doesn't want to see you that's his prerogative too. For both people it's about being comfortable, if you aren't, on to the next one.

I've made the same request in the past as well.

[Ms. Milani]

I don't send pictures. I have my showcase or ad pics and that's all they are getting. Sometimes I will send my regular clients pics at their request but by then I know them and trust them. I know other providers that are the same way. If you want to enjoy being a provider don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

[Shelbi]

Thanx Malaya,,,, That's exactly what I had in mind of doing. Love your new pics BTW. SEXY!!

@JSmith2010,,, I told him when i text him saying i wasn't going to send the pic, that if he didn't want to meet because of it that it was o.k. with me. I hold no hard feelings towards him at all. To each their own.

[joshharris86]

Eh, I'd be embarressed asking someone I didn't really know for nudes.
I can joke about it sure but, yeah. I think he saved you some grief by not showing up.

[JSmith2010]

Embarrassed to ask for nudes, but not embarrassed to pay a woman you don't know for sex?

Interesting.

[trynagetlaid]

You should have offered to send a bikini pic and if that wasn't good enough just tell him to go fly a kite.