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					Originally Posted by Lily Blair  But was this a green dot situation? 
 I'm almost interested enough to be curious as to why this person would want to prepay without any appointment scheduled.
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Lily,
 
IME, the most common reason is because the provider desparately needs cash and some dude thinks he will make brownie points with the lady by offering:
 
1.) loan to be repaid; 
2.) gift expecting nothing in return; 
3.) advance for future services; 
4.) all of the above. 
5.) none of the above. 
 
Unfortunately, unless there is a written agreement, there will often be misunderstanding (intentional or otherwise) regarding whether it was 1,2,3,4 or 5. 
 
As a general comment: 
 
In this dispute, both parties know exactly what happened. I have received extensive private info from one of the parties and have a clear picture of what went down. That private info has no place and will not be allowed on Eccie, regardless of whether it is in a public forum or PM. I have asked both parties to drop the discussion before it degrades into another shit storm that ends with infractions and forced vacations from the board. 
 
Huck.