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chantal24 · 05-01-2011, 12:34 AM

you are missing my point...i think what i am stating just as an observation is that guys seem to end up spending more money trying to save money....it really wasnt related to my personal business,or trying to promote myself...and gp was a perfect example...he spent a fair amount of money trying to find "a diamond in the rough" which to me means a real good provider extremely cheap....and what i observed is the poor reviews seem to correlate with amounts paid...but remember i could be wrong...after all i am blonde...lol

offshoredrilling · 05-01-2011, 02:29 AM

no, not all of the reviews are not from guys trying to save money. Some of the no's are from guys that are trying to build references needed to see many on this board. But seeing some form what is easy to see. Some of them are good others not. And yes some have a lower price. Till you have 2 or 3 references many will not see a guy. And they do not want to give out the information to get around the references in the screening. And so its slow going for some to get started. So also see form other than the boards.

After first getting on a board I think I only ever posted one "no" review. And I even gave her a 2nd try and did another with a "yes" latter. I have more reviews with a "not my cup of tea" with a "yes". That would be saying I would not go back, but can see why others would. (I'm thinking all my reviews ASPD and ECCIE by the way) Now one from the old board where I gave a "not my cup of tea" and one on this board that I gave a "yes", if you ask me now, it would be "NO". Most of my reviews are a "YES"

I had it lucky as other when I first started. A provider I knew for years joined a board and asked me to join. One reference with out even trying. And with luck made the right moves at the right time. But I have backed out a lot and now my references are to old to be of much use. All but one anyway.

mmmmm some are looking for cheap. Most of them are not doing reviews. Some are looking for the next good find. To be the first to review. Some guys like taking more risk. And review.

So not all are looking for saving money. This hobby is not as shallow as you are thinking. IMHO

JONBALLS · 05-01-2011, 04:09 AM

its always YMMV, anything else is just people conversing about in their own unique way.You cannot rationalize something that is consumed in human emotion.If someone starts an endeavor just for the monetary purposes alone, usually their success will be a lot less than a person that just looves what they do, and does it because of the value they get through being able to make a living doing what they love. Some escorts are better actors than others.Guys will be able to discern that for themselves .comes down to chemistry between two people.Guys want variety, no one woman will lock someone up no matter how great it is, guys will come back, but, will also stray, stray, stray..thats how they ended up here.So everyone just do what you do and it will be what it will be.

GP · 05-01-2011, 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

mmmmm some are looking for cheap. Most of them are not doing reviews. Some are looking for the next good find. To be the first to review. Some guys like taking more risk. And review.

So not all are looking for saving money. This hobby is not as shallow as you are thinking. IMHO

Very well put OSD.

Me for example: Normally, I stick with the well reviewed ladies, but on occasion, I like to find a "new" lady at a reasonable rate. Being the first to review her is always fun. It's like walking through the park and finding a silver half dollar on the ground and saying, "hey look what I found". Next thing you know, everyone comes running over to take a look. Some people say it is bragging, but I think it is more along the lines of what this board is for; REVIEWS. Plus, just writing reviews can be fun, especially the positive ones.

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Originally Posted by JONBALLS

Guys want variety, no one woman will lock someone up no matter how great it is, guys will come back, but, will also stray, stray, stray..thats how they ended up here.

Another good point that I would say fits me VERY well. Variety is the spice of life!

If the "observation" is being made that we should not waste our money on providers that cost 150 and have no reviews and turn out to be no good, then why should we waste our money on providers who cost 350 and have no reviews that could turn out to be no good?

chantal24 · 05-01-2011, 09:32 AM

got it!! you guys are sure schooling me.i really appreciate the feedback and am just a young girl trying to learn as much as possible!!

pineappleguy · 05-01-2011, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by chantal24

i was just looking at the reviews on this site and it peaked my curiosity.seems like a lot of guys feel a fair rate is 100-150 per hour range...but if i match this price range to the reviews...it seems like there is a lot of dissatisfaction,bait and switch,and misrepresentation.

For what it's worth, I agree. Although there are exceptions on both sides of the equation, for the most part, you get what you pay for.

Guest101311 · 05-01-2011, 11:44 AM

hell chantal, if i was in buffalo i would pay just to have you do jumping jacks lol!
you are cute as hell~

Lexxxy · 05-01-2011, 06:40 PM

I kind of believe you get what you pay for. I do run specials for return Gents and Prebookers though. It is YMMV but the donation towards my time is 200-220 and my special donation towards my time is between 150-180, I still give that date my all even though it is a special. I kind of believe that if a lady is 100 to start out with there is a reason, reasons involving substances that I guess are forbidden to bring up here BUT I'm sure you get my drift.

GP · 05-01-2011, 06:56 PM

But what if you don't know what you are getting? Would you pay premium rates for a complete unknown?

chantal24 · 05-01-2011, 07:04 PM

gp...you just said that you toftt and it was to benefit everyone on the board...you are contradicting yourself because the two negative reviews you posted in april where unknown and unreviewed...so in one post you are saying...ya,i toftt and posted a review about it...then the next post you are saying i dont see unreviewed girls...you also stated you love to be the first to review a girl...said that was something you enjoyed...so i am so confused!!!

GP · 05-01-2011, 07:17 PM

It has to do with the price. I do have my limits. Very easy to understand

youngatheart · 05-01-2011, 09:57 PM

In defense of GP (not that he needs any) and anyone who's written a "no" review. I'd like to submit the following review http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=204572 entered by GP. By most accpunts this should have been a "NO" but he tofft and gave her the benefit of the doubt.
Chantal, you are welcome to request any amount you feel is appropriate but don't sceond guess our intentions. I would rather take a chance on 2 @ $180 than 1 @$350. The odds are better. Two potentially halfway decent reasonably priced experiences are better than 1 expensive potentially decent experience.
I'd suggest you get your request in line, get some (excellent) reviews and then increase your donation.

Deepthinker · 05-02-2011, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by GP

It has to do with the price. I do have my limits. Very easy to understand

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Originally Posted by youngatheart

In defense of GP (not that he needs any) and anyone who's written a "no" review. I'd like to submit the following review http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=204572 entered by GP. By most accpunts this should have been a "NO" but he tofft and gave her the benefit of the doubt.
Chantal, you are welcome to request any amount you feel is appropriate but don't sceond guess our intentions. I would rather take a chance on 2 @ $180 than 1 @$350. The odds are better. Two potentially halfway decent reasonably priced experiences are better than 1 expensive potentially decent experience.
I'd suggest you get your request in line, get some (excellent) reviews and then increase your donation.

I don't think GP is contradicting himself. As he said, he likes to explore and find new talent, but has limits. Youngatheart also points out how many of the guys feel in regards to where their comfort level lies.

I think it is fine for a lady to enter the market where she feels she should be. If she feels that 350 is her price and wants to skip directly to that price level , bypassing the 150 - 200 rates that would build her business, that is her prerogative. What that will do has both positives and negatives. It will mean less time spent on emails and weeding out clients that can't afford that rate. It will also mean a slower build up of clients. It will likely mean that expectations will be higher for her as well. Afterall, if one is presenting themselves as being a Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton, there is a certain level of service that goes along with that. If that is not met, less than stellar reviews will probably follow , and either price adjustment or extinction is after that.

A difference is that people know from prior experience what that level of service will be at the Four Seasons, so their first visit is not a TOFFT. When the new chic place opens down the street, some people will pay 150 to try it, others may pay 350, and others will wait to see how the guidebooks review the place before spending that 350.

GP · 05-02-2011, 02:19 PM

As usual DT, your post oozes wisdom!

Chloe · 05-03-2011, 01:32 AM

I love DT's post's as well as the fact of what DT stands for LOL

He usually assesses things fairly even though we may have not been on the same page at times.

I believe if you do not like my posts/pictures/reviews than why waste the time? If you think we mesh . . . .than come forward to another world and drop your inhabitions.... then and only then there are prices that go way down with the getting to know you process . . . .it's all about being comfortable and loving every minute of our time