I've had an off thread "conversation" with a couple folks, so I trust any future discussion with be less heated.
First, I've moved this thread because it had little to do with the hobby, so it was inappropriate for Coed Discussions and belongs here.  I should have moved it as soon as I saw it, but that was my mistake.
I have not closed it - yet - but I will if the ECCIE guidelines I've listed below are not followed:
- #1 - Avoid cases of unprovoked rudeness to others.  No place for it  here.  Yes, with the dynamic nature of the threads and topics, tempers  will flare and things will become heated from time to time. You may  often encounter individuals who become passionate or emotional when  expressing one's opinion or point of view. That's all understood and  perfectly acceptable within reason…….but, start slamming or bashing  another member and be met with consequences.
- #3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of  low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums.  Follow the  Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.  This  applies to fellow members as well as staff.  We do not require that you  have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in  the public forums.  If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off  some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that  you keep it private.  Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the  appropriate avenue to take in such cases.  In cases where you would like  to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to  pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of  communication.  If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful  manner.
- #4 - Blatant insults or hostility toward another member will be met  with staff intervention.  This applies to using our coed forums for name  calling, personal attacks, or vulgar slang terms to describe fellow  members.  If you have legitimate concerns about another member here,  share them tactfully in the appropriate private forums or with staff.
So, let's all go back to having fun, enjoying the companionship of beautiful ladies (us guys) and interesting gentlemen (in the case of the ladies).
Play nice.
JaG