ME > NIKKI MONROE AKA SUGAR AND MARYJANE'S REVIEW

[sugarbabiekc]

HEY THERE NIKKI HERE AKA KC SUGAR BABIE... I HAVE TO SAY I AM A LITTLE MAD ABOUT THE LATEST REVIEW BY LOBBY I THINK IS WHAT HIS SCREEN NAME IS IT SAYS MARY AND I DO NOT LOOK LIKE OUR PICS MY PICS ARE RECENT AS THEY COME WITHIN THE LAST MONTH I POST MY SIZE ON MY AD'S I HAVE A 3MONTH OLD BABY AND I AM WORKING ON GETTING MY AB'S BACK BUT WHEN YOU GO TO SEE A GIRL WHO POSTS THAT SHE IS A THICK GIRL AND HAS HER SIZES AS 36C2842 WHAT ARE YOU WANTING TO SEE///?? ARIEL? I AM A MOMMY.. JUST PUTTING THIS OUT THERE FOR ANY HOBBIEST THAT KNOWS ME AND HAS RECENTLY SEEN ME PLEASE COME TO MY RESCUE

[FireSerpent]

And here I thought only God could judge you... j/k.

Everyone has an image of their ideal or what they are looking for. I think that his experience with you was simply a reflecton of that. As far as this call to arms goes, I sugest that you encourage hobbiests to give a fair & honest review of you. This would do more in your favor than to have guys posting here saying "hey, she's realy not that big!"

But to answer your question, when someone posts that they are 36C-28-42 I am expecting somone with a moderately sized bust, small wast (I have a 30" waist so I have a good idea of what 28" looks like) and either wide hips or a lot of booty..... sometimes both. Arial's curves aren't as dramatic as described by those measurements, but I don't see many reviews showing disappointment in the accuracy of her images compared to ho answers the door.

If I were you, I wouldn't take it personally. He time you spend in the gym getting back into fghting shape and you (per the review) enthusiastic nature will have their rewards in come back to you in review form. Everyone gets a "No" sometime.

[Modda]

Originally Posted by sugarbabiekc

HEY THERE NIKKI HERE AKA KC SUGAR BABIE... I HAVE TO SAY I AM A LITTLE MAD ABOUT THE LATEST REVIEW BY LOBBY I THINK IS WHAT HIS SCREEN NAME IS IT SAYS MARY AND I DO NOT LOOK LIKE OUR PICS MY PICS ARE RECENT AS THEY COME WITHIN THE LAST MONTH I POST MY SIZE ON MY AD'S I HAVE A 3MONTH OLD BABY AND I AM WORKING ON GETTING MY AB'S BACK BUT WHEN YOU GO TO SEE A GIRL WHO POSTS THAT SHE IS A THICK GIRL AND HAS HER SIZES AS 36C2842 WHAT ARE YOU WANTING TO SEE///?? ARIEL? I AM A MOMMY.. JUST PUTTING THIS OUT THERE FOR ANY HOBBIEST THAT KNOWS ME AND HAS RECENTLY SEEN ME PLEASE COME TO MY RESCUE

I can understand your frustration, it becomes very tough to read when you type everything in CAPSLOCK and it gives and impression that you are trying to yell at someone...

[vitokc]

Sometimes the angle of the pics will hide some assets. So in person, you will look different than in the pics. If you are not hiding anything, take full front pics, no angle to give a better view..

[Modda]

Originally Posted by vitokc

Sometimes the angle of the pics will hide some assets. So in person, you will look different than in the pics. If you are not hiding anything, take full front pics, no angle to give a better view..

good point and that is the main reason of _____

[jan-w]

I haven't seen SugarBabie but I have seen her friend MJ and think MJ's pics are accurate in that she is a bigger woman and much cuter in person I might add. I think both ladies are truthful in their ads as they state their size and always post plenty of pics. Yes, their pictures show them posed to display their best assets but everybody does that. I think that if anybody makes an appt. with a lady who advertises herself as thick and curvy, that's what they should expect.

[BottomFeederKC]

Originally Posted by FireSerpent

And here I thought only God could judge you... j/k.

Too funny!

[bustycici]

dont take things so personal it sucks but my attitude is you dont like it oh well...just like you I dont false advertise ...it sucks when people cut you down but you know what take it with a grain of salt ...I have plenty of reviews where they said chubby mid section..oh well though its your personality that gains you more clients..Just know your pretty hun..And just having a baby some women arent built to just bounce right back my youngest is 6 and i still am not back to normal..Just give it time shrug it off and breathe what one person says in a review will not stop people from seeing you i promise hun..Just put a smile on your face and throw your hands up and say oh well!!!

[BottomFeederKC]

I reread my post and realized I may have appeared rude. I hope I didn't appear to be ganging up on you, Nikki. Im an Atheist, and thus I tend to be a tad snarky when the words "God" come up - especially on a hobby-related site (so naughty and sinful on here, LOL). But lets not digress into a theological debate. Yikes! That NEVER goes well.



My thoughts:

I appreciate the human female form. Period. Personally, I guess I get labeled a total "ass man" and thus women who have bigger asses, hips and thighs attract me sometimes. BUT (no pun intended) Im also a total "spinner guy", so I can appreciate tiny women too (even flat chested). Trying to combine a tiny frame with a big juicy butt ain't easy. But at the end of the day, its not about the body. OK,OK let me rephrase that. Its not JUST about the body. Its the skills, attitude, personality, level of safety and discretion, as well as the pragmatic stuff like location, availability, menu items and.... rates (damn you, capitalism! What can't the hobby be FREE?)

Of all body parts to judge, the female midsection has to take the most slack. None of us would be alive if we didn't have a mommy give birth to us. Lets not forget this. Granted, men in the hobby can seek out girls with flat tummies. Flat tummies are sexy. Notice I never mentioned the words BBBW, Curvy or Round. Those words can dangerous when a man uses them, but woman sometimes have the luxury of throwing them around a little more. Skinny girls are out there if you want them. So are thin girls. Thats what makes us the hobby so fun. All shapes and sizes baby. Ahhhh, I feel better now. Group hug everyone!

I see both sides of this argument: Men wanna see recent pics. Accurate pics. No-brainer. Weight, size, skin, cleanliness, etc are all variables that men will use when selecting the adjectives to describe a girl in their review. Girls tend to be more self conscious about their figure and shape/weight than any other critique in a review (just a generalization). I understand why. Come on guys - I bet most guys on here dont hit the gym everyday and aren't packing 8+" cocks. But it's a buyer's market, eh?

Even good pics can be misleading, right? Ever ran into a local newscaster in public and said to yourself "Wow, she's way shorter than I thought." or "Damn, he's such a fat ass!"?

One thing I hate about the hobby is how poorly girls portray & display themselves in their ads. We have all seen those shitty bathroom pics with a crappy 5 year old camera phone and crusted toothpaste on the mirror. Want an example? Just spend 10 seconds on BP. This makes me cringe. Come on ladies, its 2011. Take your time and line up some nice flattering (& accurate!) pics. If you need a photographer, I think I know one. :0) I have had great times with thicker girls who took the time to set up nice photos. I like confident females who are into their own bodies. Many of them are more attractive than the thinner girls with bad pics. How many times to see see reviews that say "Looks better then her pics" or "Her pics are fake/outdated/photo-chopped"?



(Literally) the bottom line:

We all know the rules here: Men are the buyers (the profit) and women are the sellers (the product). Whatta gonna do? Its just how the nature of this ecosystem works, right?

Geez, from theology to my business & marketing philosophy. Im digging a deep hole here (No pun intended..again!)

Ill shut up now. CiCi is right - You gotta buck up Nikki. :0)





*This commentary is strictly personal and subjective. No animals were killed. I have never seen Nikki before. No White Knight reality distortion field™ here folks.

[thekchobbiest]

Bottom Feeder - Do I owe you a quarter if I use the trademarked term "White Knight Reality Distortion Zone™". That had me LMAO. I have to agree with you. I am a lover of all types and sizes of women. Variety is the spice of life and to each his own.

[FireSerpent]

But bumping a post from way back in Friggin' March is not the spice of life... it is more like the unexpected step in dog poop of life.

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