How to not be a butthurt boy

[Smurfydoesdallas]

This is another reminder that the best way to keep everyone safe is to never talk about $ or services through phone or text.

I'm sure there are many lawyers here that can chime in and agree that this is the best way to stay safe from LE.

This is why I have it in all of my ads and I will absolutely not see anyone that crosses that boundary. It is the only way that I can guarantee my safety.

And for those men who get butt hurt whenever they don't read the ad and still ask and are then mad I won't see them….

Do better.

I could just block you and not say anything. But because I've been in this industry so long, I feel like I have a responsibility to teach.

This is a felony for the hobbyist if they get caught, it's a misdemeanor for me.

So maybe instead of throwing a tantrum whenever you're not going to get your member swallowed, actually take what I'm saying to heart for your OWN safety.

I know there are many lawyers on this board so please chime in and tell these guys that I'm right and that they need to take better care of their own necks before they get mine.

[Massageport]

People asking about services is because half the ladies out there don't follow what they say they offer or upcharge after your there. So I would spread the blame a little.

[cupcak]

Thanks Smurfy

[Anthonylewis50]

Originally Posted by Massageport

People asking about services is because half the ladies out there don't follow what they say they offer or upcharge after your there. So I would spread the blame a little.

Smurfy is right. And you are so wrong. If the problem is that ladies dont follow what they say,the solution isn't to....keep asking them over text. You read reviews. You ask fellow hobbyists. You avoid ladies with no reputation. And you definitely don't fire off a bunch of pissy messages in a tantrum.

Like smurfy said. Do better.

[TexTushHog]

As we say in the profession, “Even a fish can avoid getting caught if he just keeps his mouth closed.”

Some people just can’t do it. You could offer them $10M to be quiet and they just can’t help themselves. Really stunning to see in the real world.

[Massageport]

LOL White night 9000 here! She is not talking about me. I just stated something that is part of the problem. I am just fine on my research don't really have issues but do understand why the questions are asked a lot of the times. I am not saying she is wrong but implying the blame is not solely on a window shopper!

[Anthonylewis50]

Originally Posted by Massageport

LOL White night 9000 here! She is not talking about me. I just stated something that is part of the problem. I am just fine on my research don't really have issues but do understand why the questions are asked a lot of the times. I am not saying she is wrong but implying the blame is not solely on a window shopper!

Sometimes I agree with a lady. Sometimes I disagree. Lots of examples on this board of me doing both. Some ladies believe in getting maximum screening information (Id, work information, photos). I think that's a terrible idea and their arguments for why they need that much personal information are bad.

But, not to be left out, your argument sucks too. To use your window shopper analogy, if someone walks by an Apple store and doesn't know how much an iPhone costs,it would be a bad idea to bust the window, walk inside and rummage around for prices. If you do that, its not apples fault for not doing a better job of displaying prices. It's your fault for not finding More reasonable ways to find the price. In other words... you shouldn't do stupid shit because you want something badly.

But if I'm a white knight for saying guys should have better trade craft...sure. Keep texting and sending selfies.

[Busty]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

Smurfy is right. And you are so wrong. If the problem is that ladies dont follow what they say,the solution isn't to....keep asking them over text. You read reviews. You ask fellow hobbyists. You avoid ladies with no reputation. And you definitely don't fire off a bunch of pissy messages in a tantrum.

Like smurfy said. Do better.

DING DING !!

[Anthonylewis50]

Busty and I can't agree on what color the sky is..so it says something that we are on the same page here

[Busty]

Originally Posted by Anthonylewis50

Busty and I can't agree on what color the sky is..so it says something that we are on the same page here

Big difference between actual facts & opinions that people drag into a thread.
Choose facts & you can't go wrong.

[Anthonylewis50]

Nothing wins an argument like blue font, an underline, and an emoji.

[Wile E Coyote]

Once you screen each other (however your screening method is) to make sure you both are ok to see, there should be no problem with asking questions, after all, it is an interview to possible hire for a service.

A guy letting a provider know what he likes and enjoys in a session he pays for is okay in that by the responses or lack of response, it tends to weed out the providers who he would not want to spend time with and lets him know what providers he would like to proceed setting up a session with. Anyone who disagrees with a provider on GFE definition, whatever, and would still see her for a session, deserves what he gets.

[Stressfree1]

Please be mindful of threads where the last post is over 30 days old.

THREAD CLOSED Lol

[GayleMeyers]

Not to mention when they ask "what is your location?" and I say " It's in the ad where you got my number" ... I feel your pain, Smurfy!

[sweet_k47]

Originally Posted by GayleMeyers

Not to mention when they ask "what is your location?" and I say " It's in the ad where you got my number" ... I feel your pain, Smurfy!

Asking the location is not wrong, the DFW metroplex is huge, if you state Dallas, that is too generic, Dallas is huge so as king if you are north , south , east or west is not unreasonable