Ladies taking the Lead?

[Rangerfrog09]

Being the shy, mildly awkward man that I am, I'm more inclined to let the lady take the lead during the session. Because of this, I've mostly stuck with FBSM providers, as having a task to start the session (the massage) gives it an obvious starting point and she is in the lead from there. My question is, are there many non-FBSM providers that don't mind taking the lead and dictating the session? Or is it more common place to have the hobbyist decide how everything goes?

[thrakattack82]

There are many out there who will if you communicate what you are looking for ahead of time.

[cowboy2023]

Lots of providers do this. Usually the older or more put-together providers just do this naturally.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Right here, I love taking the lead anytime I can.. Tease you a lot before taking over and let you get all horny and then, well you know what happends next. (O)(O)

[Sir Lancehernot]

Try telling her you'd like to be seduced.

[Ultimate Jessica]

I most definitely like to lead. I have to agree It does come natural to some like myself.

[leslie@nn]

Come on over, and let me lead you right between my legs.

[thrakattack82]

Originally Posted by leslie@nn

Come on over, and let me lead you right between my legs.

Oh my, I like your style!

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by cowboy2023

Lots of providers do this. Usually the older or more put-together providers just do this naturally.

lol hell yeahhhhhh
I prefer taking the lead..I am NOT a bit shy lol

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Try telling her you'd like to be seduced.

Ahhh yes
seduction is a true art form!!!

[DallasBella]

I’m very bossy and yes, I do start my session with Massage lol.

[Wile E Coyote]

Asking a provider to do a roleplay of taking the lead on a BCD session can be a heavy ask in today's hobby.

If your definition of GFE is for the lady to seduce you and make you feel like the session itself is not just a "wham bam thank you ma'am" transaction, then I think you should contact those providers who will accommodate that. So, you have to ask each individual lady. And believe it or not, the definition of a provider is to provide!

Keep in mind though, letting a provider know what you like in a session that you pay for is frowned upon this day and age and you are considered hard to please. Usually, they will tell you they just like to go with the flow, meaning that you are basically stuck with whatever you get.

Good luck to you sir!

[Ultimate Jessica]

Originally Posted by Rangerfrog09

Being the shy, mildly awkward man that I am, I'm more inclined to let the lady take the lead during the session. Because of this, I've mostly stuck with FBSM providers, as having a task to start the session (the massage) gives it an obvious starting point and she is in the lead from there. My question is, are there many non-FBSM providers that don't mind taking the lead and dictating the session? Or is it more common place to have the hobbyist decide how everything goes?

Thank you for letting me take the Lead!♥️😘

[Laura Lynn]

I wouldn't say that I take the "lead". I'd say I'm more of a sensual guide.

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by Rangerfrog09

Being the shy, mildly awkward man that I am, I'm more inclined to let the lady take the lead during the session. Because of this, I've mostly stuck with FBSM providers, as having a task to start the session (the massage) gives it an obvious starting point and she is in the lead from there. My question is, are there many non-FBSM providers that don't mind taking the lead and dictating the session? Or is it more common place to have the hobbyist decide how everything goes?

That is my M.O.! Come see me in Denton!