I found out my niece is working as a Stripper

[CPT Savajo]

Today I found out that my 23 year old niece is working as a stripper in Central Arkansas. Holy shit! I wasn't expecting to hear such news dropping off Christmas presents to her today and I'm shocked to say the least. I enjoy strip clubs myself but I realize it's a gateway into the hobby world as many times as I've been propositioned by ladies going to such clubs. She even has a stripper pole set up in the living room whereas she originally didn't want me coming over because she was worried about what I would say about it. Does anyone think giving her a monetary allowance every month would be enough to coax her away from the strip club lifestyle? I'm worried and hoping that I don't end up seeing reviews of her on here in the future or I am going to have a serious talk with her sleaze of a boyfriend.

[AgFox]

I'm doubtful that a SB arrangement with your niece will do anything except get her more interested in the lifestyle.

[Deibrem]

If you see fit to partake in the hobby why are you so strongly opposed to her working in it?

[Unique_Carpenter]

You can't afford to give her enough to quit. I know over a couple dozen gals that paid their way through college by stripping and hooking. Even with having SO's.

Perhaps just recommend finance related college courses. Or lawyer prep courses. Yes I said pre-law. I know at least three that did that.

Last, clearly, you'll need to avoid a few clubs. The gals frequently change clubs.

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by AgFox

I'm doubtful that a SB arrangement with your niece will do anything except get her more interested in the lifestyle.

This is Arkansas but I'm not in a SB arrangement with my niece but I think if I offered her some money she may leave the strip club alone. The way she talked about the strip club had me concerned. The way she said it was "easy money" and "I make good money" with the smirk on her face said it all. I can tell she's hooked.

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by Deibrem

If you see fit to partake in the hobby why are you so strongly opposed to her working in it?

I don't want to see her get hurt or in trouble and I'm the closest thing she has to a father because her biological dad is a piece of shit. I see the strip club as a gateway for her to get into the hobby and I don't want to see that happen to her. She's got one foot in the door.
She appears to be the one wearing the pants in the relationship with her boyfriend, she won't even allow family to come over on both sides because of the stripper pole in the living room. There is no piece of equipment that is worth avoiding family just because she may feel ashamed if people saw the stripper pole.

[Unique_Carpenter]

If she said "easy money", she's already in the hobby. Accept it.
If you're that concerned, consider somehow get her to understand that that if she has "issues" she can rely on you - except for money.

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

You can't afford to give her enough to quit. I know over a couple dozen gals that paid their way through college by stripping and hooking. Even with having SO's.

Perhaps just recommend finance related college courses. Or lawyer prep courses. Yes I said pre-law. I know at least three that did that.

Last, clearly, you'll need to avoid a few clubs. The gals frequently change clubs.

You're probably right, there probably isn't enough I can give her to make her quit because I don't know how much she's making from the strip club.

She doesn't have the discipline to be a lawyer and college finance courses are a waste of time as they don't teach anything of meaningful value except for accounting. Colleges don't even teach kids the difference between currency vs. real money. An astute provider would accept payment in AU and AG. You don't see ladies doing that today like yesteryear but that will change.

[Deibrem]

I feel as if you could do more for her by being a source of non-judgmental unconditional support then trying to pay her way out of a job you don't approve of.

[CatMan4u]

I know off several providers that are making some where around 10.000 a month and every stripper and every provider is someones daughter and probably sister niece and possibly someones wife in this case she's your's

[infamousrock]

You should just accept that she's in this already. If you are concerned about the environment or potential people she may be dealing with you could encourage her to only deal with a solid group of guys like the ones on this site and have her exclusively deal with us. We will keep her content financially and you can rest easy knowing she's in good hands like Allstate.

[GutterFund]

Originally Posted by Deibrem

I feel as if you could do more for her by being a source of non-judgmental unconditional support then trying to pay her way out of a job you don't approve of.

Good post.

[Seeyasoon22]

There are too many sleazy people who work their way into the lives of strippers. My daughter graduated from high school with a girl from a good family who got hooked on drugs and became a stripper. She ended up being controlled by some thugs and is now dead. The money is good if the girl is keeping it but a lot of them do it to support an addiction. If you can't get her out of stripping I would at least make sure she knows she can come to you in case of trouble which there will at some point unfortunately.

[Bubba_3000]

Which club? Must have data and empirical research to give sound advice.

[CPT Savajo]

Originally Posted by Deibrem

I feel as if you could do more for her by being a source of non-judgmental unconditional support then trying to pay her way out of a job you don't approve of.

After thinking about it I'm going to ask her. Either way I'll support her decision whether I like it or not.