just a simple question

[smalldick310]

I maybe asking a question that has been answered b4, if so, i am sorry in advance.
Is there a hobby standard for the terms GFE & PSE? I have seen many offer these on there menu, and yet, the very next thing is nuthin unprotected. I guess my definition is different

[Josey Wales]

No, there is no industry standard for the two terms, at least not that I have figured out. In addition, the providers can't distinguish between the two either. One may claim that GFE means X, Y & Z, but the next provider will tell you that Z is never part of GFE. Same with PSE. Personally, I consider GFE to have an emphasis on passion and "love making" whereas PSE has an emphasis on hard core fucking. In regards to BBBJ it's a crap shoot. BBBJ has more to do with the providers preference than the service listed. If she doesn't offer BBBJ with GFE she won't offer it with PSE, and vice versa. If your question is in regards to BBFS then you are talking about a totally different realm. That help clear it up any? When in doubt read every review of the provider you can find to see what she offers as part of the package. I'm sure some girls will weigh in on the subject.

[smalldick310]

You are correct about bbfs, that wasnt what i was confused about. Its the difference in menu, multiple providers listthe same thingGFE, AND PSE. when u see them they say oh i dont do that, or thats extra

[BBWDeAnna]

GFE vs. PSE can often be more about attitude and approach although personally some standard activities ahould come in both that being BBBJ im sorry but you wouldn't keep a girlfriend long that sucks dick with a rubber so I don't see how its gfe..to me that excludes any "attitude" or illusion of passion. Kissing I would suspect should be a standard in gfe but really is supposed to be about the passion involved. PSE would have to be bbbj but revolves more around attitude as well that u would see in a porn. I.e the cum fuck me attitude and less passion more intense fucking although in that regard the 2 begin to blend. Nqns cim I think are optional in regards to pse gfe..but I would think facial for pse is a needed..atleast cot..to get 2 providers to agree is impossible and 2 hobbyists to know impossible as well..most throw away any gfe term with covered bj and no kissing

[smalldick310]

I can not remember ever having a GF that i couldnt kiss deeply, or that made issue out of protection for bj. Some wouldnt finish it, but never cover it. These r , or should be, very easy to determine a stadard on. PSE on the otherhand would be a much broader scope of the menu. I wonder if the provers change that menu according to the client. What i mean is, you open ur door to this tall dark and handsome fellow, maybe the actions are a little looser and u r into it a bit more. As opposed to, open the door and hears this fat, ugly beady eyed fellow. Doesnt turn u on at all.. could also be attotude of client, sometimes u just click.only natural i guess.

[BBWDeAnna]

A professional provider should in fact NOT operate that way and should provide the same service to each client. Its not personal..its business that involves what society deems a personal thing. Im sure some will jump in and make the smart business move and proclaim them lovers of all men(when they are not)..others will do the opposite and go completely ghetto while proclaiming they do what they want with who they want and if u wear the wrong cologne they will flip out..

Either way..a true pro wont ever have to make it clear that she will provide consistent service to each man..the pros you just know..remember its their job to make sure u dont see thru the smoke and mirrors..what they say about u behind your back is a different story..so should they offer different service..HELL NO..will they..hell yes

[B.Wayne]

You will probably get different answers by different women. And in different states. Gfe and pse in dfw will probably mean something different than Arkansas. If you are able just go to dfw it is hands down more simple for some odd reason.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Simple for me. GFE is what I seek. I define it as kissing me like you mean it (I'm gonna need plenty of tongue), act like you are glad I'm there, perform a great bbbj (swallow or not, I don't care). Act like I'm doing you some good at daty (one of my favorite things). Show some IOP when you are fucking me in CG. Boom! I'm happy. Do that and a provider is GFE to me.

[Vannah]

As was already mentioned, it depends on the provider. I consider myself to be GFE because of the way I treat my gentlemen friends and in my opinion, it doesn't have much to do with the services provided. I would hardly consider a lady who offers BBBJ but then rushes her client, doesn't want to conversate and doesn't go the extra mile to boost his ego and make him feel appreciated to be GFE.