Slow Rolling and Strokin' it with the Motion...

[Eva Damita]

It's more than just a classic Johnny Taylor song or juke joint anthem - it's how I like my dick served to me.

Since my return from my hiatus, I am more in tune with what really pleases me. In my real world, I notice how my friends with benefits lay up inside me in slow, stimulating strokes *shudders* while in the hobby, its fuck like a rabbit time (fast and furiously and not very pleasing unless in "that" fuck me like you hate me mood) and with a checklist of positions in mind to go through until HE cums.

Sometimes, I'll get on top and tell him to stay still. Then I gyrate my hips, rock back and forth, until we both come. Hot damn! It's a win-win situation!

That said, I have had the most orgasms from one position than switching positions, to which Im not even given the time to get in motion/rhythm to enjoy it, all because he took his time inside me and actually FEELING the poosaay massage his dick.

It's like wolfing down a good home cooked meal. You're full but not as satisfied had you savored it.

Having ED is no excuse. There are wands etc for G-Spot stimulation.

So ladies and gents, how do you like to fuck and give/or receive G-Spot Stimulation? I love for a man to just lay up in it and swerve hitting my G-Spot until my legs shake.

*Sigh* so many gents get off on pleasing a woman but forget ALL about the G-Spot...so eager to drip their slobber down a hole with their tongue. (DATY is not a talent possessed by all, and not all providers get off on just clitoral climaxing).

[plove35]

In a supa horndawg mood now

With the so I take it slow and easy and mostly let her use my dick as her personal vibrator. In the hobby, I must confess I do fuck like a jackrabbit. Sorry ladies, just trying to get it in so I can get another pop before the hour is up

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by plove35

In a supa horndawg mood now

With the so I take it slow and easy and mostly let her use my dick as her personal vibrator. In the hobby, I must confess I do fuck like a jackrabbit. Sorry ladies, just trying to get it in so I can get another pop before the hour is up

We know when guys are just trying to get it in before the buzzer, for me it's a turn off, equivalent to how hobbyists dislike the no IOP dead fish providers. IDK, I guess it makes me feel inanimate like a blowup doll.

Hopefully you at least let her slop some lube on, condom burns KILL the experience for me.

Thanks for your perspective!

[plove35]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

We know when guys are just trying to get it in before the buzzer, for me it's a turn off, equivalent to how hobbyists dislike the no IOP dead fish providers. IDK, I guess it makes me feel inanimate like a blowup doll.

Hopefully you at least let her slop some lube on, condom burns KILL the experience for me.

Thanks for your perspective!

Lol yeah it is lubed up...dryness hurts us both lol. I rather take it slow but also want to use the time wisely especially since I do not fs all that often.

[liflipper]

I can see where you coming from. I perform better & longer with my SO. But when hobbying I not as good unless it's at there private incall, or if I really get comfortable with the provider like on a personal level!

[Hellion437]

I'm very much the "slow-roll" type of guy. First, foreplay is important, especially DFK. I find it helps me set a rhythm for the proceedings. I can get an idea for how tender or aggressive a lover she may be. Clitoral stimulation during oral is a good way to get things started, but i do like to do some g-spot stimulation as it progresses. Once it's time to do the deed, i like to go slow, savoring the experience, allowing passion to build. If she starts out banging like a porn star, I slow it down. I like it to build naturally, savoring the feel of her body, the quickening of her breaths and the expressions on her face. iop (or better, good old fashioned p) are important to me. I'm not some 20 year old who wants to pound it out like a billy goat. I know the longer the build up the greater the reward. For me the orgasm isn't a target to move towards, it's the exclamation point for a whole experience.

My $0.02

[izzy32]

I like a mix of both. Start off slow, sensual, and passionate and then later switch it to a semi fast speed and a little hard and then go back and forth of the two with a mix of foreplay in between but I think it all depends on the vibe of the lady that I'm with during a session. I feel that reading her body language is important when trying to satisfy her and figuring what she like and don't like.

[TheEccie214]

Totally agree with the time factor. Under pressure to get it in before time is up and often have to hurry back the RW stuff. A 2 hour meeting would be better but then it's very costly. For a girl like Eva may want a 3 hour meeting to really enjoy her.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Hellion437

I'm very much the "slow-roll" type of guy. First, foreplay is important, especially DFK. I find it helps me set a rhythm for the proceedings. I can get an idea for how tender or aggressive a lover she may be. Clitoral stimulation during oral is a good way to get things started, but i do like to do some g-spot stimulation as it progresses. Once it's time to do the deed, i like to go slow, savoring the experience, allowing passion to build. If she starts out banging like a porn star, I slow it down. I like it to build naturally, savoring the feel of her body, the quickening of her breaths and the expressions on her face. iop (or better, good old fashioned p) are important to me. I'm not some 20 year old who wants to pound it out like a billy goat. I know the longer the build up the greater the reward. For me the orgasm isn't a target to move towards, it's the exclamation point for a whole experience.

My $0.02

We see things eye to eye - good ol fashioned Passion is preferred. What's real Passion vs IOP????The quickening of her breath as mentioned, the tightening of her muscles around your cock VS Incessantly yelling and dramatic over-vocalizing. There are other signs letting a gent know the rendezvous is pleasurable for her as well.

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Totally agree with the time factor. Under pressure to get it in before time is up and often have to hurry back the RW stuff. A 2 hour meeting would be better but then it's very costly. For a girl like Eva may want a 3 hour meeting to really enjoy her.

Thank you kindly, Sweetheart

[Chung Tran]

I just go with what works..

I know, I know, what the fuck does that mean? depends on the situation and the lady.

I'm only posting because you mentioned Johnnie Taylor (you spelled his name wrong, but hey), the most under-appreciated Motherfucker, greatest damn singer that almost nobody appreciates.

and he has 4 children who sing and make recordings.. 3 sons who sound very much like him, and a daughter who is 43 years old, but damn fine ECCIE material.

[jimmylbob]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

It's more than just a classic Johnny Taylor song or juke joint anthem - it's how I like my dick served to me.

Since my return from my hiatus, I am more in tune with what really pleases me. In my real world, I notice how my friends with benefits lay up inside me in slow, stimulating strokes *shudders* while in the hobby, its fuck like a rabbit time (fast and furiously and not very pleasing unless in "that" fuck me like you hate me mood) and with a checklist of positions in mind to go through until HE cums.

Sometimes, I'll get on top and tell him to stay still. Then I gyrate my hips, rock back and forth, until we both come. Hot damn! It's a win-win situation!

That said, I have had the most orgasms from one position than switching positions, to which Im not even given the time to get in motion/rhythm to enjoy it, all because he took his time inside me and actually FEELING the poosaay massage his dick.

It's like wolfing down a good home cooked meal. You're full but not as satisfied had you savored it.

Having ED is no excuse. There are wands etc for G-Spot stimulation.

So ladies and gents, how do you like to fuck and give/or receive G-Spot Stimulation? I love for a man to just lay up in it and swerve hitting my G-Spot until my legs shake.

*Sigh* so many gents get off on pleasing a woman but forget ALL about the G-Spot...so eager to drip their slobber down a hole with their tongue. (DATY is not a talent possessed by all, and not all providers get off on just clitoral climaxing).

Slow stroking sensual sounds fantastic!

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I just go with what works..

I know, I know, what the fuck does that mean? depends on the situation and the lady.

I'm only posting because you mentioned Johnnie Taylor (you spelled his name wrong, but hey), the most under-appreciated Motherfucker, greatest damn singer that almost nobody appreciates.

and he has 4 children who sing and make recordings.. 3 sons who sound very much like him, and a daughter who is 43 years old, but damn fine ECCIE material.

Swear to God, I knew it was -ie....my mom's a huge fan. Thanks for pointing out.

[DUBLENSKI]

In my eyes, watching a woman climax is the hottest thing in the world. The gyrating and grinding of the hips is a complete turn on. Chemistry is a factor that plays an important role. I think providers like Eva want BFE like guys want GFE. I love to marinate and feel her love muscles.

[pyramider]

Women do not orgasm, its an urban myth started during the bra burning days ...

[Billy Babitt]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

...while in the hobby, its fuck like a rabbit time (fast and furiously and not very pleasing unless in "that" fuck me like you hate me mood) and with a checklist of positions in mind to go through until HE cums.


*Sigh* so many gents get off on pleasing a woman but forget ALL about the G-Spot...so eager to drip their slobber down a hole with their tongue.

Eva, great points. Many gents enjoy having their partner, real life or hobby, derive pleasure too. (raising hand as a member of that club)

Let's not forget though, in the hobby world many ladies encourage the "fast and furious" so the gent finishes quickly and thus less wear and tear on her private parts.

In real life and the hobby world, some ladies simply don't communicate what pleases them. In the hobby, my guess ties in with the statement above about wear and tear. In real life, that lack of communication has always baffled me...

Just my two centavos...