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Old 01-03-2016, 03:27 PM   #46
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And my admiration grows.......

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I see your point, NBT. When someone expects something extra bc of a gift then issues arise.I've been so lucky to say I've truly met wonderful ppl so far who would never behave like that. I think some girls might lead guys on to believe untrue things to encourage more gifts but then get upset when the guy starts to believe it's more than business. I don't encounter those situations bc if I felt accepting something would lead someone on then I'd politely decline and explain the nature of our relationship. I see both sides, but it's completely possible to build friendships in this field that don't cross boundaries (I'll also admit some men can't handle it n assume bc you're more friendly than other providers that it must mean you're interested. I cut those ppl off. I refuse to become "hardened" bc a few ppl act like children)
Just read the last volley of posts in this thread for the meaning of personality conflict gone wild.

It's classic.

Anyway my belief is that if you play the love con properly you'll milk a lot more out of your victims than you will if you're upfront and treat meetings as a business transaction. Plus no frayed nerves, unrealistic expectations, and misunderstanding based upon confusion and deceit.

These situations work themselves out but someone walks away regretting their actions sooner or later.
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Old 01-03-2016, 03:33 PM   #48
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Heh, another one that treated her like shit for months. A little late for kissing up now. I get it, butt buddy tag team.
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Old 01-03-2016, 03:39 PM   #49
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Heh, another one that treated her like shit for months. A little late for kissing up now. I get it, butt buddy tag team.
Guy, really you need to take a long look at reeling yourself in here.

Kay-Kay is a hook. You can't claim property rights on a hook and you can't be surprised if she turns around and starts blowing or fucking you imaginary internet arch enemy.

The mistake you have made is over-valuing your relationship with Kay-Kay.

She's a very nice person and a charming computer cartoon character but for the love of Christ on the cross please remember how you rain into her in the first place
and how she makes her money.
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Old 01-03-2016, 03:44 PM   #50
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I know exactly what I would do if I was this cculvr character.
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Old 01-03-2016, 03:45 PM   #51
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Anyway my belief is that if you play the love con properly you'll milk a lot more out of your victims than you will if you're upfront and treat meetings as a business transaction. Plus no frayed nerves, unrealistic expectations, and misunderstanding based upon confusion and deceit.

These situations work themselves out but someone walks away regretting their actions sooner or later.
I totally agree hun.. giving false hope and having unrealistic expectations Is very wrong and can cause a lot of trouble.. I have no need for any of that in my life... btw..I so have missed u, I hope all is well..♥ xoxoxo
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Guy, really you need to take a long look at reeling yourself in here.

Kay-Kay is a hook. You can't claim property rights on a hook and you can't be surprised if she turns around and starts blowing or fucking you imaginary internet arch enemy.

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.... I'm not imaginary.... he only thincks I am.....
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Thank you Kay-Kay.

Please make cculv69 stop carrying this fucking torch around, will you? It's taking away all of my hooking spirit.
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Guy, really you need to take a long look at reeling yourself in here.

Kay-Kay is a hook. You can't claim property rights on a hook and you can't be surprised if she turns around and starts blowing or fucking you imaginary internet arch enemy.

The mistake you have made is over-valuing your relationship with Kay-Kay.

She's a very nice person and a charming computer cartoon character but for the love of Christ on the cross please remember how you rain into her in the first place
and how she makes her money.
I know what she is NBT, and have no delusions or problems with it. The only thing that even resembles a claim is my friendship with her, and I care about my friends. Hook or not, she doesn't deserve the crap she took from these guys.
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Old 01-03-2016, 03:50 PM   #55
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Shhhhhhh.......
.... I'm not imaginary.... he only thincks I am.....
Yes Paul, very good.

You're not buying Kay-Kay $8000 watches or treating her to weekends in Europe to get any extras, are you?

DO NOT let her get in your head.

Anyway I'm trying to help cculvr69, and I have a plan, but he doesn't listen to me.

Maybe if I fucked Kay-Kay and wrote a review about it? Probably not even then.
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she doesn't deserve the crap she took from these guys.
One mans crap is another mans foreplay....
And she sure does seem smitten with me..... I musta done sumthin write....
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I know what she is NBT, and have no delusions or problems with it. The only thing that even resembles a claim is my friendship with her, and I care about my friends. Hook or not, she doesn't deserve the crap she took from these guys.
My advice is to switch over to the hook Margeaux or however the fuck she spells it, and ply her with presents and extra cash. She seems smart and even-tempered and I bet things don't spiral out of control with her, especially after all this valuable experience you have gained with Kay-Kay.

Think about it already.
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That's what I would do.
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I know what she is NBT, and have no delusions or problems with it. The only thing that even resembles a claim is my friendship with her, and I care about my friends. Hook or not, she doesn't deserve the crap she took from these guys.
Sure, but it's the internet. People behave outrageously and in an exaggerated manner on the internet.

Plus, at least for the time being, it seems that all's well that ends well, no?

Paul and Kay-Kay are getting along splendidly it seems.

Win-win!!!
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That's what I would do.
Perfect!!!! Marg already likes me!!!
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