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Originally Posted by thathottnurse
Heh. Okay hon, I'll still buy your next session if you can show where any provider was bullying or stalking the OP.
*crickets*
*crickets*
Only dumbasses think that a whore gets the last word on a whoreboard.
Floor's yours....
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WOMAN ... are you serious.... you of ALL PEOPLE ON THIS BOARD... i don't need 1 example... i have at least 8.... look at any and a repeat ANY thread i have started or posted anything you don't like... no i will not let you bs you way out of this...
i don't have the time or patience to watch you subjectivly deny all your childish actions .... and many have called you out on it on the past, and you always try this same underhanded bs.... sorry end that bs
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Originally Posted by thathottnurse
How is she being picked on?
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Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing
Please define" Picked on".
WP has been on and off the board many times. She violates enough of the rules to get banned. Then, when is allowed back on, she starts with how sorry she is and this time will be different. Then she goes right back to her prior behavior and gets banned again. And repeat. And repeat. So forgive many on here for not buying in to her latest iteration. She already is doing the same things she did before. Posting the same stuff as before. Causing the same drama as before. And each time, someone decides to champion her cause. How bad we are treating her. Till she gets banned again.
WP, you CAN change, if you really want to. Time and again, mods and others give you advice on how to become a better accepted member of the community and avoid the mistakes that get you banned. Time and again, people reach out to you to help. But nothing changes. You revert to the same old posting and acting just like the last however many times. How many bridges can be left after all you have burned?
It will take a lot of hard work and constant behavior to change peoples minds about you. It can be done but its so hard given the baggage you bring with you. But you, like the member you chose to show support for in your first post never seem to do so. It is entirely in your control
And if someone considers what I said as picking on anyone, go suck an egg.
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OBSG you are just as bad as THN in this situation, you have jst tried bringing up a valid point that YOU twisted, i have been banned multiple times, because everytime i come back "fresh" trolls like you ad THN come on starting BS about shit that didn't even matter, and when i am attacked hell yea i'm going to fight back...
so no you suck an egg, because if you have the audacity to try to twist a situation to help it fit a point you are FOS...each of my "BANS" were due to being combative, threatening physical harm (which to me is another form of self defense), or flat out calling people out on their bs. I just called you out, will most likly get points added... even tho i was "civil" about it, but it is a really twisted system...
i don't NEED to change because i don't CARE about the opinions of people i will never meet, but i'll be dammed if anyone is going to trash talk me and i not stand up for my self.
and i have many many bridges, because something you may not be aware of, a lot of people see thru your bullshit, surprising huh,
false it has nothing to do with the community, everyone sees the bias in how the mods handle issues, each mod different bias, easy... no if's no ands no butts... it's obvious to anyone who seesi t. and that my friend is why i will always stand proud and tell the truth about whats going on, because you can bs some of the people some of the time, but you can not bs all the people all the time...
and this is a PSA, anyone who judges me on bullshit started by people who do not know me, or have never met me are just as stupid as the people starting the bullshit to begin with.
you advice is to cower behind a keyboard and let people walk on me, i'm a nympho not a doormat, and if you had a problem with that you can just as easily ignore me, but that never stops anyone now does it
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Originally Posted by jdkees
You ever hear the term 'gaslighting'?
I'll just reiterate what I've already said: can you at least admit that you've been intentionally provoking for the sake of provocation?
FAIR WARNING: If exposition isn't your thing scroll down to LONG STORY SHORT
It's not like you aren't aware of it. You even admit that there's a chance you can get infracted on from it:
Or you were again making light at her expense (which is still picking on her and not really any other practical use).
I get it, you kinda have to backpedal into saying that you've been making legitimate criticisms and honest, heartfelt suggestions. But come on, do you really think your responses to her are doing anything but continuing a pointless game of "who can throw the most shade with the least amount of work"? Frankly, I don't take you as that naive and estimate you're plenty smart enough to know the difference.
Don't get me wrong: if your goal was instead to turn off guys like me by allowing her to shine up her Dramanation, then congrats. Mission accomplished. If that's not your intention here, then allow me to be the first to let you know that commentaries like this in the middle of an argument:
... That's some pretty heavy shade. It might even be 100% accurate shade, so I'm not calling your facts or any potential polling data into question. I'm not saying that I'm taking your comment here as the only data point influencing my interest, but you had to know it plays a role and you mashed that proverbial button on her pretty constantly through that other thread, and you're still making sure to toss some passive aggressive barbs of that sort her way.
Is that necessarily hurting her business? She likely cares fuck-all about my degree of interest at this point, particularly after my last couple of comments. Then there's the fact that I'm a bit of a snarky ass, which chaps at least a few others from time to time (and it keeps me warm at night, I won't lie). So I won't speculate that this means anything beyond a goose egg to her bottom line. But I just happen to be one of the vocal-- and sexy, in that dumpy-and-average-yet-handsome sort of way (honest, ask anyone)-- individuals, and there are tons of other lurkers who might not comment at all yet have been similarly influenced. I mentioned elsewhere (or was it here?) that I feel the Coed Discussions area should be renamed Geico, and it's highly doubtful that I'm the only one who feels this way.
But hey, I've digressed enough and I don't have the breast implants to get the guys to tell me how intelligent and thoughtful I am. So...
LONG STORY SHORT
I fully expect and understand you saying that you mean no ill will or harm, and that you're 'just being honest' or some similar cliche. But if you say that you're completely unaware of how you're using at least a bit of social authority (status? reputation?) to belittle and dress her down to a very strong effect, then I'm going to have to say you're being disingenuous. I only have your posts to go on because we've never chatted in person, but I just don't take you for being that oblivious. You may say you're not picking on her, but as I said before the definitions get all fuzzy and interpretive, especially if you get to be the arbiter.
You've already been clear you believe she's a hot mess that doesn't manage herself well (among other opinions). What's left to go on about? Ask yourself what your motivation is, and be okay if the answer is "because it's funny/entertaining/cathartic." Because at this point that's what the answer sure looks like from the perspective of someone who doesn't know either of you.
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here is the fact's THN stop bsing,you are throwing more shade then nocturne... you try to be helpful but in reality you are just being a spiteful child because i like most people who seemed to get banned got tired of your "help" and decided to fight your passive aggressive bullying back... here is the worse part about this.... i honestly think you can't control yourself either... i truly believe something is wrong to the point you feel the need to fight someone who honestly doesn't care if you exist... and that grinds your gears
he has just pointed out a few times... there are a multitude of events, and sadly enough ... you have been one of the biggest issues on this site for me, because you have a heard of sheeple backing you, here is the math behind it
me... 5 points per infraction period 6-12 month exp
you+ 3 other lackies = 2 - 5 points per infraction 2-4 month exp
i adress 4 of you, 5 points per post, 20 points banned easy
you each get maybe depending on the moderator giving the points
5 points a piece with a 60day cool down
i'm banned for 4-7 months! you and you dickclique can harass anyone you choose and let you low CD points easily vanish, there for you never have to get banned on incase while still activly harassing anyone who stands in your way.
in reality it's why i look up to Tarra Evans.... no matter the consequence she will stand up for herself, so you also target her, and the same situation continues...
she get's banned you sit back and laugh because you knew what you were doing when you logged in...
here is the issue, people who fight will always fight, people who passive agressivly plot will always plot, and with the way the board is ran, you will always win... IE my first the original post is brought up and back in full circle...
fact of the matter it's opressive that self defense against a literal gangbang, if my reputation is known for defiance fine, but at the end of the day i'm just a girl willing to fight back at anyvcost
but reember this, banned or not, people still see me, because i love what i do ... what's your excuse
