The Artful Fellatrice …. Dressing for suckcess

[Zhivago52]

This is a topic for both ladies and gents.




The BJ is a very visual act…and the seduction starts the minute she opens the door and remains as one gazes at her during early conversation and of course during the act. Again, this is about the extended BJ….something that takes considerable time and is focused on the devotees …the practioners of the art; those who enjoy extended, hour long or more sessions of tease, denial, extended arousal using whatever technique, and intermittent conversation. It is really not necessary to remove her clothing for such an act, so given that, what would you like to see her wearing?



And ladies, how do you prefer to dress for such events?


My preferences? Depends on the lady. Not a cop out here, but sometimes what she wears can make her feel sexy and desired. It also sends a signal to me that I’m about to receive something special. So I first check on what she likes best and if she has any options for me to choose. That said, I tend to like “pleasant surprise” but with a bit of overall guidance first.

I tend to prefer being greeted at the door by a naked, well-coiffed lady wearing nothing but heels, makeup and jewelry, with a light touch of perfume. Optional perhaps could be hosiery and a garter belt. Sexy dresses or lingerie of her choice are nice surprises, but I like to see everything within view, knowing it is all accessible if I choose, and touchable. Perhaps a well-placed mirror so I can view her shapely backside if I’m seated or on a bed. These are just a few thoughts. Discuss.


I plan to address the "venue" of the BJ in a future thread.

[Claire She Blows]

Have you been reading my reviews?

[Zhivago52]

To be honest Claire, I consider you the ideal perhaps of what I had in mind.

[Zhivago52]

As an example....If this greeted me at the door.....one can only imagine what might be in store....

[Guest052815-2]

I couldn't have written this post better myself.

One of the things I've missed in the hobby is the long, slow, extended blow job. One that involves lots of flirtation, eye contact, teasing, extended arousal... No matter how much guidance I give, there are very few that understand and relate to the BJ being something more than foreplay, and/or a really fast "hurry up and finish" blow and go.

I could write volumes on this. :-/

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by Zhivago52

To be honest Claire, I consider you the ideal perhaps of what I had in mind.

There's only one way to find out...

[Aphrodite]

Mmmmm....
If done correctly, the blow job, you describe, is a slow and seductive dance, in which the woman leads.
No offense to anyone but, I have never been willing to do the 'bng thingy' for many reasons but, the main ones being that there is no seduction, teasing, flirting, eye contact (not the fake porn / look at him worshipfully while gagging eye contact), gently brushing his skin with my fingernails, being tuned in to his moans and gasps - intently focused on his pleasure as he surrenders...

Gawd, I could write a book...
But, it's probably more practical to write one explaining all the 'why/what/and how comes' most guys (read:married men) don't get more blow jobs.
That is topic for another time.

Thanks to the OP for this topic - as a woman, this subject has intrigued and tantalized me for years...


Peace and love,

A

[David.Douchehurst]

Hmph. Mo' laik UNDRESS fer Suck-cess.

[mrhappysf]

I really don't like the term blow and go - why can't I get a blow and stay? A 30, 60, 90 minute oral fest without worrying if it is MSOG or not and feeling that the lady's goal isn't to get you to pop and leave. I've never done a BNG and likely won't - and as a married man, all I'm looking for is a nice extended BJ /oral session.

[Claire She Blows]

My BNG sessions include everything that Aphrodite mentioned. And my hour+ sessions are blow and stay and blow again. IJS.

[Zhivago52]

Rosie in Wimberly used to describe the "European Style" BJ as something that lasted well over an hour and involved as many orgasms as one could stand. No one gets hung up on being able to maintain an erection after the first few.... it just continues with breaks in between.

I don't expect anyone to keep their jaws propped open for that length of time. Brief moments of intermittent HJ, russian, frottage, cuddling, conversation...perhaps even changing positions from chair to bed to standing, etc., can add to the variety of the experience...like a multi-course meal. It's about maintaining a constant state of pleasure and arousal. Perhaps even taking a break to enjoy tasting the flavors of my lady giver.

There's a place for the quick BNG, especially with a lady whom I may frequent a lot. If I'm close to a particular lady, I'd rather see her more frequently without breaking the bank....so the quick BNG might be a good way to keep up the friendship. But for total relaxation and enjoying each other's company...nothing beats the longer session.

Back to "what to wear".... when it comes to jewelry.... I'm a big fan. Earrings, necklace, perhaps a jeweled belly button, maybe a light chain around the waist line (don't know what you call those.). Foot / ankle jewelry....all nice. A visual feast. As much as I like seeing bracelets and rings, they could pose a challenge to wear due to all the hand action and movement required. Lubes might also be involved, so perhaps no hand or wrist jewelry. Bonus points for a jeweled butt plug for the adventurous who wish to surprise...assuming one can wear one for over an hour or so....takes a little practice.

[Guest010218]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

My BNG sessions include everything that Aphrodite mentioned. And my hour+ sessions are blow and stay and blow again. IJS.

Oh yes, they are fantastic...

[Zhivago52]

You can tell the sport of the athlete by the uniform they wear to play the game..... my only preference would be a more mature looking tushy in this little scenario.....

[Tetas]

You might as well give it up, you're not going to get your "what do you wear" discussion.
It's a threAD now.

[Zhivago52]

That's OK...happens all the time, but there's been some good posts and that's all that really matters.