only the nominated may play and the prize is free sex with me. I suspect it won't work because I believe the only eligible players are secretly gay.

[gfejunkie]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Never.

Figures.

Give it time.

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Dear lady,

I am afraid I was not clear. I don't really get upset about what the mob posts. I don't get upset at their views. It saddens me that they DO chase away many fine, interesting ladies from here. Ladies who are still active, still have thoughtful posts to make, but feel no need
to put up with juvenile attacks just because they don't subscribe to the mob's perspective.

Me, I am a bit weird that way. I have a large Don Quixote quotient in me. I fight the good fight because of what I believe--and I believe that bullying posters--mostly women--who have different views that the mob is wrong. I frequently do not agree with the people I stick up for, but I believe a DIVERSE set of opinions makes this a better, more interesting, and more useful board.

I think establishing a POV that women above 25 should be hounded into forced retirement, that ladies who are not spinners should be driven into silence, that activities should be regulated by the morality police (a totally absurd concept for a board like this) is detrimental and will turn this place into something far less than what it should be (and I think I only exaggerate a little).

So no, personally I will not go over to the dark side. I will continue to tilt at windmills even if I might only change a few minds. I can be quite stubborn at times, and since I am not here to make guy-friends, I have no problem saying some things that sadly will cost ladies income.

Well I respectfully agree with what you say.
Although I quoted you my whole post wasn't directed to you.

I feel like some of the ladies getting bullied were on the right track with flying above the bs and I respect that too. Somewhere along the way I think they reached their breaking point.

My point is, how can you let a person who doesn't make or break you run you to play their lil game.

No one in life is immune to being picked on. Some are just strong enough to hold it together even tho they are being picked apart. If you want to escape being judged and ridiculed (either to your face or behind your back) go and find a rock to crawl under.

I understand being l upset most ladies have chose not to participate coed but I think a lil tough love is in order.

Get. Over. It.
No need to go crying if someone thinks I'm wrong, or old, or fat, undesirable.

You have to consider the source (I'll wait....) of all the hatred and how much their OPINION actually matters.

[redbeard42]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

You forgot the part where the gang declares that everyone loves it this way, that the surrounding residents can't get enough of the seeing the gang members in the park, and how it's better for the neighborhood.

+1

[Old-T]

if this was strictly a social gathering I would tend to agree with you. The problem is, for the ladies it is more than that. For many of them it is also one factor in their business. When a lady posts here and then gets three, five, or more gratuitous negative posts about her, that equates to negative reviews/advertising/testimonials, so from a strictly financial POV many decide they are financially better off leaving here, or drastically reducing their profile.

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Well I respectfully agree with what you say.
Although I quoted you my whole post wasn't directed to you.

I feel like some of the ladies getting bullied were on the right track with flying above the bs and I respect that too. Somewhere along the way I think they reached their breaking point.

My point is, how can you let a person who doesn't make or break you run you to play their lil game.

No one in life is immune to being picked on. Some are just strong enough to hold it together even tho they are being picked apart. If you want to escape being judged and ridiculed (either to your face or behind your back) go and find a rock to crawl under.

I understand being l upset most ladies have chose not to participate coed but I think a lil tough love is in order.

Get. Over. It.
No need to go crying if someone thinks I'm wrong, or old, or fat, undesirable.

You have to consider the source (I'll wait....) of all the hatred and how much their OPINION actually matters.

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by Old-T

if this was strictly a social gathering I would tend to agree with you. The problem is, for the ladies it is more than that. For many of them it is also one factor in their business. When a lady posts here and then gets three, five, or more gratuitous negative posts about her, that equates to negative reviews/advertising/testimonials, so from a strictly financial POV many decide they are financially better off leaving here, or drastically reducing their profile.

I get that.

Often times ladies gloat about the drama threads actually accelerating their business. If there is truth to that then this argument is weak and possibly false.

If the increased business statements is a lie then maybe there is some truth to what the bullies say. Maybe this is where the defensiveness comes from. Ijs

I often see hurtful things stated by the perceived bullies and even "tough-girl" Jasmine feels the sting. Only I am willing to admit that some of the statements sting because there's a wide range of truth in them.

Ladies shouldn't rely on one advertising venue (especially ones they have distain for) for their sole source of income. If not, maybe they are lazy. I tell you what, I will admit right now that I can make as much money as when I was 25. Maybe not as easily as I used to; but certainly if my mind is right, I'm making my living. No matter how may guys try and trick people into thinking I'm a tranny, masculine, ugly, old, fat, lazy... what ever. I'm non of these things (oh I am a lil chubby these days ). Ask anyone I've shared an incall with. I stay busy when if I want to.

Just like the guys think I'm laying around being fed grapes all day (well kind'a, sometimes), some ladies think that every guy who comes across their t&a pics should want to pay to see them. There is a grinding element to this job as well. Like the real world, you gotta work hard for your earnings and respect here; possibly harder (imagine that).

Nobody owes anyone anything; here or anywhere.

Furthermore, this line of work like any small business can be very inconsistent regardless of staying on top of things (advertising, weight, looks, mental function, good rapport, pr ect).

If your goal is to provide a platform for more ladies to join or stay in coed, I suggest being honest with them and helping them find ways to integrate themselves in a way that works for them. Teach a man to fish and all that.
It's either that or stay gone because it's obvious you will never get the said bullies to change their mind or their antics (shhh. but if you're a real smart cookie you will. even better, you will make them think it was all their idea. duh. ).

[budman33]

So... Who won bitch?

[David.Douchehurst]

Wellll, looks laik it shore weren't meh. Furst, tha Spurs git beat in tha playoffs, now it looks laik tha Rockets are a-gonna git knocked out, too. An' this. It just shore ain't mah year!

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by budman33

So... Who won bitch?

Maybe she put everyone on ignore.
Gangbang???

Why are you calling her a bitch though???

[rockerrick]

I'll bet she put herself on ignore

[budman33]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Maybe she put everyone on ignore.
Gangbang???

Why are you calling her a bitch though???

Just playin. No offense intended

It’s strong, independent women, who stand up for what they believe in and don’t back down that are called it.

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by budman33

Just playin. No offense intended

It’s strong, independent women, who stand up for what they believe in and don’t back down that are called it.

I know!

Although, per your connotation; a bitch she does not make.



Juuuuust kiddiiiiiiiing!

Sincerely.

Bitchy Mcbitcherson

[WyldemanATX]

This was just another Hunter Scam!

[rockerrick]

Yep! Look at me, then disappear. The stench of desperation

[Old-T]

What a wonderfully absurd view of the world.

The guy with 15000+ posts wonders why other people have the audacity to post less frequently. Actually, it is called having a real life.

[rockerrick]

Or simply a look at me ThreAD like she always does?
Research before posting, she's the Queen of starting and abandoning ThreADs.