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saddletramp · 06-11-2014, 09:43 PM

For some of us clients giving the provider pleasure isn't a problem. Obviously others fall "short" of that ability.

Danielle Reid · 06-12-2014, 12:59 AM

I don't care if you please me. If you want to, fine. But I don't require it at all

bladtinzu · 06-12-2014, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MaryBeth

I don't care if you please me. If you want to, fine. But I don't require it at all

Which is why you are so awesome.

splitlog · 06-12-2014, 11:53 AM

If a pussy has that certain look ...... I crave going down on a provider. Most don't have that look. Different strokes. But when they do ...I could almost go down the entire visit and a quick for me to finish up.

Danielle Reid · 06-12-2014, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Which is why you are so awesome.

Aww thanks

Guest040816 · 06-12-2014, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by splitlog

If a pussy has that certain look ...... I crave going down on a provider. Most don't have that look. Different strokes. But when they do ...I could almost go down the entire visit and a quick for me to finish up.

I hear you brother,,,

offshoredrilling · 06-13-2014, 07:44 AM

Many providers in their mind have a way to keep a friendly with also client just friends and client. So that no one falls in puppy love and fucking it all up. Same if not wanting to become overly friendly with a client to keep him just a client.

O'ing could be one of. So will try not to, or hide it when she does.
So don't worry about it, or think of it as a challenge
just don't fuck it up latter

bladtinzu · 06-14-2014, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Many providers in their mind have a way to keep a friendly with also client just friends and client. So that no one falls in puppy love and fucking it all up. Same if not wanting to become overly friendly with a client to keep him just a client.

O'ing could be one of. So will try not to, or hide it when she does.
So don't worry about it, or think of it as a challenge
just don't fuck it up latter

Or you get what we had in the Houston section.. Which I refer to as "When White Knighting Goes Wrong". Once the weak pussy whipped gets rabid in their defense it is quite easy to "have a little fun" with them..

offshoredrilling · 06-15-2014, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Or you get what we had in the Houston section.. Which I refer to as "When White Knighting Goes Wrong". Once the weak pussy whipped gets rabid in their defense it is quite easy to "have a little fun" with them..

yup, but I was thinking San Antonio coed

I love this from a local mod post

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Originally Posted by Von Spieler

I hear the sounds of sighs for the moment.

We all know he will return. He already tried with another handle this eve and it is also sitting on a beach on vacation. When he does return, please refrain from feeding his hate. Most of the infractions and warnings given were from Hobbiests and Providers posting with their emotions and not using common sense.

This is not No Child Left Behind, everyone gets a ribbon for crossing the street. All the grandstanding and mob mentality of Wks, and WQs (White Queens) accomplished was nothing beneficial to the Board, Providers, or Hobbiests. The only thing it did was make The San Antonio COED look like the laughing stock of ECCIE. I enjoy coming to SA to visit and Hobby but why would any Hobbiests or Provider want to with the thought of possible outing?

Ya'll may not agree with what I have said, that's fine. If you do and can't be civil about it, please do not post it in the open but send me a pm.

"look like" should be replaced with "is" or "just was" IMHO

bladtinzu · 06-15-2014, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

yup, but I was thinking San Antonio coed

I love this from a local mod post

"look like" should be replaced with "is" or "just was" IMHO

Honestly as soon as a guy jumps in to WK for some whore the powers that be should issue a lifetime ban based on general principal. It would make this board so much better and with way way way less drama.

Rockydoc · 06-15-2014, 07:19 PM

As you have joined the ranks of the WN Blad, watch out what you ask for.

Start your own board if you want to make the rules.

Re the OP question. You are paying so you owe nothing. However, if you want repeat engagements or making them want to go the extra mile for you, providing an experience that was pleasant for the hooker is important. That dies not necessarily mean providing an O but it is one of the things that can create good will like

Good hygiene
Treating them with respect
Being nice to them
Perhaps providing them with something nice like an O, gift or tip.

Of course, if they need money or are not selective the need to please during a visit is less important.

Guest052616 · 06-15-2014, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockydoc

As you have joined the ranks of the WN Blad, watch out what you ask for.

Start your own board if you want to make the rules.

Re the OP question. You are paying so you owe nothing. However, if you want repeat engagements or making them want to go the extra mile for you, providing an experience that was pleasant for the hooker is important. That dies not necessarily mean providing an O but it is one of the things that can create good will like

Good hygiene
Treating them with respect
Being nice to them
Perhaps providing them with something nice like an O, gift or tip.

Of course, if they need money or are not selective the need to please during a visit is less important.

a good list... however i just threw a local here into my "banned from my panties" list because he took the GFE a little too serious... and threw a 2 yr old bitch fit when i had to inform him the difference between real world and hobby world.

As for being pleased... i enjoy being the pleaser... in an attempt to be my normal pleasing self the other night... one of your LR studs flipped the role and pleased me so much i damn near retired my vajayjay!! I have a hoohaw thats on cloud nine and im going to have to deny her any touching until i get there in LR... watch a LOT of porn... get her in need again.

Rockydoc · 06-15-2014, 08:10 PM

No doubt there is a line that cannot be crossed.

bladtinzu · 06-15-2014, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Re the OP question. You are paying so you owe nothing. However, if you want repeat engagements or making them want to go the extra mile for you, providing an experience that was pleasant for the hooker is important. That dies not necessarily mean providing an O but it is one of the things that can create good will like

Good hygiene
Treating them with respect
Being nice to them
Perhaps providing them with something nice like an O, gift or tip.

Of course, if they need money or are not selective the need to please during a visit is less important.[/COLOR]

So if you are paying you owe nothing in return for you getting yours yet if you want to become a repetitive trick you need to provide a gift, tip, or toe curling O? If you are clean, nice, and limit conversation to the bare minimum wouldn't the fact that you are paying and meet the above criteria be enough to have a continued business relationship (since this is in fact not the "Dating Game" or some life long BFF deal but in fact a pay for play deal)?

As for selective.. I have a fellow monger who is of African decent yet was born and raised in England. So he has that British accent. He has seen a lot of working girls who freely advertise "No AA Gents" due to his accent. 9 times out of 10 when they see him they still invite him in (and these are not some BP dwellers either). So selective kind of gets thrown out the door when cash is before them it seems (at least in 9 out of 10 cases with him). Plus I doubt these women are in this business for making friends or finding a potential husband. They are in it as a viable business they can run on their own. On their terms. If they want to see 20 guys one week and take a vacation to the beach the next they can. The end result is it pays the bills. Much like some of us guys who own our own business. Granted we don't have the option of getting an O going to work but same principal is it not?

Some of us guys strive to make it about us getting ours first and foremost. If by chance she gets hers during the process so be it. But the nature of this business is our pleasure correct? And yes everyone is different and some guys strive to provide (I am trying to understand that in all fairness).

bladtinzu · 06-15-2014, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

a good list... however i just threw a local here into my "banned from my panties" list because he took the GFE a little too serious... and threw a 2 yr old bitch fit when i had to inform him the difference between real world and hobby world.

I am truly sorry this happened to you DD.. Some guys cannot for the life of them comprehend that this is in fact a business and fail to separate emotions from the equation. Just because a chick gives an outstanding BBBJ does not in any way shape or form make her attracted to you outside of the business relationship. But some guys get all infatuated easily and it always ends badly. It is fucking business!! Or better yet the business of fucking.. Not some "Dating Game". Honestly if a guy wants more they really need to take a sabbatical from the hobby and hit up the dating sites which are so plentiful.